Is it too much to ask for Dhara's apology?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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To the dear maker's, if you are ever reading this, please give us a solution.

The show started off at good note, it kept going good until it turned into a super hero show. Today's generation is trying to deal and fight off the toxicity that you are randomly throwing on each characters and mind that that you haven't give them the justice they deserved.

You wanna know why other shows are getting the recognition they need? Because they complete a plot both circumstantially and emotionally.

Gautam and Dhara are lacking the basic maturity they had in the initial episodes. They were well appreciated because people witnessed a familiarity and a growth in them. They were easily able to connect with their characters. But now, Dhara is an alien and so is Gautam. How can such toxicity be so keenly given to the audience? It's your delusion that Shivi is central reason for the raise and drop in TRP. Shivi has always been a stable reason for the audience but each time trp rises or falls, it is not Shivi it is the blanching plot that you serve to people that gets hectic to the core that causes the tremor.

Society can be hard, painful and hurting but family cannot. It's so difficult to watch an unapologetic Dhara, she could have been unapologetic had she been right in all the instances. Where is the justice to other characters? Where are the recognition of their roles and contribution to the family?

I cannot believe it is the same makers who have given such a mature storyline to Dhara and Gautam in the initial episodes that have now killed their essence and incinerated them to ashes.

Maturity comes from understanding, it comes from dealing with emotions. What is the point of calling this an ensemble show when only one person is given with all the importance? Even then, where is the justice to Gautam? He's been running behind Dhara, trying to make her understand all the time. Gautam has equal role in the upbringing of Dev, Shiva and Krish. He's just been characterized like puppet.

Had the show showed them being this immature initially I wouldn't have ever voiced this out at all. But you people pulled out a good story line only to burn them with so called 'Kaands'.

Had a man said the same bullshit Dev had said to Rishita, any person in their sane mind will break from the wedlock. It's NOT stupidity. And it's NOT a wrong thing to do! She was in fact very very right in choosing herself over her so called husband. Rishita should not and cannot be apologetic about that. It is his family that should understand her as an individual and not vice-versa.

And Raavi? Oh what not has Raavi done for Dhara and her family? She had bent her self respect for the love she had over them. And what did they do to her? 👏

Shiva was supposed to beg for a little longer. Cause he has never stood up for her in front of his mother. He stood silently when his mother kept speaking nuisance about her, hurting her, taunting her, breaking her self respect again and again. He still does not deserve her in ways more than one. And should Raavi apologize to Dhara for misunderstanding the so called Dhara? Where was Dhara when Raavi was being taunted? And Raavi is a fool actually. She went through so much of hell and still chose to love that family unconditionally!

I hope you know that most of the audience came back only after Shiva's apology. Growth is what people are looking for and not some drama.

And Shiva has not done something great enough for Raavi to fall in love with him. He had kept Raavi and Dhara in the same pedestal. Do you even know how problematic that is? His wife and his sister in law? God! I wish I could take Raavi away from these selfish alligators!

Raavi is Raavi, falling for Raavi because she behaves like Dhara is absolutely the most cheapest thing to ever do. And despite that audience kept coming back to the show, only hoping for some growth. (And the for the chemistry of Alice and KD, no denying.)

Raavi will always be a step higher but if you are planning to butcher her, trust me your trp and your show will both drown in the deepest sea. Shiva needs to level up, do something better, grow into a better person, be a keeper enough to stand up for her, fight against the world for her, celebrate her, cherish her, pamper her and face the world with her. I can't believe you reduced Shiva to a puppet in the hands of Dhara. (Yes you made Dhara look like a vamp! Even Vamps are better, they show their colours openly to the world.)

Dhara has her flaws. Having a flaw is not the problem. Recognising them, understanding it and growing from it is the most essentially needed trait especially when living with a family.

Nobody is born to be perfect, with Dhara not addressing her imperfections, she is turning more toxic. And trust me, nobody would love her character sketch no matter how much she tries to be a great person in anybody's eyes. Doing a mistake and justifying it with a reason will not undo what has been done. It's called a blatant self justification. It's more rusting and harmful.

Family is meant to adress issues, fight, accept mistakes and move on. Nobody is great or less in a family, everybody are equal when they live together.

I hope you all know that being imperfect is different from being toxic.

I don't want to ruin the newyear with positive expectations turning negative. Even if the plot goes positive, I'm content to remember Raavi's cute smile after Shiva's kiss.

And and and trust me makers, you will loose audience if Raavi apologizes to Dhara. If she needs to apologise for the basic rights of questioning against groupism that the family showed against Raavi and Rishita, then the show deserves to be shut down.


