Adi-Imlie and "Move On" games - Page 94

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Arey toxic bhi inko bahut pehle se bulaate hain log....apparently inka pyar is all wrong and khokhla pyar hai ekdum Adilie ka which apparently has no trust/understanding so huye na "toxic"😆.....Jaise trust ek degree hoti hai jo ek baar mil gayi life mein toh set ho jaati hai and never goes through any tests again😆

You it is so funny, coz evem married couples, who jave been together for years will say that trust is very fluid - where you trust your partner with your life, you mayextre not trust the same person when it comes to managing your finances or even paying your bills on time.

Even Imlie once told Adi - she trusts him with her life, but is not able to trust him when it comes to Malini. Similarly, Adi also said that he trusts Imlie with his life, but not her judgement on SK or Malini - trust issues were there on both sides, but rather than get resolved, ego ke chakka main they landed up getting worse. But calling their relationship toxic or built only because they were forced to be together - that just is being extremely pessimistic or simplistic about their equation.

Adi and Imlie's relationship has always been built on kismat and vishwaas. Imlie held on when the world and common sense told her otherwise, while ADI held on during the time when even Imlie was not willing to belive they could be together (during Hyderabad phase and even more recently after she burned the MS). Both have held on and in a way are still holding in despite outside forces that are hell bent on severing that bond. This was neither forced or coerced - it built over time because it mattered to both of them. Just because they currently are facing issues does nit erase or wipe out their feelings - it just tells bith that they would need to look beyond what they're both currently been shown, which I completely trust will happen soon - hopefully in the form of table tod shaadi part 2😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Was revisiting this scene today and it really puts the current situation in some context😆

Adi ne toh tab bhi bola tha ki "kuch ghanton ke liye jaakar toh dekh liya....ab humesha ke liye chali jaaogi toh samajh lena ki uske baad kya hoga"😆

Logon ko Imlie ka memory loss chahiye tha na? Lo already chal raha hai memory loss ki woh bhool gayi hai Adi ka kya haal hota hai when she leaves him😆

Aww 🤗 and again aisa nahi hai ke a hi nahi reminders de raha with his ZInda hain..jee rahe hain ..roz roz toh Marta hai yeh aadmi .. imlie ko abhi bhi batata hai ke HE NEEDS HER but in such a roundabout way.. this guy cannot even think about hqmesha ke liye qlag hona toh ab paagal na ho toh lya ho..aise hi zinda laash bana pada hai but no logon ko somehow bohat sukhi dikh raha hai sigh

I feel this is the only safe place to come for rational discussions based on understanding the show story and characters even in most controversial tracks and what is actually shown in episodes 😑

I came her to clean my head and to feel that I still have my sanity and make sure that I didn't lose my perspective in all this nonsense out there 😅

So thanks to everyone here ❤️

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

You it is so funny, coz evem married couples, who jave been together for years will say that trust is very fluid - where you trust your partner with your life, you mayextre not trust the same person when it comes to managing your finances or even paying your bills on time.

Even Imlie once told Adi - she trusts him with her life, but is not able to trust him when it comes to Malini. Similarly, Adi also said that he trusts Imlie with his life, but not her judgement on SK or Malini - trust issues were there on both sides, but rather than get resolved, ego ke chakka main they landed up getting worse. But calling their relationship toxic or built only because they were forced to be together - that just is being extremely pessimistic or simplistic about their equation.

Adi and Imlie's relationship has always been built on kismat and vishwaas. Imlie held on when the world and common sense told her otherwise, while ADI held on during the time when even Imlie was not willing to belive they could be together (during Hyderabad phase and even more recently after she burned the MS). Both have held on and in a way are still holding in despite outside forces that are hell bent on severing that bond. This was neither forced or coerced - it built over time because it mattered to both of them. Just because they currently are facing issues does nit erase or wipe out their feelings - it just tells bith that they would need to look beyond what they're both currently been shown, which I completely trust will happen soon - hopefully in the form of table tod shaadi part 2😆

Exactly.....trust has many forms - it is not a static thing. And it goes hand in hand with many things. You cannot have blind trust without communication or understanding....and both those things also are not static - they can vary per situations.....everything goes through testing times. So how can one expect trust to remain static? And poor Adi-Imlie toh have gone through the most horrifying things that one wouldn't even wish on their worst enemy......the kind of sabotaging they are subjected to without barely getting any breathing room in their relationship can test the strongest of trust bonds....and still their bond manages to sustain despite the heavy trauma it's subjected to......they are a miracle in that sense😆.

