Adilie Divorce -- Hmmmm Interesting - Page 2

Originally posted by: Burnbabyburn

He was not in love with Imlie now he claimed he only loves her still want to marry another that's why

Why always the girl is the bicharii, majborii, victom? And the boy is the devil and always wrong?

Why not accepting that Imlie could be wrong?

In all the mess in their life, Imlie always has her fair share in complicating things, but always ppl dismiss it and paint Adi the only villain in Imlie and MC lives!

For only once, for a moment, try to put yourself in AKT shoes!

I am not saying that he is an angle and never done wrong!

But at least he has his own reason to do so, his 7 years history in an abusive relation and many guilt trips, the complicated situation he found his self in, and processing the info he gain which at most is wrong or half truth ones!

He always proof how he love/respect/care for imlie in so many ways and how much Imlie and their marriage means for him!

Who start all this?

Who ask her to remove her wedding nishani?

Did he ask her to leave her home?

How many times he run after her, trying to mend things with her? Trying to help her in work, asking her to return back with him ro home?

She needed time, she needed a break ,he gave her! While she was in hostel!

How a man could accept that his wife living in their boss house which he clearly give a weird vibes of interest in her! And when he ask her to return with him she reject him?

Is this the way how a women respect her marriage will do ? Live in another man's house while her own husband does not accept it! At least her mother had her husband agreement to do so when she was living in C's house!

I am not blaming her too, she is too young , we could not ask/expect her to be wise all the time!

So what do you expect from him, while she is clearly rejecting him in every chance she get!

If she thinks their relation is finished and their is nothing left to save! Why not ending it in real 😌

Yes he was stupid for not believing her about MC, but she also made him reach to this point too! 😇

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

Why always the girl is the bicharii, majborii, victom? And the boy is the devil and always wrong?

Why not accepting that Imlie could be wrong?

In all the mess in their life, Imlie always has her fair share in complicating things, but always ppl dismiss it and paint Adi the only villain in Imlie and MC lives!

For only once, for a moment, try to put yourself in AKT shoes!

I am not saying that he is an angle and never done wrong!

But at least he has his own reason to do so, his 7 years history in an abusive relation and many guilt trips, the complicated situation he found his self in, and processing the info he gain which at most is wrong or half truth ones!

He always proof how he love/respect/care for imlie in so many ways and how much Imlie and their marriage means for him!

Who start all this?

Who ask her to remove her wedding nishani?

Did he ask her to leave her home?

How many times he run after her, trying to mend things with her? Trying to help her in work, asking her to return back with him ro home?

She needed time, she needed a break ,he gave her! While she was in hostel!

How a man could accept that his wife living in their boss house which he clearly give a weird vibes of interest in her! And when he ask her to return with him she reject him?

Is this the way how a women respect her marriage will do ? Live in another man's house while her own husband does not accept it! At least her mother had her husband agreement to do so when she was living in C's house!

I am not blaming her too, she is too young , we could not ask/expect her to be wise all the time!

So what do you expect from him, while she is clearly rejecting him in every chance she get!

If she thinks their relation is finished and their is nothing left to save! Why not ending it in real 😌

Yes he was stupid for not believing her about MC, but she also made him reach to this point too! 😇

I ask you - how a woman can accept that her husband wants his ex-wife and mother of his child to live in the same house as her. More than weird vibes, Malini has clearly challenged Imlie and made her feel that Adi still cares for her. When Imlie asked Adi to send her away as he promised, he refused.

Aditya ne Malini ko ghar rakhne ya na rakhne ka decision imlie par Chora tha lekin imlie ne use ghar rehne dea yahan mistake imlie ke ha 🤓aur imlie ko M ke intentions ka bhi pata tha so hum fully aditya ko blame nae ker suktay 🤓

Originally posted by: Pearl21

Aditya ne Malini ko ghar rakhne ya na rakhne ka decision imlie par Chora tha lekin imlie ne use ghar rehne dea yahan mistake imlie ke ha 🤓aur imlie ko M ke intentions ka bhi pata tha so hum fully aditya ko blame nae ker suktay 🤓

Imlie ne Aditya ke promise par bharosa kiya ki from that point onwards Imlie will take decisions. Us bharose se courage and confidence le kar usne child ke baare main soch kar Malini ko rok liya. Par phir kya hua, the moment Imlie said I made a mistake, send her back, Adi back tracked... Is baat se mughe to yahin lagta hain ki agar Imlie us din Malini ko nahin rokti tab bhi Malini Adi ko guilt trip karke aa hi jati..

Imlie's fault was not to stop Malini but to trust Adi.

