Adi-Imlie + Shaadi ka double laddoo, DT Note 56 - Page 89

I shudder to think what we gonna get the next few episodes. Overdoes of winky and carbon copy . I mean they made so much effort to show this wedding is not blessed or done properly.. . Muharat gone, no blessings .. I mean.. how much more can they nichode? Adilie have become scrawny with all the fluids they have lost crying. It’s a very genuine confusion on my part

Posting from another thread here to: 😊

Yesterday episode had me pondering over so many issues and far more unanswered questions. So many viewers keep viewing this as Aditya payback for all the harm he has caused a payback for the wrongs he has committed which in actuality he has not made by himself if one measures these actions against the people that have been wronged by his behaviour. This constant need to view Aditya self destructive behaviour is becoming tiresome in the grand scheme of things when on views the lack of communication upheld by Imlie that has lead her to this point in her own relationship.

A poisons apple comes to mind when manipulating can be used for all to see yet none to challenge. I often wonder when people referred to Snow White and the wicked witch was this a tale of jealousy or something else. Yet today when I watch the clip of the tale again I am left pondering over the time when Aditya and Maline had the same conversation about similarities and the need of differences between them both and how once growth stems from these opposing views. In a way today it was proven again that although Maline claimed to be just like Aditya in a way she never really was. Her personality and interest stemmed of the identity and ideals of having his love and not being in love with the man he is. His whole foundation lays upon his own truth and one can say that Maline doesn’t judge matters related to herself on that principle her whole lead unto this second marriage has been of her rights but we also question what is that exactly? Is that the right to be his friend, lover, wife or the mother of there children. For if she had loved him she would have heard his plea, seen his silent death and saw the same fade away when he spoke of his love for another and anchored his dreams in that of the future he wanted but didn’t wish to walk with her her or saw through her eyes as he may once thought he did. One could clearly see he returned to her void and empty to own his soulless faith.

It was at that time when that very once sacred fire became the poisonous apple in the tale for in reality did it really bring Maline the closure she believed she deserved. Not really for the man she once had left her behind a long time ago. Today she sits with a shell that stems of the ideology she has of them and not what they truly are. In a way it reminded me off all the marriage Aditya has had and his actions that lead him through those emotions. Back then everyone was quick to lay blame ar his door just as they did today for him giving up but if one looks at the foundation of the marriage one had stripped him of his choice and another was one he thought he wanted and committed to till he learnt that maybe that is not what he had wanted to start with. I just wonder how many times can he tell her the same thing or show the viewers of what he wants and needs before it will hit home.

Love doesn’t self destruct for that happens when we choke it to death with unkind words and empty promises. The saddest part in it all when so many viewers say Aditya is to blame in this situation at the alter one can clearly see that he made none of these to both woman. He was neither unkind and nor did he promise them something he could not deliver. As soon as he felt his feelings did not mirror his heart he spoke his soul and let out the same emotions through the truth he told each individual. The lack of acceptance by both woman is there blame to carry and not his alone. For they became the poisonous apple by laying the blame alone at his feet while they tried to bend him to there wills. But in the end to keep such love alive should one simply not just accept the man he is with the flaws he has and be wise to what we have and not of what we lack so we breath into it the spirit that binds you. In a way why should he have waited for Imlie to learn this as he waited at Mandir when he had held his hand out as a guide through all there challenges. Showed her a way through it with or without his advice for the both of them and themselves. That’s what dreams are made of choices of wanting to take that leap of faith.

As his soul burns away to ashes I was left wondering these thoughts and these thoughts alone.When does one start to question the truth of authority? Where does on lay boundaries? Does one self obsession ever end or does authority overlook the need of morality? Yet I set these thoughts aside as I end this rambling thought with a equation of what takes more president is it self obsession v morality in this latest twist we can say that clearly the need for the cliche of revenge to win we have seen self obsession tale president when in reality morality should have been the true winner today. For when one looks at the mirror today the reflection doesn’t represent that of good or evil but it represents the loss of faith for a mirage can be made for what we want to believe it to be but what does one do when that essence has been burnt to the ground. It is sad that Maline believes she had turned back the clock and taken back control of what was hers when in reality she had lost more of it then she can imagine. It is sad that the makers have to spell out the flaws we saw a year ago to viewers that deny to see it for what it was. I am cannot believe people would be willing to accept a loveless marriage then why should Aditya have to. In this we can say at the start there were three victims because of the faithful twist yet today there are only two because the other knew the measure of what her decision held and that cannot be denied no matter how much you white wash it under the carpet or avoid to answer it.

