Manjari is so irritating - Page 5

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Me after reading this and feeling guilty for saying khari khoti about Manjri Ji.

She is one of my fav Birla because I know women like her exist in real life and I have a soft corner for people who live for others. But i also know what emotional fools they can be and it's so annoying to witness it on tv. I especially disliked how she broke Abhis promise. It doesn't matter that she did it for his own good, she took him for granted knowing he will forgive her. I was fine with everything but this and her constantly telling Abhi to respect his father. Kyun respect kare bhai? Abhi didn't just wake up one day and decided to call his dad, Sir. This is a result of Harsh's actions that has traumatised Abhi to such an extent that he has no choice but to cut the relationship.

Manjri is a good character but she does have flaws and I don't like how she takes rushed decisions.

I know women like her too which allows me to empathize with her more. Do I agree with everything she has done? No. I wish she hadn't turned off her phone and avoided talking to the Goenkas. I wish she had told Abhi about the proposal as well and had at least taken Arohi’s name so that he could have cleared out the confusion. But I'm not going to cuss at her or proclaim Mahima is much better than her or sympathize with Harsh who is an abuser. There is a manner of criticizing someone's actions without offending people who may identify with some of the qualities that the discussed character possesses.

In regards to her telling Abhi to respect his father, she isn't wrong. His behavior is out of line. Him disagreeing or not liking his father is one thing. But for Abhi to constantly raise his voice, threaten violence or display his anger by shouting and throwing something at his father is downright rude. If I was Akshara and either I or my family witnessed this interaction, I would seriously be second-guessing my choice in wanting to marry Abhi. There are much more civil ways of engaging in a disagreement but Abhi has the tendency of taking things to a volatile extreme which is incorrect.

Moreover, if he has such a huge issue with his dad, then he can very well move out of the house or work elsewhere. But he won't because of Manjiri. So if this is the decision that he has made, then he has to bear the consequences that come along with it. He can't expect his father to change overnight or for the issues between them to be resolved so quickly. They require active and strenuous efforts and if he's not willing to put in the effort then the least he can do is find a way to peacefully coexist.

Originally posted by: AutumnColors

Of course, Manjiri will be a big issue for Abhira after marriage. Arohi might brainwash her with alot of nonsense about Akshu, and they will come a phase where Abhimanyu will have to choose between his mom & wife ( This track is bound to come since these are two most important women's in Abhimanyu life) I am scared what they might do to Abhi character I hope they don't turn him into another Kartik! But they must be a balance he doesn't have to choose between either, but he balances and handle the situation!

AKSHU will realize now why ABHI said FAMILY KA SAATH NAHIN CHAIYE 🤣

Manjari as a mother can never be criticized . The thing I feel is how her navity is causing extra trouble to her son. Their is a difference between an unconditionally loving parent and an understanding parent.

Manjari here loves her son but she fails to understand him failing to respect his wishes. She is taking decisions and forcing them on her son with her love.

When abhi broke up with akshu he clearly told even if he sees her now his heart beats for her. She should have understood this and made akshu to stay away from him but no she brought and made her to do all bday arrangements. Here she failed to understand her own son and as a woman and out of love for her son disregarded another woman feelings. even if akshu becomes her dil she will make her do things that I am sure akshu don't wanted to do. That will indirectly impact their marriage life.

For her son she disregards others feelings. She is a human too just not a mother. She is using and throwing people like she wishes.

She tells abhi to respect her father and understand him. It's not like abhi woke up one day and took a new year resolution that he is going to hate his father. Again she fails to understand him here.

Abhi clearly told her not to break his trust but she time and again did it and told abhi will understand. But what about her understanding him. This will make him to loose trust and hope in his own mother. this only will make him closed off to her too because if this continues he isn't going to trust her with his feelings.

No one can criticize Manjari for the mother and the woman she is but the thing is she is failing to understand her son as a mother. This is what Abhimanyu wants in his life someone to understand. This is one of the reasons he doesn't want to be with his family because their isn't anyone who is understanding him.

I don't know how many of you know this movie. Their is a tamil and telugu movie known as " Santosh subramanyam " which talks about father and son relation. Father loved his son unconditionally but he failed to understand his needs. The movie had such a nice confrontation scene between them. Son told how he felt when his father chose and made decisions for him that he didn't even want to do yet he never said anything because he knew his father loved him. He told how he hated when his father decided what type of hair cut or dress his son need to wear somewhere manjari actions are like that. I know the father wasn't a navie person like manjari but he failed to understand him and that is all about it. Failing to understand your kid even though you love them unconditionally.

