Is it too much to ask for Dhara's apology? - Page 2

Originally posted by: mpks1

Dhara’s apology is very much required. I have been watching this show from Day 1 and I can clearly see the difference between pre-leap and post-leap Dhara. Since the wedding and most importantly Danda kaand and batwara, she has not been the same Dhara we were all introduced at the beginning of the show. She never bothered to apologize to Shiva and Krish for hitting them mercilessly but then they made the brothers her andh bhakt and everything she did was brushed under the carpet.

But this time, both the girls are so hurt and no one can see it or feel it in that house?
Their husbands are being so oblivious and are talking about red roses and love proposal

Dhara’s flaws are brushed aside or explained that whatever she does is all for the family. And the way the andh bhakts and Suman fall into the trap every time is appalling.

These 2 girls who have married and come into the family, are constantly being treated as outsiders, have every right to ask” yeh bhabi chaap log kyun shaadi karte hain” 😕

And of I talk about Shiva 2.0, it is never ending for me. I am trying to forget that version of him but it is very difficult especially when he kept mum when Raavi was being abused by his mother and when he himself almost moved on with Disha while still being married to Raavi.

Raavi forgave him too easily. His andh bhakti of BhabiMa is going to come back to bite him this time.😔

So true right?

Rishita has always been headstrong about her stand. Though she keeps blackmailing about going back to her place, there are no reasons for her to stay in a place that gives no respect to her emotions.

Dev did a love marriage with Rishita that too leaving Raavi alone in the altar and he is talking about choosing family over everyone.

Rishita trusted him and if he couldn't understand her turmoil and support her, he shouldn't have married her at all.

If they are trying to actualise the problematics, it was from Dev that everything started. He couldn't find a balance between his family and his spouse. He failed terribly as a husband and nobody is addressing it!

Dhara has so much to apologise. She betrayed Raavi in the marriage altar, she got two people married for the sake of the society and expected Raavi and Shiva to adust and move on. How could she?

Despite all that, she accepted Dhara which takes a great and forgiving heart.

Dhara raised hands on the Dev, Shiva and Krish a lot of times. It cannot be justified. Even a mother harshly abusing the child is unacceptable how did she have the rights to hit them?

I was mad at Raavi being okay with them for being hit. Gautam too. It was unjustified.

When it came to Raavi all that Dhara ever did was to use her like a toy. She always justified Shiva's flaws in front of her, always expected Raavi to be forgiving and never spoke a word back when she got insulted and hurt time and again.

Shiva has manhandled Raavi quite a lot of times. He never took a word against Dhara but when it came to Raavi, he turned deaf. He has even given up on her when Raavi only fought for him most of the times ever since she started to understand him. He turned silent to the catcalls of his mother, was okay with being engaged to another woman despite being married to Raavi. What is difference between Dev and Shiva here? Dev left Raavi, humiliating her in the altar and Shiva's ego was ready to lead another woman on.

All of this makes me feel so over protective of Raavi. Rishita too.

I'm happy in a certain way for the confession not taking place. Shiva needs a reality check, Raavi also needs to apologise for slapping him. And without a proper addressing of the problem, the plot will be incomplete.

Dhara needs to apologise for everything!

Originally posted by: Khoobsurat123

I agree to all the point:

They tried numerous times to make Dhara lovable to all but none work out. She is absolute selfish and even acted as negative person most of the time🤢.

Her apology is very much needed:

1) When she beat down both Krish and Shiva mercilessly

2) When she called out Raavi and Anita same. Even questioned Raavi's relation with all the three brothers.

3) When she called Gaumbi a two timer😡 that too in front of whole somnath.

4) When she called Gaumbi Hatyaara and he never needed her or the child.

5) Even today for hiding the truth from Raavi and Rishita. Whatever she did, if she thinks that is the only way at that time okay but apology doesn't make her small. She should apologize to both of them Rishita stand by her whenever she needed if one apology can solve the problem so what's the big deal.

And Raavi, she always thought of her as sister, but Dhara never did😵. She always betrayed her at the wedding time with Dev and even now. The girl who left her self respect for her, she can't say a sorry to her🤢🤢. How can anyone expect her to be mahaan? She is selfish to the core, if she poke her nose from now on in their marriage or try to be mahaan without accepting her mistake👎🏼.

I truly want Dhara to apologize for above points otherwise there is no reason to be fake mahaan aatma. Her apology to Gautam is so so required so that I can feel a bit for Gaura.

All of this only proves that tele vamps are better than Dhara in the name of being a mahaan or motherly figure or whatsoever! They show their colors openly to the world at least.

I don't know what Gautam and Dhara's relationship is anymore! It's nothing more than an eyesore. They cannot even redeem them. Such bad writing! I don't understand why they are doing this. Really.

Originally posted by: Darshi141

I agree with you whole heartedly. I don't know what kind of delusional world they are living in that they think fuski kaands & backless blouse wali bhabhi the great is what audience wants to see. These two girls deserve everything.. Especially Raavi.. She did so much for her & this woman dhara couldn't even spare a glance at her when she almost died?? Do they really think people will relate with dhara.. They would relate if this high & mighty family would introspect, recognize their mistakes, apologize & rectify it... Dhara, Suman & her heere jaise bete should be thankful for getting these girls as bahus

It's so frustrating & toxic to see most abusive people get away & victims of these emotional abuse have to apologize.. Especially Raavi.. Do they think what kind of toxicity they are serving??