Originally posted by: aarti1234

Imlie ne Aditya ke promise par bharosa kiya ki from that point onwards Imlie will take decisions. Us bharose se courage and confidence le kar usne child ke baare main soch kar Malini ko rok liya. Par phir kya hua, the moment Imlie said I made a mistake, send her back, Adi back tracked... Is baat se mughe to yahin lagta hain ki agar Imlie us din Malini ko nahin rokti tab bhi Malini Adi ko guilt trip karke aa hi jati..

Imlie's fault was not to stop Malini but to trust Adi.

Originally posted by: PPak

I ask you - how a woman can accept that her husband wants his ex-wife and mother of his child to live in the same house as her. More than weird vibes, Malini has clearly challenged Imlie and made her feel that Adi still cares for her. When Imlie asked Adi to send her away as he promised, he refused.

Imlie knew that MC want to snatch Adi from her, but she kept silent at first to keep her " big sister" good image and believing that Adili love can not be ruin by her!

After the court and the baby card, She had the ability and choice to throw her out of T house, Adi himself gave her the power of deciding what will happen after the court! She is the one who decide that MC should live with them and the 3 of them raise the kid, so that the unborn child does not live a childhood like hers! No one ever force her to accept it! And she already knows the bad intentions of MC!

So basically, it is Imlies decision to keep her at T house not Adi! So how could we blame him for it?

I am not saying that Adi is not wrong again!

He should take the decision of throwing MC out not putting it on Imlie!

But Imlie does for sure have a share in the mess for the bad decisions that she took in the past, I know she took them in well intentions but the effect of them is what made this mess now!

Edit:

About him refusing to throw her out

Yes he was stupid to do it and totally wrong! No question in that!!

But he also done this in a zidd mood that MC is irrelevant to them and she could not ruin their strong love relation!

Both are stupid and stubborn 😑

Originally posted by: PPak

I ask you - how a woman can accept that her husband wants his ex-wife and mother of his child to live in the same house as her. More than weird vibes, Malini has clearly challenged Imlie and made her feel that Adi still cares for her. When Imlie asked Adi to send her away as he promised, he refused.

Exactly.. You put wife's life in danger multiple times, disrespect her at every point, want her to share her life with a woman who raped you, take responsibility of the product of rape, fight for you honor against your wishes, and what do you give her in return.. ek sawaal

Itna self respect to Sita Maiyya ne hazaron saal pehle dikha diya tha ki unke character par ek doubt hone par she preferred to take samadhi in earth rather than returning to her husband who was loyal to her every breath of his life. Who only acted as a king when he asked Sita to leave but as a husband he was fully devoted to her. But aaj ki duniya main, Adi jaise "flawed " character ke liye ek ladki kitna sahi. He is not fulfiiling any larger purpose when he is disrespecting Imlie. He is failing as a husband at a very basic level.

Even partners in loveless marriage give more respect to their partner than Adi. But yes he is getting his punishment so I am good.

Imlie is moving ahead with a heart full of hurt but head held high.. Adi is left behind with both heart and head full of shame. Its another matter that they will again together.

Originally posted by: PPak

I ask you - how a woman can accept that her husband wants his ex-wife and mother of his child to live in the same house as her. More than weird vibes, Malini has clearly challenged Imlie and made her feel that Adi still cares for her. When Imlie asked Adi to send her away as he promised, he refused.

It was imlie's decision at first

jab malini ko iss ghar mein Adi laya tha , adi asked permission from imlie if she ok with her staying or not ..imlie gave permission

jab Adi ka rape hua n court case hua , adi deleted Tabbhi Adi gave full responsibilities on imlie what she wants abt malini's staying.. if she wants malini TS ke sath naa rahee toh malini iss ghar mein nei rahegi .

but imlie ko bacche ka fikar huaa and despite knowing malini is evil she keeps malini in house n starting her sevaa , no one asked her do it

n again malini creating prb , Adi said please tum malini pe dheyan na do , hamare rishte pe usko na laou .. mujhe malini se koi farak nei parta, tum mere upar focus karo but she ignored n again n again fall on malini's trap like prey .. adi ye v bola tha malini hume dur nei kar rahe hain, bass tum kar rahe ho mujhe dur meko beech mei lakee.. but imlie dint listen

not blaming imlie.. agar aj ye din dekhne paree toh dono ke nadani ke bajase, it is very easy to blame on a man , but ppl never think from his side too.. adi ke side se kabhi nei

n woh sare kand, jhagde ke baad jab malini ko bhejne bola , adi ye bola tha hamare rishta itne kamjor nei malini ke rehne se ye tutegaa , ab toh malu nei jayegaa..it came in ego

n yes adilie rishta mei koi kamjori thaa tabhi malini inke beech ayee

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

Imlie knew that MC want to snatch Adi from her, but she kept silent at first to keep her " big sister" good image and believing that Adili love can not be ruin by her!

