ZDMN EDT#12| 21/12 highlights pg 144 - Page 81

Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

Am just going to say it out loud... Karan played dirty in his rejection. Monami would not have kept the hope alive that Karan loves her if he had just looked straight into her eyes and told her that he doesn't love her as she had asked of him. But did he? He avoided doing that completely. Banda is in a state of denial 🤣

p.s. I know I am going to get it bad for this comment 🤣🤣

Na I agree on this one point ki he is in a state of denial.😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Sorry, but that is no reason to question the decisions of your commander, regardless of him being a close a friend/buddy.

The problem I guess, is, from the beginning they haven't drawn those lines or respected them.

Pehle woh log apne Trainers se chupke kaand karte the ab khud unke kaam ko question kar rahe hain. Yeh kya baat hui? Har baar apne mann ki karte hain.

Sure, she is his closest buddy and hell worried for his well being, any friend would. Scream ALL you want in the confines of your room or punch the sack in the gym.

@bold, is there any rule related to this , sorry am not from army background so no idea about this.

But I think it’s pretty natural to question your seniors if you are also involved in that, communication is important you can’t follow someone blindly just because she/he is your senior.

What you are saying could be true in case of war or any warlike situation where you can’t risk anything by questioning your seniors. But it is okay to question in normal situations like this.

Again saying no idea about how things work in army but that’s how things go in public service. There you are taught, not to follow your seniors order unless it is in writing no matter what the situation is.

Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

Monu my bacha 😭😭😭

I skipped 80% of the epi coz damn I just couldn't see Monu cry even though I was anticipating this heartbreak so badly. I feel horrible for it now 😭😭

And then they used the darmiyaan song 😭😭

My SidG baby being the truest friend for Monu bro and Dr SidG the psychiatrist for Sanju. He is such an amazing character who can just warms someone's herat with his mere presence. Him consoling Monu was just too precious as well as him identifying that Sanju is being bothered about someypthing. ❤️❤️

Karan dwelling on his guilt trip and deciding to apologise... let's see how that goes 😆

First I feel for Monu, but then jab usne Sid se kaha ki woh feel karti hain, Karan ke ankhon mein dekha hai ....jitna bura laga tha mujhe Monu ke liye woh sab hawa ho gayi, they all are gone.

Somewhere I don't feel much for those people who can't accept rejections and still live in the world of hope that someday their love will be reciprocate.Aap kisi se pyaar karte ho iska matlab yeh nahi ki usse bhi aapse pyaar karna pada.

I liked Sid that he console his friend but woh Monu ko phir se hope de raha tha ki Karan uske pyaar ko accept kar lega, she just have to keep patience that I don't like it. Aise dost jo sab dekhte, jaante bujhte khokli hope aapko de usse to mein koso dur rahu.

Dono dost ek jaise hain. Dono ko hi yeh baat samajh nahi aati ki 'Na' ka matalab 'na' hota hain, yeh nahi ki woh aaj 'Na' hain aur kal 'Haan' ho jayega.

Karan's situation I can understand, and also why he is feeling bad.

Originally posted by: Not_James_bond

While I watched all of it and must say was surprised at myself ki Maina zyaada mazak nahi banaya😂😂.

This was the sweetest itv rejection😂 was so happy ki it wasn't toxic varna itv rejections tauba tauba so much pushing,pulling and breaking gaadi ka shesha jaisa saare gaadiyo ak showroom unka baap ka hain.😂😂😂

Simple rejections accept nahi kar pate ITV mein issliye itna dikhana padta hain, par itna dikhane ke baad bhi yaar ka bhoot nahi utarta unke sar se😆

Originally posted by: Moonks

She loves me and and I don’t that’s fair, par mujhe use sorry bolna hai

It happens, when you care for other person but don't see them in the same way as they see to you.

Wo meri wajah se kitni upset hogi , dil tut gaya hoga uska,

Jab kisi ka dil na todna chaho, phir bhi uska dil todna pade toh it's normal to feel like that. Somewhere you feel guilty not for rejecting the proposal but to hurt them.