Haha let's have a secret prayer circle to manifest that table tod shaadi part two :P Zyada hype kiya toh deffo chop karenge makers.....lol toh secret praying karo sab :P

Waise I'm now thinking again ki they might indeed be going for some form of "undoing the mistakes of the past".....this time Adi may stop the wedding with M by declaring that he's still married to Imlie....this is what he didn't do last time na - sabko sach nahin bataya tha aur M se shaadi kar li thi? So this time I feel they could go the route of saying the divorce papers are void - Imlie is still his wife and that is why nahin karega M se shaadi😆. And what finally brings Adi to the point of exorcising his hurt/anger enough to accept ki he didn't really end the marriage with Imlie over those divorce papers.....lol woh toh time will tell.

Todays synopsis

Aparna boycotts the wedding

Imlie comes up with a clever plan to make fun of anu when the latter orders her to take an interview. Later Aparna and the Tripathis boycott the wedding

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Todays synopsis

Aparna boycotts the wedding

Imlie comes up with a clever plan to make fun of anu when the latter orders her to take an interview. Later Aparna and the Tripathis boycott the wedding

Oh lord 🤣🥺 the Boycott it is sounding so funny..let's see kab tak rehta hai inka Boycott🤣

Originally posted by: RaitaPhailGaya1

Aww 🤗 and again aisa nahi hai ke a hi nahi reminders de raha with his ZInda hain..jee rahe hain ..roz roz toh Marta hai yeh aadmi .. imlie ko abhi bhi batata hai ke HE NEEDS HER but in such a roundabout way.. this guy cannot even think about hqmesha ke liye qlag hona toh ab paagal na ho toh lya ho..aise hi zinda laash bana pada hai but no logon ko somehow bohat sukhi dikh raha hai sigh

@bold: THIS exactly. I don't think Imlie still understands that he can't function without her......that he NEEDS her. Is clip mein bhi Rupi ne Imlie ko bola tha ki Bhai ko teri zaroorat hai and I don't think Imlie really understood the full magnitude cuz tab bhi apni pareshaaniyon mein uljhi rehti thi in Didi jaap😆.....tab bhi Adi isko samjhaane ki koshish karta tha ki this is the time to be together as a team and fight for our rishta.....it was pretty implicit then also from his side that he NEEDS her....matlab beemaar hoke bhi toh dikhaa diya and Imlie phir bhi nahin samjhi ki uske jaate hi iske andar se jaan nikal jaati hai? 😆.....isko lagta hai ki bas bolne ko bolta hai Adi? lol

And again, it's not like someone is saying she is "obligated" to be with him cuz he needs her....no, the point is that she loves him but she still doesn't realize the extent of his emotional dependency on her.....she is so worked up vis a vis the point about vishwaas that she doesn't understand ki vishwaas and emotional assurance go hand in hand on both sides. The Adi who can't even mentally/emotionally function without her - yeh usse vishwaas expect kar rahi hai phir? lol you need to get him to a stable baseline for him to be able to grapple with the issues properly. Yeh inka long-standing unresolved issue hai ki Imlie doesn't realize how much he needs her, how much it keeps chipping away at his insecurities each time she abandons him and runs off for some reason or the other on a whim.....yeh most recent case of MS burning bhi toh whim hi nikla since two days later she was again crying and missing him😆.....inki life mein itne jhatke hote rehte hain back to back ki even before they can build that emotional assurance mutually together, Adi keeps feeling more unbalanced ki ab toh aur bhi reasons aa gaye for Imlie to abandon him....lol phir itna back and forth karne ke baad she inevitably does abandon him.....lol toh ab kahaan se bandaa kare apne aap ko stabilize and samjhe kuch? 😆.....capacity toh waise bhi kam hi hai iski on that front to grasp things😆

Seriously great improvement.

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Todays synopsis

Aparna boycotts the wedding

Imlie comes up with a clever plan to make fun of anu when the latter orders her to take an interview. Later Aparna and the Tripathis boycott the wedding

🤣🤣🤣 Oh man, Aparna for once is not flipping? *rubs eyes in disbelief*.....yeh miracle kaise hogaya? And more importantly....kitni der last karega?😆

But Rupi and all were in blue for that jagraata function toh yeh kaisa boycott hai jahaan they are still dressed up for the functions? 😆.....is this going to be like their "boycott" of Imlie ke post shaadi functions? lol ki dress up hokar aa gaye the even though they were against it?😆

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

I feel this is the only safe place to come for rational discussions based on understanding the show story and characters even in most controversial tracks and what is actually shown in episodes 😑

I came her to clean my head and to feel that I still have my sanity and make sure that I didn't lose my perspective in all this nonsense out there 😅

So thanks to everyone here ❤️

You're welcome, Guilty :) Yeah I know it's a mess out there😆....we try to keep our sanity in here and focus on the actual story as much as we can beyond all the outrage generating gimmicks😆