After the court and the baby card, She had the ability and choice to throw her out of T house, Adi himself gave her the power of deciding what will happen after the court! She is the one who decide that MC should live with them and the 3 of them raise the kid, so that the unborn child does not live a childhood like hers! No one ever force her to accept it! And she already knows the bad intentions of MC!

So basically, it is Imlies decision to keep her at T house not Adi! So how could we blame him for it?

I am not saying that Adi is not wrong again!

He should take the decision of throwing MC out not putting it on Imlie!

But Imlie does for sure have a share in the mess for the bad decisions that she took in the past, I know she took them in well intentions but the effect of them is what made this mess now!

Edit:

About him refusing to throw her out

Yes he was stupid to do it and totally wrong! No question in that!!

But he also done this in a zidd mood that MC is irrelevant to them and she could not ruin their strong love relation!

Both are stupid and stubborn 😑

The difference here is Imlie was being sacrificial in putting the baby's needs first and also so Adi and T's could benefit. She was wrong, but intent was right and when she realized how dangerous M really was, she changed her mind, as Adi had promised her this right.

Adi is saying - he will not send M away as she is irrelevant to them and Imlie is elevating her status. He is claiming zidd to prove a point. But bringing her back on KC day without even informing Imlie - does that sound like irrelevant to you and Kidd just to prove Imlie wrong? He does not even have the guts to accept that he wants the child with him. He is hiding his real need to protect his child by saying that M is irrelevant to them and therefore can stay in T house.

He has shown in every way possible that M's baby holds priority over Imlie with his choices and that is ok. Tell me one incident where he prioritized Imlie over the baby. Then he should bear his mistakes and set her free from his tangled mess of a life.

Till when Imlie was willing, she put up with Adi and nanhe baccha. Her breaking point has been reached and she has left. Her prior actions cannot be held against her. If we tally prior deeds, Adi dumped her in a girls home after she saved his sorry butt and also married Malini. Those were bigger things he was forgiven for. In comparison all of Imlie's mistakes were of the deluded sacrificial nature not selfish ones.

When Imlie did not accept Adi because of didi, it was because she knew Adi was being very light with dumping Malini and she was in hindsight also right. She knew that Adi had a great level of trust for Malini and it turns out she was absolutely right in holding out. He also should have sense that the same girl will not become irrational unless there was dues cause.

Adi is a gone case...there is just no defense for him now. So far things have been relatively easier for him in comparison to Imlie. I want to see barabari in his suffering. He should suffer as much as I did because of his choices.

Originally posted by: PPak

The difference here is Imlie was being sacrificial in putting the baby's needs first and also so Adi and T's could benefit. She was wrong, but intent was right and when she realized how dangerous M really was, she changed her mind, as Adi had promised her this right.

Adi is saying - he will not send M away as she is irrelevant to them and Imlie is elevating her status. He is claiming zidd to prove a point. But bringing her back on KC day without even informing Imlie - does that sound like irrelevant to you and Kidd just to prove Imlie wrong? He does not even have the guts to accept that he wants the child with him. He is hiding his real need to protect his child by saying that M is irrelevant to them and therefore can stay in T house.

He has shown in every way possible that M's baby holds priority over Imlie with his choices and that is ok. Tell me one incident where he prioritized Imlie over the baby. Then he should bear his mistakes and set her free from his tangled mess of a life.

Till when Imlie was willing, she put up with Adi and nanhe baccha. Her breaking point has been reached and she has left. Her prior actions cannot be held against her. If we tally prior deeds, Adi dumped her in a girls home after she saved his sorry butt and also married Malini. Those were bigger things he was forgiven for. In comparison all of Imlie's mistakes were of the deluded sacrificial nature not selfish ones.

When Imlie did not accept Adi because of didi, it was because she knew Adi was being very light with dumping Malini and she was in hindsight also right. She knew that Adi had a great level of trust for Malini and it turns out she was absolutely right in holding out. He also should have sense that the same girl will not become irrational unless there was dues cause.

Adi is a gone case...there is just no defense for him now. So far things have been relatively easier for him in comparison to Imlie. I want to see barabari in his suffering. He should suffer as much as I did because of his choices.

Ok if you think he is "the bad guy" , he is not forgivable, he chose the "baby" and his mother (MC) over Imlie, and he must suffer, he is not suffering enough for you!

What can we do 😂 it is your way of viewing the story which I clearly disagree 😌

All am I seeing is that both of them (Adili) are equal in every aspect of the story!

They are both wrong/right , they are both stubborn and stupid , they both did mistakes and complicate things, they both SUFFERING !

Imlie's happiness lies in AKT arms, and AKT life lies in Imlies arms!

They are each other comfort zone, they are each other lungs! They breath life to each other!

If AKT suffer, Imlie will suffer with him 🥲

They are 2 faces of the same coin