Adilie Divorce -- Hmmmm Interesting - Page 3

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

Ok if you think he is "the bad guy" , he is not forgivable, he chose the "baby" and his mother (MC) over Imlie, and he must suffer, he is not suffering enough for you!

What can we do 😂 it is your way of viewing the story which I clearly disagree 😌

All am I seeing is that both of them (Adili) are equal in every aspect of the story!

They are both wrong/right , they are both stubborn and stupid , they both did mistakes and complicate things, they both SUFFERING !

Imlie's happiness lies in AKT arms, and AKT life lies in Imlies arms!

They are each other comfort zone, they are each other lungs! They breath life to each other!

If AKT suffer, Imlie will suffer with him 🥲

They are 2 faces of the same coin

I am not saying he is bad. I'm saying he is selfish and stupid and his actions have cost Imlie much. His suffering has been self inflicted, whereas Imlie has been bearing the wrath of his actions for the longest time for no fault of hers. I would like to see him realize his mistakes and pay for the trauma he has put Imlie through.

Malini raping him was because of his own blind faith in her, and inability to trust Imlie...hence self-inflicted.

He is a hypocrite who is judging Imlie over Aryan when she has been gracious towards his dots relationship.

He is forgivable but after he suffers equally for what he put Imlie through...not for what he caused himself. If Imlie saw him leave her on KC and bring M home with zero farak to give...I want him to experience how Imlie felt by seeing her with Aryan. Adi as a character is incapable of seeing any other's POV - he is selfish. I want him to keenly experience for himself what he dished out and then I will be ok for his redemption - then an equal relationship.

Originally posted by: PPak

I am not saying he is bad. I'm saying he is selfish and stupid and his actions have cost Imlie much. His suffering has been self inflicted, whereas Imlie has been bearing the wrath of his actions for the longest time for no fault of hers. I would like to see him realize his mistakes and pay for the trauma he has put Imlie through.

Malini raping him was because of his own blind faith in her, and inability to trust Imlie...hence self-inflicted.

He is a hypocrite who is judging Imlie over Aryan when she has been gracious towards his dots relationship.

He is forgivable but after he suffers equally for what he put Imlie through...not for what he caused himself. If Imlie saw him leave her on KC and bring M home with zero farak to give...I want him to experience how Imlie felt by seeing her with Aryan. Adi as a character is incapable of seeing any other's POV - he is selfish. I want him to keenly experience for himself what he dished out and then I will be ok for his redemption - then an equal relationship.

Okay jumping in.. He's nit hypocrite he's insecure.. She left burning the MS/Sindoor.. He was always vocal about hum sirf tumare hai duniya chahe kuch bhi kahe kare.. Imlie proved in actions though but bolti nahi thi its their nature not judging either of them.. He always had that fear that she might leave because she's git many reasons.. The video footage in cam.. Where he said tumare paas 100 wajah hai hame chodne ki but hume chodkar mat jaao... He's in most vulnerable situation ryt now and with that someone hammering that xyz is taking interest in ur wife.. Ab wo jaake xyz ko to nahi bolega na why u taking interest in my wife??

He's twisting it to get an answer that Aryan is no one..He's scared to ask directly he did say that too when she asked him why not question her directly regarding article.. Not even a friend.. But Imlie is also in state of that hurt that how dare he question me then to I won't even bother to clarify now.. The communication gap and khudse assumptions with ppl interfering is making it worse..

Originally posted by: Juvvi9

Okay jumping in.. He's nit hypocrite he's insecure.. She left burning the MS/Sindoor.. He was always vocal about hum sirf tumare hai duniya chahe kuch bhi kahe kare.. Imlie proved in actions though but bolti nahi thi its their nature not judging either of them.. He always had that fear that she might leave because she's git many reasons.. The video footage in cam.. Where he said tumare paas 100 wajah hai hame chodne ki but hume chodkar mat jaao... He's in most vulnerable situation ryt now and with that someone hammering that xyz is taking interest in ur wife.. Ab wo jaake xyz ko to nahi bolega na why u taking interest in my wife??

