Daily Discussions/ Live Updates/ Frustration Thread 07.01.22 - Page 11

Originally posted by: Kras1

but anu hi kyu manage kare and most important thing in sare jokers ne anu ke liye aisa kiya kya h jo usse itni expectations h inhe

and anu ke bacche bhi chote nahi h na 😵

and ye pakhi jabse show start hua h ek hi class mein h shayad abhi tak kabhi school se college jayegi ye ya nahi

True, they need to stop looking for Anu to solve their petty problems. But wanting her to be there if she's their mom and they love her (only valid for Samar and kinjal now) is also expected na. Pehle we used to have so many scenes with Samar and Anu - that has obviously gone down a lot. But Samar abhi when it comes to Anu is mostly perfect so I think he'll understand.

Originally posted by: Kras1

yes actually they all need psychiatric help aur isme burai bhi kya h

panic attacks aana bhi to mental issue h yr

healing ke liye self confidence ke saath saath professional help aur unconditional love sabki need hoti h

in teeno mein se ek ki bhi kami kabhi proper healing nahi kar pati

baki makers jane yr

Yess. I'm one if those people that believes that everyone should go to therapy! The number of sessions that one goes to can differ from person to person - but a lot of theories suggest that you have patterns of working or ways of thinking that are ingrained since childhood. Someone may be able to identify them and correct them but a therapist definitely provides an objective perspective into your life. But ofc this would be quite a radical concept where even going to therapy for mental illnesses is stigmatized!

Originally posted by: cherry1111

True, they need to stop looking for Anu to solve their petty problems. But wanting her to be there if she's their mom and they love her (only valid for Samar and kinjal now) is also expected na. Pehle we used to have so many scenes with Samar and Anu - that has obviously gone down a lot. But Samar abhi when it comes to Anu is mostly perfect so I think he'll understand.

na ho to accha but kya kare makers ko bimari h har insaan jo nuclear family ki baat kare use galat light mein dikhane ki khair😵

we all know ye sare milkar anu and anuj ka bhi jeena mushkil karne wale h with their baseless tantrums and accusation

mujhe to lagta h toshu ne mafi maangi h na wo issiliye taki aage aur drame kar sake

oh GOD please help me don't know kyu faltu soch rahi main😭

You know pooja I don't usually speak on such topics bcz I don't really have long words in my lexicon to justify what I'm feeling and I end up saying something absolutely stupid 🙃

Anyway since you have asked my opinion to i would take the risk of talking on a topic which is neither troll worthy nor funny

Disclaimer:I haven't spoken sense in last 5000 years so if I say something stupid kindly laugh on my stupidity and ignore

So let's come to the point

You know today when I saw anupama shedding tears after remembering that horrendous day I was so touched and shaken.

Like I realised that there are certain things which never get healed no matter how many times we have talked about it or how far we have come in life.

Like right now Anu is so happy in her life with Anuj but still she gets the same rush in her veins and tears in her eyes when she recalls the past (and i don't think this will ever change.)

The only difference between anu and mukku here is that anu has learnt to bury her pain 10000 ft deep ,within a vast jungle, decorated with beautiful flowers where nobody can see it whereas mukku is still wandering in that jungle looking for a shelter.

And for that we have to praise anu..matlab apart from being extremely pakaau with her bhashans and quite stupid when it comes to vanraaj she is really a strong and inspirational human being .

They say that anything that does not kill you makes you stronger and anu is the jeeti jaagti proof of that.(I hope jitni strong emotionally hai physically bhi ho fir maan suhaag raat me maza aayega🤣)

Phewwwww my tharak 🤡

Haan so let's come back to mukku

Pehle to hats off to aneri🙌 for making me feel that scene bcz trust me I have watched enough itv and many have shown this domestic violence wala track in their show but I usually end up laughing on their acting inspite of this being a sensitive topic.

You know the main problem with mukku is that she keeps connecting everything in present to something which has already caused her the most pain in past and thats why everything that has hurt her in the past keeps hurting her forever.

Like when she saw that domestic violence wala scene in front of her then she immediately connected it with her own story and thats why she got traumatised.(her reaction is very much obvious I agree)

Anyway I hope makers will deal with this topic in a sensitive manner and not in a Dhoom tana manner they are known for p

And I can clearly say that anu is the perfect person to help mukku...not because she is a very good person or has lots of love for people but because she has already been at that place and she can tell mukku that it will not hurt forever and eventually everything will be alright.

Yeah but I don't expect anu to heal mukku.Matlab yeah she can help her in the healing process but how the duck is she supposed to heal her...i mean she is not an antiseptic cream or something 😂😂

Like come on It's unfair to have such unrealistic expectations from our loved ones,friends or any one in the world.Why should they burden themselves with this additional task of healing another human being....they already have so much in their own plate to deal with.