On the other side Imlie has lost the one valued thing she had which was his love which can not be bought but just earned. She in a way burnt the only relationship that actually saw her as an equal stood by her when none else cared to do so. Today she is alone once again and the people she said supported her failed to do so when the time came for all stood watching there own lay his own ashes in the toxicity of the past. For me her return is a bit too late or has it even started is the question for me it doesn’t seem so for if it had mattered she would have allowed herself to question the how and not why?

Sorry but if Aryan was any better of a man that Aditya he would have today allowed them to talk and brought her to the Mandir been open to this truth he is aware of and that of the past. His need to hide makes his crime no different to the fact that what Aditya did back then when he hid his forced marriage from Maline for he did it to protect the woman he cared for. How is that concern any different. For a lie is a lie and Aryan concern is seen as heroic when Aditya is seen as criminal. That is laughable because at the end of it the truth is Aryan made the decision based upon his own revenge needs and not what he knew of Imlie and Aditya relationship. For none of his actions are noble unlike that of Aditya.

So as I look at Aditya as he sits at the mandap and recall a though which I feel is so apt to his predicament “I tremble when her darkness sweeps over me, she holds the power of my happiness yet I am left to wonder alone what if i had not fallen at all? What if I had not allowed myself to love at all. What if is the question I need but shall I have it is the truth that I will.” Although I wish to kill him at times today is not that day today I wish we could go and bring him back to his happy place where his story mattered more then that of others needs. I wish he was the man that knew not of love but knows of himself maybe that was a more powerful person to be then the one his truth had made him become.

Yet as I watch the climax of there faith today as the marriage completes the vicious cycle once again one can only cry at these two fools especially when it was Imlie whom kept herself away from him so long and made him weak due to it. It was sad to see that final cry of help from Aditya as he uttered the hurt he felt at betrayal of her abandonment. In a way she was the only one that left him stranded when she knew she should have stayed. His whole existence and the end of himself was so aptly put in his quote to imlie. She can get blue murder all she wants but today is not her day it’s his alone.

It is sad that in all this Aditya is still admitting his feelings and the expectations he has of them when Imlie so focus is on judging those feelings rather in focusing on what they were. Just because he express his love differently didn’t mean it was any less that what she felt for him. It was still his truth and there’s alone. It’s more annoying to see that rather then focus on the moment of telling him she loved him she chose to be silent. For once where was the Imlie that said she would not let Maline repeat history maybe that was an empty promise for when it came to it she had given up just because another made her realise that her need to be strong was more important than being true to herself.

It was hard to watch but once again a lot of people may deny this but it was so clear to see Maline has alway been at ease to show her fake feelings whereas Aditya has struggled to mask his even through his anger. That’s the difference that stood out as he laid out his last complaint, loss and hurt. just loved that in it all he told the one person about what had cut him deep down without caring anymore of what may become of him if that is not true love then what is. It’s a worship in its own if only Imlie saw what it actually stood for them her hallow complaint.

Sometimes it a good thing to take a break from the routine you know and let it be. Maybe in this Imlie maybe able to finally see where she made the mistakes in her decision and finally find that we denial is what lead her relationship to shatter. She was being ignorant to the fact that she knew of by allowing herself to hear of others opinions then focus on the voice that mattered. He has told her plenty of times that in the grand scheme of things there support of each other is crucial and that is all that should matter. Sorry but in the end I just felt that maybe this is the time it’s her journey to redeem herself and the relationship just as Aditya had done when he walked through his journey of self discovery. I wonder if Imlie will learn this lesson or are we just going to get a repeat of the past where she is just going to wait on faith. For me the true hero of this tale is Aditya and Aditya alone. Making me wonder what is next?

