I joined this forum very long back when those days it was more active with majority all old members lingering on main thread. So that's how i know. There may be some silent male readers as well. One more male i could recall was par anjas. The females like sparkle, destiny, marathi_mulgi, loveexists, etc, these were the very active ones initially. Some left. Some drop by once a while. Tks to the crap story that many disappeared.