All anu can do is to provide mukku the necessary items for healing baaki Jo karna hai mukku ko khud hi karna parega l😪

Originally posted by: RainFire125

that was very very brave of her!!! Opening up one's wound to show that you have that will and power to move forward is like showing by example and that is the best way to motivate someone!! Kudos again to the writers for thinking this through

it does take a lot of courage to revisit your own past to help another heal...though the pain never left Anu, she is trying to put it behind her, the scars will always be there and she will pick on the scars now and again.

Originally posted by: hinz

it does take a lot of courage to revisit your own past to help another heal...though the pain never left Anu, she is trying to put it behind her, the scars will always be there and she will pick on the scars now and again.

Agreed Hinzeee; this also helps that person to step out and view her owns scars from a third person's perspective. woh bolte hain na ki at times we are better supporters of ourselves than therapists!! Ofcourse for this one needs to have a very strong mindset and one needs to have that zeal to move out and LIVE, Breath and be HAPPY!

Originally posted by: shriz

You know pooja I don't usually speak on such topics bcz I don't really have long words in my lexicon to justify what I'm feeling and I end up saying something absolutely stupid 🙃

Anyway since you have asked my opinion to i would take the risk of talking on a topic which is neither troll worthy nor funny

Disclaimer:I haven't spoken sense in last 5000 years so if I say something stupid kindly laugh on my stupidity and ignore

So let's come to the point

You know today when I saw anupama shedding tears after remembering that horrendous day I was so touched and shaken.

Like I realised that there are certain things which never get healed no matter how many times we have talked about it or how far we have come in life.

Like right now Anu is so happy in her life with Anuj but still she gets the same rush in her veins and tears in her eyes when she recalls the past (and i don't think this will ever change.)

The only difference between anu and mukku here is that anu has learnt to bury her pain 10000 ft deep ,within a vast jungle, decorated with beautiful flowers where nobody can see it whereas mukku is still wandering in that jungle looking for a shelter.

And for that we have to praise anu..matlab apart from being extremely pakaau with her bhashans and quite stupid when it comes to vanraaj she is really a strong and inspirational human being .

They say that anything that does not kill you makes you stronger and anu is the jeeti jaagti proof of that.(I hope jitni strong emotionally hai physically bhi ho fir maan suhaag raat me maza aayega🤣)

Phewwwww my tharak 🤡

Haan so let's come back to mukku

Pehle to hats off to aneri🙌 for making me feel that scene bcz trust me I have watched enough itv and many have shown this domestic violence wala track in their show but I usually end up laughing on their acting inspite of this being a sensitive topic.

You know the main problem with mukku is that she keeps connecting everything in present to something which has already caused her the most pain in past and thats why everything that has hurt her in the past keeps hurting her forever.

Like when she saw that domestic violence wala scene in front of her then she immediately connected it with her own story and thats why she got traumatised.(her reaction is very much obvious I agree)

Anyway I hope makers will deal with this topic in a sensitive manner and not in a Dhoom tana manner they are known for p

And I can clearly say that anu is the perfect person to help mukku...not because she is a very good person or has lots of love for people but because she has already been at that place and she can tell mukku that it will not hurt forever and eventually everything will be alright.

Yeah but I don't expect anu to heal mukku.Matlab yeah she can help her in the healing process but how the duck is she supposed to heal her...i mean she is not an antiseptic cream or something 😂😂

Like come on It's unfair to have such unrealistic expectations from our loved ones,friends or any one in the world.Why should they burden themselves with this additional task of healing another human being....they already have so much in their own plate to deal with.

All anu can do is to provide mukku the necessary items for healing baaki Jo karna hai mukku ko khud hi karna parega l😪

🤗🤗🤗

kaun kambhakth bolta hai ki u talk stupid????????????? we all are very emotional writers meri behen!!! tu likhti nahin hai yeh alag baat hai....was great to read!!!

Originally posted by: RainFire125

A small change in my opinion - verbal and emotional abuses leaves a much deeper impact than physical abuse!! It marks your self worth and individuality and somewhere you forget that you exist. So this is 10 times more difficult to rise from than a mere physical abuse. Physical abuse induces fear, mental abuse removes the need to live!! When the makers have touched this, they need also to show the healing and rise properly. The writers are all ladies and I hope they will do justice

True that. Verbal and emotional abuse left you worthless, even make you consider no one, a mere machine left not a person. This is very critical issue, now it is touched, everything regarding it would be handled downfall, breakdowns and rise.

hina i need a help

somebody was asking me ki yaha apna usename kaise change kar sakte h

i said hina se puchkar bataungi😆

do you know this yr

Originally posted by: RainFire125

very true Ayushi. A mental abuse which is a total brutality on your existence is much much more difficult to overcome!! Sometimes no amount of encouragement helps. Its like you have lost that zeal to live, you dont see anything, life has become a pit literally!! I have seen people and have been with them in that pit. If we take even one single step towards life, I will applaud and carry that person myself for having that courage, for stepping towards success!!! RESPECT for such people!!

I know this feeling yaar. A fear engulfed you, Aap apne liye even wanha se nikalne k liye b himmat ni kr pate ho. But this whole process teaches you one thing a person can frightened untill you allow him. For better life you definetly need a push or any source.