Every other show which is getting TRP is bcz they are showing wrong as wrong no matter who does that.. They are showing proper redemption of lead characters too.. Here we are just fed with bhabhi, her toxic mahant, her SR, her saari & all the fuski kaands.. The show which has the potential to be TRP topper is settled with 1.9 TRP & they are thinking they are doing great.. How pathetic is that

In the end we all know it's going to be bhabhi mahant & Raavi apologising to her & do more bhakti than ever & Rishita joining her this time.. I just hate to see potential getting ruined for God knows what reason!!

Yes! Every other show have a completion to the track. Here, they are upto one thing or the other, easily hurting people and getting away without a proper apology.

It's so troublesome now. It has become unbearable especially after Raavi has realised her place in the house. I really want her to choose herself. She has been broken from her bubble of dreams after a long long time, let it be like that. Forgiving Dhara would just....I cannot take. They don't deserve Raavi let alone for her apology!

Praffula deserves more love from Raavi than the any of the Pandyas, including Shiva. I will keep saying that till he stands up for his wife and fights for her against the world.

Originally posted by: ClumsyMe

Yes! Every other show have a completion to the track. Here, they are upto one thing or the other, easily hurting people and getting away without a proper apology.

It's so troublesome now. It has become unbearable especially after Raavi has realised her place in the house. I really want her to choose herself. She has been broken from her bubble of dreams after a long long time, let it be like that. Forgiving Dhara would just....I cannot take. They don't deserve Raavi let alone for her apology!

Praffula deserves more love from Raavi than the any of the Pandyas, including Shiva. I will keep saying that till he stands up for his wife and fights for her against the world.

I second this. Mera dil Raavi jitna bada nhi hai

It’s so so obvious that there is a difference in Pre and post leap Dhara. The post leap Dhara is not mahaan she is not self sacrificing and nor is she mature. Which is fine, but then the devars attitude towards their bhabhi should also adjust. She can’t be assistant saas when she wants and just a bahu trying to get pregnant when she wants.

Then the contrast is tooo jarring. It’s like the makers do bharta of tracks and then slap on a Dhara is mahaan tag line at the end to justify their ridiculous plot lines.

And my baby girl Raavi! She is too naram Dil for this family. She doesn’t deserve a family who can’t even acknowledge she had a near death experience, that bringing in another woman in the middle of her divorce (when she came to PN for Dhara) would be humiliating and hurtful for her. My heart breaks for her… this world is too cruel a place for her. I need shiva to change his behaviour and protect her with all his might, otherwise the romance will eventually start feeling fake and without depth.

Great topic...yes I agree, I am so fed up with Dhara being Mahaan all the time and boys agreeing to whatever she says. I wish Ravi would move out for a few days, so they understand how valuable she is to the family and specially Shiva. and I want shiva to convince her to move back and give her the respect and attention she deserves.

First of all, I usually don't post things here except a few times now and then. But I have posted my fair share of posts about how much I dislike the over glorification of dhara and how she is never held responsible or wrong for any of her actions. But this time, I think she needs to apologize only to rishita not raavi. Like what is raavi even being over dramatic about ? They just didn't tell her something that was not even related to her. She is categorizing that as dhokha. Really?? By that logic, gautam and Suman should also start yelling dhokha dhokha because they were not a part of their plan either. Raavi's drama is giving me the vibe of a small child who is upset because she is included in everything. Rishita's anger is something I can understand because she was actually feeling hurt and was happy that dev supported her only to find out that all of it was a plan. That is something I would call a dhokha.

Raavi is just ranting for no reason and doesn't care about her relationship with Shiva which was finally settling after so long. Makers have lost their mind for even forcing this dhokha nonsense in shivi's track. I have always said in the past and I am saying it again. Raavi forcefully creates issues which do not exist and makes a mountain out of mole. She has done this in past and is doing it again

Dora devi se maafi expect karna is useless Dekhana end me raavi rishita us pagal aurat se maafi mangenge aur YKB moment bnake sab khatam aur stupid gaura ko lag rh hi ki raavi paiso ke liye gussa hai isiliye wo 2no pagal bank account khulwa rhe hai. Aj ke Episode me bhi gaumbi ne bola ki raavi ke andar ka zaher shiva ke man me naa aa jaye mtlb is pagal gaura ko ye fikar nhi hai ki shivi ka rishta tut jaaega unko ye fikr hai ki shiva unki bhakti karna chhod dega. What about toxic family man😡😡😡. I toh really wish raavi dhara mahanta ki murat ki achchi band bajaye. Par Show me to ye hone se rha isiliye I kindly request aur superb indiaforum writers to write some OS aur TS on dhara ki band bajao by raavi jisme shivi fans ka full frustration nikal jate dhara ko leke plzzzzzzz koi to likho