Thanks for the clip Fary 🤗 made the rewatch so much more memorable even if it made once 🥺 a million times over.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

you have nailed it GT.. and thank you for voicing it.. wohi toh matlab.. Ok fine isne ghusse main kia ok that we can still comprehend ke lo bahad main jao thatt day but then what?? As i was talkign to Ay earlier.. Imlie is just not taking a single pal of thanda hona. uske baad kya? adi has tried ine very which way be it personally or professionaly to bridge the gap .. he tried to be a peer a friend in office to cool her down to help to support to calm her down to keep that connection going but what did he got in return every single time.. that their are other people who know me.. and can help me.. yet she balmes adi for her miseries.. i mean all the baatein you have listed toh phir bhi purani ho gayi what about this shaadi hi.. as if in this whole 2 weeks every moment adi hadn't seeked her.. till the very same mornign post her accpeteance fo 15 lakh ka lehenga bhi.. again maam phone dekh lo apna.,. unless in raavans ne Call log bhi mita dia.. all he wants is just your saath.. heck he poked you ke tum kahooo ke haq hai rishta hai.. kuch matter nahi akrta and tumne kya kia.. hisaaab maange lagi? phir kahan se adi galt hai jab he asked her ke tum kabse hisaab kitaab rakhne lagi?? that was not your trait.. that was not you? patthar dil kaise ho gayi.. aaj the lamness she was doing with the gathbandhan the Juuta to guise she is happy and strong what was that?? again either you can be ok go die idc maine baand dia GB.. meri bala se.. ya you can question him ke Kyon?? dobara kyon khud ko jhonka? dono dono nahi chalega na.. and end main kya haath ko freexe karke ghur rahi hai.. beta what did you expect. and see this is what ahppenes when you leave a teenager alone on the lose to people who really do not know you your truth and manipualte you there is no one to sambhalo her.. atleast in T house she had actual kaaais even in worst days kuch na kuch indirect advice maar hi dete thay.. achi ya buri is debatable but aise akela bhi nahi chodte thay except maynbbe the 100 epiodes in betweenn,.,

and wohi toha di ne saath nahi dia .. is that what she was saying behan kya tha woh jab woh tumhare kona main aaya tha.. ksine adi ko wahan se nikala tha.. Kya tha woh jab adi has fought equally to get you the acceptance in teh hosue in BBC post BBC kidnapping didi ke kaands.. Adi ne toh tumhe ek pal ke liye abandon anhi kai. not even when he was liek alag rah jao tab bhi kahan ho paaya abandon and kaise woh tumhare peche nahi chala aaya every single time and kaise nahi amara the moment he had to leave you.. ofocurse everyoen has forgotten EK tuukda dhhopp sequ( the one that got me hooked just before gunshot)

imlie is doing what they say ghade murde nikalna.. and she expects ke maine toh jitne marzi vaar karoon with my sakht words adi uff tak na kare and bas isko kahe i am sorry i am sorry.. as AY again has ben saying she has become such a mini malini in all this ke grovel karo ,.. mujhe owe karte ho.. meri manipualtions suno.. jo baat ek valid point se start hui thi it is all just Blah now.. caz imlie you played the Pivotal part to bringing it here with your abandonment and the neglect... that even right now youa re showing to his state... again jo bandi 2 ansoo nahi dekh paati thi itna tadapti soul nahi dekh paa rahi.. and idk what she excatly wabts.. atleast clear that.. matlab itna tadap hai itni chah hai ke sab theek ho jaaye but she Seriosuly beleived ke aise hi chalte rahenge and ek din achanak adi will throw malini out and she iwll be back liek lagta toh yehi hai with ehr how could you move on then.. as much as i hate this shaadi and all but adi had A BANG ON point.. as i keep sayign ke iss baar toh tumse nahi cheena na.. tum CHOD ke gayi.. and jo cheez chod ke jaate hain.. phir uspe nahi ladte tumne discard kia.. yeh bhiu nahi kaha ke meri amanat hai.. itna hi keh deti and adi reh leta saari umar intezaar kar leta bas itna hi kehna tha ke meri amanat hai tum mere ho.. and woh baatein jinke liye aap maaf akr chuke ho woh phir se kaise nikaal sakte ho aap for your benefit