This is the last day of the year, I just wanted to say this and start off anew.

Now that I have said, I wish everyone who are reading this a very happy New year! May you all find joys and wonders in the upcoming year! ❤️


-Dyuthi.

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Posted: 3 years ago
#2

YES!!

Aap chaand taare maang lo, wo shayad mil jaye par Dhara aur maafi maange???? Wo bhi Raavi aur Rishita jaise tuchh praniyon se?!!!!! What absurdity would it be?!!!

About the TRPs, what happened with the makers is that they read somewhere ki ITV par drama dekhna chahte hai log but they misread "drama" as "d(ha)rama".

Aur kya hua, pata hai? In trying to make a brand out of their show, they made it rather bland. Aur jaise khane mein agar namak (read flawed and human characters) na ho toh kitna bhi "tadka" laga lo, pheeka hi lagega.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I don't know where to vent it out. I'm honestly fed up of dhara and her absurdity. Pehli baar rishita ke liye bahut bura laga. Kuch bhi ho , janardhan ka naam lete hai and it's not funny anymore. RishVi deserve better. And how did Shiva and Dev expect that their wives would be okay and start dancing like fools after everything that happened ?


I'll take a break and focus on my placements and comeback. I need positivity at the moment aur woh positivity iss show se dur dur tak nazar nahi aa raha hai

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Great post! This kinda sums up how I am feeling about the show, I have been watching from the beginning but just recently joined the forum. Its nice to see others have similar thoughts about the story and characterization.

Dhara is being a little too much and I miss the old Dhara. I know she was supposed to be the ideal bahu and saintly Babhima but she has made too many mistake to keep being worshipped blindly.

Honestly, after the whole divorce track with Shivi, I was hoping for an apology for Raavi, from most family members, I wanted them to make it up to her. But they kinda just glossed over all the torture she went through and moved on. I know Shiva did apologize I felt like it wasn't enough because he was silent for so long. And now while I am happy watching the cute Shivi scenes, I am not content with how they are moving forward without resolving all the previous issues.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Dhara’s apology is very much required. I have been watching this show from Day 1 and I can clearly see the difference between pre-leap and post-leap Dhara. Since the wedding and most importantly Danda kaand and batwara, she has not been the same Dhara we were all introduced at the beginning of the show. She never bothered to apologize to Shiva and Krish for hitting them mercilessly but then they made the brothers her andh bhakt and everything she did was brushed under the carpet.

But this time, both the girls are so hurt and no one can see it or feel it in that house?
Their husbands are being so oblivious and are talking about red roses and love proposal

Dhara’s flaws are brushed aside or explained that whatever she does is all for the family. And the way the andh bhakts and Suman fall into the trap every time is appalling.

These 2 girls who have married and come into the family, are constantly being treated as outsiders, have every right to ask” yeh bhabi chaap log kyun shaadi karte hain” 😕

And of I talk about Shiva 2.0, it is never ending for me. I am trying to forget that version of him but it is very difficult especially when he kept mum when Raavi was being abused by his mother and when he himself almost moved on with Disha while still being married to Raavi.

Raavi forgave him too easily. His andh bhakti of BhabiMa is going to come back to bite him this time.😔


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Posted: 3 years ago
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I agree to all the point:

They tried numerous times to make Dhara lovable to all but none work out. She is absolute selfish and even acted as negative person most of the time🤢.

Her apology is very much needed:

1) When she beat down both Krish and Shiva mercilessly

2) When she called out Raavi and Anita same. Even questioned Raavi's relation with all the three brothers.

3) When she called Gaumbi a two timer😡 that too in front of whole somnath.

4) When she called Gaumbi Hatyaara and he never needed her or the child.

5) Even today for hiding the truth from Raavi and Rishita. Whatever she did, if she thinks that is the only way at that time okay but apology doesn't make her small. She should apologize to both of them Rishita stand by her whenever she needed if one apology can solve the problem so what's the big deal.

And Raavi, she always thought of her as sister, but Dhara never did😵. She always betrayed her at the wedding time with Dev and even now. The girl who left her self respect for her, she can't say a sorry to her🤢🤢. How can anyone expect her to be mahaan? She is selfish to the core, if she poke her nose from now on in their marriage or try to be mahaan without accepting her mistake👎🏼.

I truly want Dhara to apologize for above points otherwise there is no reason to be fake mahaan aatma. Her apology to Gautam is so so required so that I can feel a bit for Gaura.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rattus_Ruhi

YES!!

Aap chaand taare maang lo, wo shayad mil jaye par Dhara aur maafi maange???? Wo bhi Raavi aur Rishita jaise tuchh praniyon se?!!!!! What absurdity would it be?!!!