He's twisting it to get an answer that Aryan is no one..He's scared to ask directly he did say that too when she asked him why not question her directly regarding article.. Not even a friend.. But Imlie is also in state of that hurt that how dare he question me then to I won't even bother to clarify now.. The communication gap and khudse assumptions with ppl interfering is making it worse..

Ok Juvvi ji - let's agree that he is insecure...and hence his actions are forgivable? He is an adult who is being manipulated left right and center. How many excuses, first it was years of manipulation, then it was guilt, now its insecurity...in all this Imlie is the one getting hurt. And he has no realization of it.

And how insecure? Hasn't he said multiple times that the sisters are fighting for him? over him? He thinks she is competing with M for him and thereby telling lies. That sounds like insecurity to you? That sounds more the opposite... a misplaced sense of his own attraction.

I am not saying Adi is bad. All I'm saying is he has caused irreparable damage to Adilie by his stupidity and insecurity. Imlie has said that Malini has directly acknowledged her plans to her and he does not believe her. If you put yourself in Imlie's shoes, what would you suggest she do now? Meet him and try to make him see he is trusting the wrong person? For how much longer?

He said M was irrelevant and therefore he would not ask her to leave. Help me understand - if she is irrelevant, why he rushed on KC day to bring her back at the expense of hurting the love of his life whose KC he wanted to be perfect, esp as she was going to just start the rasam? He is insecure so we should forgive him...but he can do things that can make Imlie insecure...with no recompense? Hypocrisy. He just cannot see another's POV. He is selfish and insecure and deserves to pay his dues before he can get Imlie back.

Originally posted by: opsora2090

It was imlie's decision at first

jab malini ko iss ghar mein Adi laya tha , adi asked permission from imlie if she ok with her staying or not ..imlie gave permission

jab Adi ka rape hua n court case hua , adi deleted Tabbhi Adi gave full responsibilities on imlie what she wants abt malini's staying.. if she wants malini TS ke sath naa rahee toh malini iss ghar mein nei rahegi .

but imlie ko bacche ka fikar huaa and despite knowing malini is evil she keeps malini in house n starting her sevaa , no one asked her do it

n again malini creating prb , Adi said please tum malini pe dheyan na do , hamare rishte pe usko na laou .. mujhe malini se koi farak nei parta, tum mere upar focus karo but she ignored n again n again fall on malini's trap like prey .. adi ye v bola tha malini hume dur nei kar rahe hain, bass tum kar rahe ho mujhe dur meko beech mei lakee.. but imlie dint listen

not blaming imlie.. agar aj ye din dekhne paree toh dono ke nadani ke bajase, it is very easy to blame on a man , but ppl never think from his side too.. adi ke side se kabhi nei

n woh sare kand, jhagde ke baad jab malini ko bhejne bola , adi ye bola tha hamare rishta itne kamjor nei malini ke rehne se ye tutegaa , ab toh malu nei jayegaa..it came in ego

n yes adilie rishta mei koi kamjori thaa tabhi malini inke beech ayee

Since I can't find the original to quote so quoting here

Uhm. I understand where you are coming form ppak but just saying kii aisa adbhudh nahi hai..there are people who live with the other wives/exes with the kids.. half the Pakistani shows are with 4/4 biwiyan.. now ofocurse that is a different point since it isn't the story here but just saying koi aisi out of world baat nahi hai.. have seen real women living with the families not that I approve of it personally but koi itna impossible baat bhi nahi hai..besides my thoughts on this have been said in multiple times I won't repeat

Originally posted by: PPak

Ok Juvvi ji - let's agree that he is insecure...and hence his actions are forgivable? He is an adult who is being manipulated left right and center. How many excuses, first it was years of manipulation, then it was guilt, now its insecurity...in all this Imlie is the one getting hurt. And he has no realization of it.