Aur phir kehta hai koi feelings nahin hai

Kuch toh hai par hum nahin manenge chahe dharti phate ya aasman😆

Kuch hota toh aise baat -baat pe 'na jaan ne' wale expressions nahi deta Karan.

Originally posted by: Nichuss

epsd luks gud

It was good, watchable one.

Originally posted by: kavya1994

Kuch hota toh aise baat -baat pe 'na jaan ne' wale expressions nahi deta Karan.

Nahi yr sahi mein hota hai or kafi scene h mere pass explain krne ko😂

Originally posted by: Moonks

Nahi yr sahi mein hota hai or kafi scene h mere pass explain krne ko😂

Mere paas bhi bahot scenes hain ki nahi hota hain explain karne ko😆

But let it be that way, hum dono enjoy karte hain apne-apne way mein. Aap unke pyaar ko appreciate karo, hum unke sudden love ko troll kare , balance bhi toh maintain rehna chahiye. Bina balance ke duniya nahi chalti.

😂😂😂

Originally posted by: kavya1994

First I feel for Monu, but then jab usne Sid se kaha ki woh feel karti hain, Karan ke ankhon mein dekha hai ....jitna bura laga tha mujhe Monu ke liye woh sab hawa ho gayi, they all are gone.

Somewhere I don't feel much for those people who can't accept rejections and still live in the world of hope that someday their love will be reciprocate.Aap kisi se pyaar karte ho iska matlab yeh nahi ki usse bhi aapse pyaar karna pada.

I liked Sid that he console his friend but woh Monu ko phir se hope de raha tha ki Karan uske pyaar ko accept kar lega, she just have to keep patience that I don't like it. Aise dost jo sab dekhte, jaante bujhte khokli hope aapko de usse to mein koso dur rahu.

Dono dost ek jaise hain. Dono ko hi yeh baat samajh nahi aati ki 'Na' ka matalab 'na' hota hain, yeh nahi ki woh aaj 'Na' hain aur kal 'Haan' ho jayega.

Karan's situation I can understand, and also why he is feeling bad.

This I can understand, however, a NO with clarity can do wonders too. In this case, agar Karan directly use dekh ke boldeta ki he doesn't love her without acting suspicious and hiding away his face, Monami's love bubble would have burst without leaving any trace of hope. What was the reason he couldn't do that? A heartbreak was imminent either way... And more importantly, now that the rejection is done and dusted, is there a point in saying sorry? Rejection is neither a crime nor a mistake. Then why is Karan apologetic. Won't that create more hope in Monami's thought process especially since Karan knows quite well that Monami thinks with her emotions!

Monami has been wrong in many places; invading Karan's personal space....heck... the girl is a creepy stalker in more ways than the other but in the rejection case, Karan could have done it better.

But all this aside, I think what I hated more about the scene or rather ITV rejection, in general, is the " I am not the right guy/girl for you" concept. It's so superficial 😒

Originally posted by: SarafWasima

Aaj ka epi dekh ke itna gussa aaya na by god😡
Shuru se Karan had no interest in her

Ab zabardasti bol bol ke you are trying to make him think that he loves her instead of he himself feel it.
Uske care ko pyaar ka naam de rahe hain

Arre bhai insaan pasand kisi ko bhi kar sakta hai iska yeh matlab thodi ke usko pyaar hogaya

I wanna punch the writers now

I felt that confession part got a bit rushed, like wayyy to rush in this epi.

I have nothing else to say today. 😳

Atleast someone is there, who felt the same like me after watching the episode.

When she said to Sid ki kyun prove karna chahta hain woh yeh sab sirf meri imaginations mein tha, I was like ja ke usko ek kaan ke neechey laga ke doon aur yahi @red wali baat bolu.

@green Exactly iss Faizi ka toh sar phod dene ka maan kar raha tha. Faizi aur Sid jaoise logon ke wajah se sab siyappe hote hain😡

@pink yeh baat Monu aur Faizi jaise logon ko kaun hi samjhaye... Inhe joh dekhna hain wahi dekhengey.

@blue I am with you👍🏼

The way she confessed it to him first on bed, that part looked rushed otherwise it was ok. Waise bhi uske itne sapne dekhne ke baad it don't feel like rushed one😆