P. S: I realised those who speak about manjari are seeing it from Manjari pov and I am seeing it from abhi's pov. Neither is a wrong thing here.

I completely agree with you.

She is irritating for me also. She was telling Arohi that tum hi kuch kar sakti ho. But she never thought if she would ask Akshara she will never say No to help Abhimanyu.

Really Manjari is biggest disappointment for me.

I feel Mahima is far better than Manjari.

I second you.....her weakness is her son .....she cant see anything beyond him

To see him happy n safe....she can do anything to the extent of disrespecting others also

She makes her own theories and tries to make others believe it....even though it may befar from reality

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I know women like her too which allows me to empathize with her more. Do I agree with everything she has done? No. I wish she hadn't turned off her phone and avoided talking to the Goenkas. I wish she had told Abhi about the proposal as well and had at least taken Arohi’s name so that he could have cleared out the confusion. But I'm not going to cuss at her or proclaim Mahima is much better than her or sympathize with Harsh who is an abuser. There is a manner of criticizing someone's actions without offending people who may identify with some of the qualities that the discussed character possesses.

In regards to her telling Abhi to respect his father, she isn't wrong. His behavior is out of line. Him disagreeing or not liking his father is one thing. But for Abhi to constantly raise his voice, threaten violence or display his anger by shouting and throwing something at his father is downright rude. If I was Akshara and either I or my family witnessed this interaction, I would seriously be second-guessing my choice in wanting to marry Abhi. There are much more civil ways of engaging in a disagreement but Abhi has the tendency of taking things to a volatile extreme which is incorrect.

Moreover, if he has such a huge issue with his dad, then he can very well move out of the house or work elsewhere. But he won't because of Manjiri. So if this is the decision that he has made, then he has to bear the consequences that come along with it. He can't expect his father to change overnight or for the issues between them to be resolved so quickly. They require active and strenuous efforts and if he's not willing to put in the effort then the least he can do is find a way to peacefully coexist.

To the extent that one thinks about Manjiri in the context of her son and husband, I can totally see your point and agree that she doesn’t always get things right but she tries. And one also feels sorry for her because clearly her own sister has been instrumental in suppressing her. My dislike for Matlabi Manjiri comes from her behaviour with others. She has not spent one moment post engagement thinking about Arohi - who she brought into this whole thing. She hasn’t apologised to Arohi or worried about her. I say this even though I dislike Arohi because In Manjiri’s eyes Arohi hasn’t done anything wrong. She immediately turned to Akshara to help her son and to bring her son out if his melancholy. She talked to Akshara like she was her last hope bla bla bla. Once her use for Akshara was over she threw Akshara to the dogs literally and figuratively to protect her son. And we find her telling Arohi that she is her last hope when he wants to rescue her son form this allegation.

I struggle in this context to really see any good in her. Any care for anyone other than herself and her son.

i also don’t agree with people saying oh this is the heart of a mother. Mother are also human beings with brains and the ability to discern between right and wrong. They are able to take decisions in the best interest of their kids without destroying the life of other people’s kids. My mother never ever gave me advice in my life that involved getting someone else into trouble. In fact she alway reminded me that the other person was someone else’s child just like I was hers. Why are always women portrayed to be ethic-less, brainless and led only by their emotions.

Originally posted by: Bhavisweet03

I completely agree with you.

She is irritating for me also. She was telling Arohi that tum hi kuch kar sakti ho. But she never thought if she would ask Akshara she will never say No to help Abhimanyu.

Really Manjari is biggest disappointment for me.

I feel Mahima is far better than Manjari.

Hey one time it is akshara that can do something and now it's aarohi. For her son's safety and happiness she is playing with others feelings.

Originally posted by: reeyacute

I second you.....her weakness is her son .....she cant see anything beyond him

To see him happy n safe....she can do anything to the extent of disrespecting others also

She makes her own theories and tries to make others believe it....even though it may befar from reality

Hey and her theories always come with only one line " Tum hi kuch karsakthium ".

First she thought this dialogue for aarohi thinking she will bring love and happiness to her son before engagement.

Then she used it on akshu to ask her help to move on.

Now again she used it on aarohi to convince akshu.

Like seriously.

She knows how to use people, throw them and not apologize to them.

Perfect.....she is actually more manipulative than mahima

Straight face rakhkar....making others fools

Originally posted by: hari15

Hey one time it is akshara that can do something and now it's aarohi. For her son's safety and happiness she is playing with others feelings.

She is very much confused. She herself doesn't know who is right choice for her son😆