And how insecure? Hasn't he said multiple times that the sisters are fighting for him? over him? He thinks she is competing with M for him and thereby telling lies. That sounds like insecurity to you? That sounds more the opposite... a misplaced sense of his own attraction.

I am not saying Adi is bad. All I'm saying is he has caused irreparable damage to Adilie by his stupidity and insecurity. Imlie has said that Malini has directly acknowledged her plans to her and he does not believe her. If you put yourself in Imlie's shoes, what would you suggest she do now? Meet him and try to make him see he is trusting the wrong person? For how much longer?

He said M was irrelevant and therefore he would not ask her to leave. Help me understand - if she is irrelevant, why he rushed on KC day to bring her back at the expense of hurting the love of his life whose KC he wanted to be perfect, esp as she was going to just start the rasam? He is insecure so we should forgive him...but he can do things that can make Imlie insecure...with no recompense? Hypocrisy. He just cannot see another's POV. He is selfish and insecure and deserves to pay his dues before he can get Imlie back.

I didn't say his right.. He did mistakes he'll defo pay n he's paying too.. See we have different POV but him thinking the two sisters fighting for him was his idiotic thinking.. Many times he covered his insecurity n stated imlie as insecure coz that's what he thought that imlie thinks with M doing all those things he might go back..

Ohh the KC day thing.. She came while these guys were having an argument in their bedroom n topic was her..anyone would've git embarrassed.. He said he won't ask her to leave.. But she did.. Did he stop her anytime?? She did that to guilt trip.. Called him the whole KC day.. And while on call injured herself.. She very knows how to manipulate and guilt trip him 7 saal ka experience hai.. Now with baby in picture kya karta wo.. He already carrying the baggage of thinking he betrayed imlie on even though he was drugged after that baby.. And her doing the room pravesh and being all goody goody did make the situation worse..

He's is selfish and insecure but that goes on another level for imlie.. He doesn't want to see beyond that.. He's andha.. No one said he's correct.. But he's not hypocrite to me atleast..

He's an idiot in not giving a thought to Imlie's saying I agree but again she brought SK and played with his mind..

NM - I'm not questioning his sense of duty to his hone wala bachha. He has expressed how it happened without his consent many times and he is a victim. It's ok for him to have Malini at his house as long as Imlie is ok with it. He brought her back to T house in direct violation of Imlie's wishes. At that point when Imlie's words have no respect, where is the love?

He says he loves her and he does in his own way - but its not enough, its a love that has distrust, disrespect and selfishness and Imlie deserves better.

Till Adi sees the situation from Imlie's POV and gets his act together, they need to be alag.

Originally posted by: Juvvi9

I didn't say his right.. He did mistakes he'll defo pay n he's paying too.. See we have different POV but him thinking the two sisters fighting for him was his idiotic thinking.. Many times he covered his insecurity n stated imlie as insecure coz that's what he thought that imlie thinks with M doing all those things he might go back..

Ohh the KC day thing.. She came while these guys were having an argument in their bedroom n topic was her..anyone would've git embarrassed.. He said he won't ask her to leave.. But she did.. Did he stop her anytime?? She did that to guilt trip.. Called him the whole KC day.. And while on call injured herself.. She very knows how to manipulate and guilt trip him 7 saal ka experience hai.. Now with baby in picture kya karta wo.. He already carrying the baggage of thinking he betrayed imlie on even though he was drugged after that baby.. And her doing the room pravesh and being all goody goody did make the situation worse..

He's is selfish and insecure but that goes on another level for imlie.. He doesn't want to see beyond that.. He's andha.. No one said he's correct.. But he's not hypocrite to me atleast..

He's an idiot in not giving a thought to Imlie's saying I agree but again she brought SK and played with his mind..

