Originally posted by: SmittenKitten
yeah, can you believe someone else feeding lines to her to make up with her boyfriend? I am a piece of work too, for doing that.
you pegged her right, she cuts it short if it's not about her! she even sounded "annoyed" last time I was venting about something, now that I think about it.
to answer you, their fights are mostly him complaining about her disrespectful behavior when they're hanging out with their friends, group trips, etc.--she likes to look like she's the "leader" of the pack and the "coolest" of the lot while putting down her own boyfriend, something she never does when she's with him one on one. Roles are reversed one on one.
She doesn't give a f%^$ about anyone or anything as long as it serves her personal interests either, even when the other person is majorly inconvenienced by her. For example, if she has a flight the next morning at 4:00 am, she would, without batting an eye, make that totally unreasonable request for you to wake up at 3:30 am to drop her off. Her bf calls her out on the blatant disregard for others including him.
He seems to bottle it all up and wait till he gets to an unhealthy level of anger. So when a third person reads his texts, he looks abusive, and it discredits his valid concerns while putting her in a sympathetic position. Someone needs to tell that guy that she might save them all for safekeeping if the occasion ever arises.😆 and to get some anger management therapy seriously!
I have a feeling she is also a narc, except a dangerous one cuz it's not obvious to others till they experience it closely and she plays the game well.
so, that's the story, sorry for another essay again. and I hope to stay 1000 miles away from people like her starting 2022, after giving her the boot. 🥳
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