About the TRPs, what happened with the makers is that they read somewhere ki ITV par drama dekhna chahte hai log but they misread "drama" as "d(ha)rama".

Aur kya hua, pata hai? In trying to make a brand out of their show, they made it rather bland. Aur jaise khane mein agar namak (read flawed and human characters) na ho toh kitna bhi "tadka" laga lo, pheeka hi lagega.

So true! Dhara has now become insignificant and strange. It's so difficult to watch her secenes anymore.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manasa09

I don't know where to vent it out. I'm honestly fed up of dhara and her absurdity. Pehli baar rishita ke liye bahut bura laga. Kuch bhi ho , janardhan ka naam lete hai and it's not funny anymore. RishVi deserve better. And how did Shiva and Dev expect that their wives would be okay and start dancing like fools after everything that happened ?


I'll take a break and focus on my placements and comeback. I need positivity at the moment aur woh positivity iss show se dur dur tak nazar nahi aa raha hai

I can relate with you. Most of us have lost interest, the crux of the show has been spun into a nonsensical mess and is served forcefully without connectivity.

Rishita has been self centred in many ways but I feel Rishita choosing herself over everyone is a better thing to do. She has stood in her place strongly and spoke her mind without regrets. She even apologized for her mistakes and tried her best to adust and survive in that place. At least Raavi came by her choice, she loved the family ever since her childhood (Though she was forced to marry Shiva, she was not hating his family, she felt comfortable with them). In case of Rishita, it is Dev's fault. Such a spineless man he is! He had the audacity to leave a woman in the marriage altar to marry somebody else, betraying everybody who trusted him and couldn't keep her well after marrying. He does not have the rights to say that he would choose his family over everyone! Such a chameleon!

Raavi and Rishita deserve better!

Prafulla though is a vicious woman, her greed never suppressed Raavi. She gave such a love to her! Raavi deserves it. Maami is hundred times better than a family that cannot understand Raavi's importance.


Taking a break is the best option! Our positivity is more important than this.


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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shivi-Shivika

Great post! This kinda sums up how I am feeling about the show, I have been watching from the beginning but just recently joined the forum. Its nice to see others have similar thoughts about the story and characterization.

Dhara is being a little too much and I miss the old Dhara. I know she was supposed to be the ideal bahu and saintly Babhima but she has made too many mistake to keep being worshipped blindly.

Honestly, after the whole divorce track with Shivi, I was hoping for an apology for Raavi, from most family members, I wanted them to make it up to her. But they kinda just glossed over all the torture she went through and moved on. I know Shiva did apologize I felt like it wasn't enough because he was silent for so long. And now while I am happy watching the cute Shivi scenes, I am not content with how they are moving forward without resolving all the previous issues.

I agree with you.

They glossed over the issue. I'm not okay with Raavi being okay about it. What did she not have in her house? Praffula literally would have searched for a person who treated her like a queen! She deserved to be treated like one. All that ever came from Raavi for everybody was immense love and prayers. She cried for Dhara and celebrated her happiness, empathized Rishita and stood for her always, stood for Shiva, Krish and Gautam, she forgave Dev, brushed off all the ills done by Suman and hugged her with such a love and above all, she forgave Shiva who out of his ego was ready to get engaged to somebody else in his courtship.


Dhara couldn't do a percentage of what Raavi has done for the Pandyas. Had she and Gautam raised Dev well, Janardhan wouldn't have come behind him like he is doing down.🤪

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I agree with you whole heartedly. I don't know what kind of delusional world they are living in that they think fuski kaands & backless blouse wali bhabhi the great is what audience wants to see. These two girls deserve everything.. Especially Raavi.. She did so much for her & this woman dhara couldn't even spare a glance at her when she almost died?? Do they really think people will relate with dhara.. They would relate if this high & mighty family would introspect, recognize their mistakes, apologize & rectify it... Dhara, Suman & her heere jaise bete should be thankful for getting these girls as bahus


It's so frustrating & toxic to see most abusive people get away & victims of these emotional abuse have to apologize.. Especially Raavi.. Do they think what kind of toxicity they are serving??


Every other show which is getting TRP is bcz they are showing wrong as wrong no matter who does that.. They are showing proper redemption of lead characters too.. Here we are just fed with bhabhi, her toxic mahant, her SR, her saari & all the fuski kaands.. The show which has the potential to be TRP topper is settled with 1.9 TRP & they are thinking they are doing great.. How pathetic is that


In the end we all know it's going to be bhabhi mahant & Raavi apologising to her & do more bhakti than ever & Rishita joining her this time.. I just hate to see potential getting ruined for God knows what reason!!

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