Juvvi ji - I love Adilie and I would have preferred a better storyline where their love stood solid with the test of time and was not besmirched. Makers have done this and I don't want to be blind to Adi's flaws. My baseline is always me -personally. If I had an Adi and this scenario is my life - how I would react? I then try to temper it with the character sketch of the person playing Imlie. Based on this - I am very comfortable with what Imlie is doing and aghast at Adi's idiocy.

Originally posted by: PPak

NM - I'm not questioning his sense of duty to his hone wala bachha. He has expressed how it happened without his consent many times and he is a victim. It's ok for him to have Malini at his house as long as Imlie is ok with it. He brought her back to T house in direct violation of Imlie's wishes. At that point when Imlie's words have no respect, where is the love?

He says he loves her and he does in his own way - but its not enough, its a love that has distrust, disrespect and selfishness and Imlie deserves better.

Till Adi sees the situation from Imlie's POV and gets his act together, they need to be alag.

He expressed his consent was there but he never accepted that he was the victim zara jhol hi yaha hai.. He believed that him and M both were drugged n not M raped him..

I'm not blinded by Adi's doing but just trying to understand that ckts POV.. And regarding KC day I did say what I felt..

Originally posted by: Juvvi9

He expressed his consent was there but he never accepted that he was the victim zara jhol hi yaha hai.. He believed that him and M both were drugged n not M raped him..

I'm not blinded by Adi's doing but just trying to understand that ckts POV.. And regarding KC day I did say what I felt..

And he is choosing to believe this over Imlie's version of M intentionally drugging him. I've lost count of the number of time she has told him this. Even an illiterate man will stop and think - what if the love of my life is right. Here it never even crosses his mind. Why? And where is the logic for his strong belief? If the facts are so easy to believe for him and cut and right - then why did he delete the proof? Why not have Anu confess and have the law release Malini. He knows that the video clearly shows Malini's complicity. He believes M over I in spite of strong evidence to the contrary that he himself destroyed and still cannot consider Imlie's constant pleas for trust as truth. This kind of trust on Malini over Imlie is very disturbing to me.

What kind of trust on Malini this is - pls tell me :) If my husband trusted another woman like that - I would not stand for it...why should Imlie?

He gave gyaan to Imlie on SK and reporter integrity which he himself flunked with the video deletion.

Next per his own definition - if he suspects Imlie of having some interest in Aryan - he is a Kota sikka.

Every thing he says and does is contrary.

He is gray. He needs a solid redemption track. He does not have a justifiable POV. The only excuse he has is stupidity and willful ignorance. Wait and see - for all the fans support of his actions, he will be the first to recall all he did and berate himself. This will hit him hard.

I don't agree with Adi and am disappointed with makers in compromising Adilie for daily soap needs...but GM and ST are still outstanding. When Fahmaan entered I was thinking it was a bad idea...but the episodes that were filled with toxic sautan drama..I now find quite interesting. After ages I rewatch the episodes. Imlie's cute antics are back...and the Arylie interactions though progressing at jet speed are quite well done. Yesterday for example Imlie telling the party folks about Pagdandiya and the scene where Aryan trips over Imlie - Adi angst was very well done.

Originally posted by: PPak

NM - I'm not questioning his sense of duty to his hone wala bachha. He has expressed how it happened without his consent many times and he is a victim. It's ok for him to have Malini at his house as long as Imlie is ok with it. He brought her back to T house in direct violation of Imlie's wishes. At that point when Imlie's words have no respect, where is the love?

He says he loves her and he does in his own way - but its not enough, its a love that has distrust, disrespect and selfishness and Imlie deserves better.

Till Adi sees the situation from Imlie's POV and gets his act together, they need to be alag.

This in bold 🤗👏

Thats what. He loves her but that alone is not enough. How easily he said today "Imlie kisi or aadmi ke saath." I want to ask this despicable person, did he see Aryan and Imlie in even same room, forget about same bed and you are badmouthing your wife in front of your family just because she is living at a place you don't approve of. 👏👏

I know now addition to the list of his reasons; contrivance, hurt, drunk.