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Originally posted by: libran90
I agree with this Neelu, especially the bold parts. But I also think that there is a cultural and lifestyle difference might I add.
Imlie has been raised in utmost poverty with the added depravity of being an illegitimate born. People find it so hard to see beyond that and have poured filth at her throughout 19 years of her life. So accepting filth is nothing new for her. She is giving and easy in loving because she has been raised by that kind of a woman. But she is tough and strong because Dadda has made that contribution. She may not accept, but woh ladki pyaar ki bhooki hai, to agar kahi se bhi thoda sa mile, it pleases her the most. And Aditya and Ts were her apne in the sasural sense. So whatever she got from them, she can still accept. But Rathods are no one to her. They aren't related to her in any conventional sense. So accepting anything from them is difficult for her per se. But giving is what she can do, because she is so large hearted. She just needs the guidance to help express her emotions in a controlled way for the person in concern. Hang on to it and not give away everything.
Coming to Aryan, that guy has been raised with conventional acceptance of society with lot of love and care and affection and he genuinely has so much to offer. Honestly, the siblings have been raised well. But Arvind's death wasn't as impactful as what followed his death. Living in a home of zombies someone had to take charge, and other things within him took a back seat. The only thing which has given him strength is his anger for Aditya and it has kept him going. But, Imlie has made way into this small circle of his, and something else has began to matter to him. Also, men find it difficult to navigate their emotions unlike women.
Hence my conclusion, that whatever Aryan feels for Imlie will not come to the fore unless Imlie takes charge of her feelings and expresses the same to him. But Aryan is so coiled up in his shell, I am not sure he will fess up even when Imlie takes the courage to, and it will break that girl's heart. Hopefully Imlie helps him to ease out his emotions for her.
First bold : that's what I meant by socialisation. Honestly, I feel so battered by seeing this young girl lap up these crumbs of affection thrown to her by the Ts because it was legitimised by society. Honestly all classic signs of narcissistic abuse.
Second bold : you know I think that the revenge is not that important to Aryan as much as the abstract idea of it has driven him to get out of the bed for the past four years. It is interesting that he didn't even know about Imlie before taking over BT. If anything, he's been quite fair to Aditya at BT — even trying to guide him to do better. Now he has something else to wake uo for.
I always say that his true character came out after the mythological sex scene, and by how he treats the rest of the Ts. So naturally Imlie's accusations hurt him. He will ask the same question again when the truth about his stupid revenge comes out. And hopefully Imlie would have a different answer then.
Aise kahe tu talk kare
Dhadkan kahe meri tez kare
Laal suit mein Banda ekdum
Red-Velvet sundae lage
Haye garmi
Haye garmi
Garmi garmi bas sab jagah garmi
The way she looks at him in that last scene though - that was the first time I was like wow, she’s falling and she doesn’t even know it. It was subtle. Each of the times before then when he’d shown her just beneath the surface but that moment she couldn’t contain it. It’s one of my favourite moments.
There was surprise that turned to quick appreciation and understanding. She finally saw a glimpse of the man under the tough exterior. And Aru's awkwardness was so cute... one of my fav as well!
Aaja piya, mohe lori sunna
Sakht kalaiyan, zara sar pe chala
Haan, dhaal gaya din aur ho gai raat
Party k time par ban gai Aryan aur talli Imlie ki baat
Kabhi Neem Neem Kabhi Shahad Shahad
