Originally posted by: aarti1234
Only difference being, Imlie suffered at the hand of others and for others.
Adi's suffering is his own making.That's why he is not getting any empathy.
As a mother if my daughter falls in a pit and gets hurt ,I am empathetic. (Example: Adi got raped. Imlie understood him after initial shock.)
But if I tell my daughter not to do something hundred times, but she still gets hurt doing the exact same thing, I will be angry. Ofcourse I will put bandage and all but I won't be empathetic. (Imlie being upset with Adi after proof deletion.)
Now after that my daughter makes other kids do that and everyone is hurt. What would I do? ( SK got trapped in Malini's jaal because Adi is not willing to open his eyes.)
Adi didn't trust Imlie : got raped
Adi misunderstood Imlie: getting married to Malini
Where to get sympathy for such a person. Rn, he is for Imlie what a rotten limb is to otherwise healthy body. That limb was not always rotten but now keeping it will destroy the whole body. Some people are saying that love is forever, in sickness, in health etc. I completely agree. But does that mean accepting another woman in your husband's life. Does that mean sacrificing your father at the alter of your husband's blindness. No. Imlie left only after SK got affected in this dirty game. For the love of one person, should you sacrifice everything and even after sacrificing, you are not making any positive impact in your life or that person's life.
Perfect analogy.
I'm like mat karo bhai M se suno meri baat.. But phir we know he won't listen to kya karsakti hoon?
So I say jo karna hai karo like adi says 🤷🏻♀️