Originally posted by: S.n.e.h
Yeah it did feel like that, ye makers probably Anuj ke kandhe pe banduk rakhake Anupama ki stupidity justify kar rahe hai, this happened before too If I recollect right I think ghosla gyan sequence.
Anyways, you ask what is wrong in caring for or not reacting appropriately to people who are not good or even bad to you?, well wasn’t Kavya absolutely correct in saying that If Anupama had taught Vanraj the sabak at that time he wouldn’t dare to pull the entire family again into the divorce torture. Divorce has become a quick way out for him from anything unwanted coz he never paid the price for it. Running away from marriage and it’s responsibility it’s commitment is normalised for Vanraj by Anupama herself.
THAT is what is wrong with it. It could be mahanata from someone’s lens but it also is selfish in a way trying not to be bad in anyone’s eyes, and it also is unfair on part of the person who is being wrong, as someone in the family that you “really care” for or “toot ke loved at a point” wouldn’t you want that person to get better or your priority would be ohh that person is crying how can I smile.
Anu and Anuj are same, their inability to be tough where needed is a flaw and not a virtue.
Granted Anupama's character is super annoying for always forgiving the unforgivable but the second part of your comment is utterly rediculous because you are basically saying Vanraj is a big baby who doesn't know any better and if Anu had corrected him the first time they would not be in this situation.
The writting of these characters is so terrible that it is sometimes hard to see any of the points they are trying to make.
Like right now Anu is supporting Kavya...like she has done in the past which usualy last a whole minute and the next words put of Kavya's mouth is to place the blame at Anus feet
They will have her forgive Vanraj one second make them friends and in the next breath he is insulting her infront of her kids saying things that you do not say to your worst enemy.
They will have Baa say she is my daughter and then next minute you are an outsider stay out of our business. I know human beings are not black and white but personalities can not shift this muvh and this quick unless these people are all physcos.
As for Anu...they completely forgot that she is supposed to be a strong woman going agains the odds and making it...at every turn they drag the character back and give her long saintly dialogues that contradict everything she previously said. There is such a thing as being nice and respecrful and polite without letting people walk all over you. I see no reason why they have involved her in Kavya and Mr Shah's divorce...what is that any business of hers.
This amount of personality yoyo has really ruined the show. Actually all these people must have some split personalities Dolly asking Anu to speak to V not to divorce Kavya...the woman who made you sign away your right to your inheritance...Ok
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