Manjari is so irritating - Page 6

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I know women like her too which allows me to empathize with her more. Do I agree with everything she has done? No. I wish she hadn't turned off her phone and avoided talking to the Goenkas. I wish she had told Abhi about the proposal as well and had at least taken Arohi’s name so that he could have cleared out the confusion. But I'm not going to cuss at her or proclaim Mahima is much better than her or sympathize with Harsh who is an abuser. There is a manner of criticizing someone's actions without offending people who may identify with some of the qualities that the discussed character possesses.

In regards to her telling Abhi to respect his father, she isn't wrong. His behavior is out of line. Him disagreeing or not liking his father is one thing. But for Abhi to constantly raise his voice, threaten violence or display his anger by shouting and throwing something at his father is downright rude. If I was Akshara and either I or my family witnessed this interaction, I would seriously be second-guessing my choice in wanting to marry Abhi. There are much more civil ways of engaging in a disagreement but Abhi has the tendency of taking things to a volatile extreme which is incorrect.

Moreover, if he has such a huge issue with his dad, then he can very well move out of the house or work elsewhere. But he won't because of Manjiri. So if this is the decision that he has made, then he has to bear the consequences that come along with it. He can't expect his father to change overnight or for the issues between them to be resolved so quickly. They require active and strenuous efforts and if he's not willing to put in the effort then the least he can do is find a way to peacefully coexist.

I think people still like Manjri over Mahima but some of her qualities are not praise worthy. And I think the only reason people are supporting Mahima over Manjiri is due to her being the caption of ship Abhira. Some of us are not even liking Kairav because he isn’t letting this ship sail. So I don’t think people are literally choosing Mahima over Manjiri, some of us are just sticking with whoever is team Abhira. Well I personally am 😆

@Bold I disagree. Actually Abhi does respect his father which is why he is still trying his best to be civil towards Harsh. What I don’t like is how Manjiri keeps comparing them two despite knowing this will irritate Abhi. Agreed violence is wrong but the only times he uses aggressions is when Harsh crosses the line. Abhi reminded him many times that Akshara will not be involved but Harsh didn’t only disregard this plea but he also spoke of Akshara as if she was beneath him. Abhi will obviously lose his patience after all this because Harsh is now treating Akshara like garbage. Abhi is civil as long as Harsh maintains the boundary so he does try his best to remain peaceful. I don’t think he wants Harsh to change because at this point, it seems that he’s had enough and does not wish to associate himself with Harsh. It is Harsh who not only pushed his son to this extent but he also does not comprehend why Abhi is the way he is. He blames everything on Manjiri but does not see that he is the reason Abhi has blocked him from his life.

Originally posted by: hari15

Manjari as a mother can never be criticized . The thing I feel is how her navity is causing extra trouble to her son. Their is a difference between an unconditionally loving parent and an understanding parent.

Manjari here loves her son but she fails to understand him failing to respect his wishes. She is taking decisions and forcing them on her son with her love.

When abhi broke up with akshu he clearly told even if he sees her now his heart beats for her. She should have understood this and made akshu to stay away from him but no she brought and made her to do all bday arrangements. Here she failed to understand her own son and as a woman and out of love for her son disregarded another woman feelings. even if akshu becomes her dil she will make her do things that I am sure akshu don't wanted to do. That will indirectly impact their marriage life.

For her son she disregards others feelings. She is a human too just not a mother. She is using and throwing people like she wishes.

She tells abhi to respect her father and understand him. It's not like abhi woke up one day and took a new year resolution that he is going to hate his father. Again she fails to understand him here.

Abhi clearly told her not to break his trust but she time and again did it and told abhi will understand. But what about her understanding him. This will make him to loose trust and hope in his own mother. this only will make him closed off to her too because if this continues he isn't going to trust her with his feelings.

No one can criticize Manjari for the mother and the woman she is but the thing is she is failing to understand her son as a mother. This is what Abhimanyu wants in his life someone to understand. This is one of the reasons he doesn't want to be with his family because their isn't anyone who is understanding him.

I don't know how many of you know this movie. Their is a tamil and telugu movie known as " Santosh subramanyam " which talks about father and son relation. Father loved his son unconditionally but he failed to understand his needs. The movie had such a nice confrontation scene between them. Son told how he felt when his father chose and made decisions for him that he didn't even want to do yet he never said anything because he knew his father loved him. He told how he hated when his father decided what type of hair cut or dress his son need to wear somewhere manjari actions are like that. I know the father wasn't a navie person like manjari but he failed to understand him and that is all about it. Failing to understand your kid even though you love them unconditionally.

P. S: I realised those who speak about manjari are seeing it from Manjari pov and I am seeing it from abhi's pov. Neither is a wrong thing here.

Completely agree with you here. Just because Manjiri loves Abhi, it does not make all her actions correct. I still like her and root for her but her emotions are making a blunder of things. In fact, her emotions are so extreme that she forgets to use her mind.

That movie seems like a reflection of Abhi and Manjiri. There is a abundance of love but that is it. I can tolerate anything but whenever she tries to force Abhi to be closer to his dad, it grates on my nerves. I’m sure she understands why Abhi chooses to ignore his father so why does she keep pushing him to Harsh? If she wants them to reconcile then talk to both of them. Why always have expectations from Abhi? Things cannot happen overnight, she has to give them time.

This is where I think Akshara is better and will help Harsh and Abhi better. Yes Akshara is also very emotional, naive and puts others first but Akshara uses her mind too. For example, if you asked Manjiri and Akshara to solve poverty then Manjiri would give the poor money whereas Akshara would give them job opportunities.

I don't find Manjari annoying but realistic, she is flawed but not malicious, she is someone who panics over things because she seems to have been criticised for smallest of things by her sister who treats her like trash and then Harshvardhan who looks down upon her. Abhimanyu respects women and stands by Akshara because he knows what his mother has undergone.

Abhimanyu may have decided to not involve akshara but why would any mother agree to that? Losing medical license is not a small thing!

All this confusion will be cleared if akshara actually tells Abhimanyu her reason for supporting him, rather than being a jalebi.

Yes! I don't know why her emotions are being seen as a weakness for Abhimanyu. She is the one who wants Abhimanyu's happiness above everything!

Harshvardhan values his work and Mahima is just using abhi as a pawn. Even if Mahima does help abhira in getting married it would not be out of goodness of heart! She intentionally let the family think that abhi likes arohi when she knew it was Akshara. She broke abhi's promise but what if places were reversed, would abhi keep mum if his mother was the one under scanner! It was logical thing to do, it was Harshvardhan who behaved like an idiot by offending Goenka's.

She values abhi but she was the one who didn't behave rudely with akshara even when the latter broke Abhimanyu's heart. She was all motherly with Akshara!

Manjari isn't an audience who knows Arohi is a supposed vamp, she just saw it as an sign that she should ask arohi for help; and she wasn't wrong as a mother! Akshara does listen to Arohi.