+1 on your line about leaving a teenager on the loose for nefarious people to manipulate them lol...matlab we keep bringing it up ever since the Diwali episodes ki all the endless blind gussa with no naam of cooling down just looks like brat behaviour at the end of the day...chaahe kitna bhi you want to randomly intersperse with Imlie yearning for Adi...matlab I hate even thinking of the comparisons with M but manipulations hi chal rahe hain...petty challenges over just burning things that held so much value for both Adi and Imlie just for a reaction?.......and like you said gusse mein kiya toh theeke not like she doesnt have the right to be gussa...and woh state of mind bhi with the torture by M aur phir SK ka jail jaana...but yeh Imlie hai jo seedhe seedhe keh deti hai sab kuch...bol deti ki Im done mujhe break chahiye until you want to trust me about M main waapis nahi aaongi...again that's super naive...but at least state ki that was the intention...aise kyon tantrums throw karna hai by going on a tangent...phir toh we're compelled to be reminded of someone else hi.........again every time Imlie has brought that she wants M gone it's only been in a fit of frustration and retaliation that's all...be it during their argument around karwachauth or during that ugly scream fest at R house....it definitely was not brought up the way Rupi and Nishanth were claiming in that wtf convo with Adi the day before the anniversary...toh aise just pettiness mein bola toh how is Adi supposed to take it seriously........in a way haan Imlie has been a teenager sometimes jiska dimaag kharab ho jaata hai like during the gulmohar garden wala bit but that was due to the circumstances too na the abandonment by the Ts and the constant abuse by AC🤔....yahaan par jabse she left like you said Adi has only tried to reach out in every which way possible....but aisa tha ki Adi kuch bhi bole usse blindly invalidate karna hai bas...aur gussa dikhaana hai🤔

awwww thanks for reminding me of that ek tudka dhoop scene❤️....that uncertainty and hichkichaahat by Adi to stall himself but also ki kuch bhi ho Imlie theek ho and Imlie ka wondering why this all hurts so much💔....and ab toh baat hi alag hai from then while they have given each other the saath ka vaada....that scene also reminds me again ki ab woh sehej waali sayaani Imlie dikhegi bhi ya nahi🥺

With out any trend alert its trending in twitter from morning . How much people like current storyline

https://twitter.com/rockdwrld123/status/1476875215007215620?s=20

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

With out any trend alert its trending in twitter from morning . How much people like current storyline

https://twitter.com/rockdwrld123/status/1476875215007215620?s=20

PF ka mujhe ummeed dhi. Par trend dekhe lakta hai dd ko WW karne keliye KUCH NAHI HUA DHA USS DIN zarur dikhayenge.😄😄😄😄Chalo yeh bhi dekhlete hai. Meim toh chahti hoom dd ko aise hi WW kare.🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Vedika97

PF ka mujhe ummeed dhi. Par trend dekhe lakta hai dd ko WW karne keliye KUCH NAHI HUA DHA USS DIN zarur dikhayenge.😄😄😄😄Chalo yeh bhi dekhlete hai. Meim toh chahti hoom dd ko aise hi WW kare.🤣🤣🤣

https://twitter.com/hazel_huz/status/1476882145859682305?s=20

Originally posted by: .SNOWWHITE.

its trending with ssr case 🤣 its trending from morning. Itna ghatiya soch and story line.😡 I say it myself its ok in television but its actually puckworthy

https://twitter.com/hazel_huz/status/1476882145859682305?s=20

Pinky promise Agar yeh makers koh effect ki toh pakka KUCH NAHI HUA 🤣NO RAPE🤣NO BABY🤣

DD ko bachane keliye zarur yeh karna padega😄😄😄😄

Originally posted by: Vedika97

Pinky promise Agar yeh makers koh effect ki toh pakka KUCH NAHI HUA 🤣NO RAPE🤣NO BABY🤣

DD ko bachane keliye zarur yeh karna padega😄😄😄😄

Originally posted by: Vedika97

Pinky promise Agar yeh makers koh effect ki toh pakka KUCH NAHI HUA 🤣NO RAPE🤣NO BABY🤣

DD ko bachane keliye zarur yeh karna padega😄😄😄😄

Somebody tagged pmo office on the day of court case episode (video deletion)

Whether that effect makers … nothing changed

So they will not do nothing. They do what they want…it’s our choice to stick or not.