Courtship period for Abhira - Page 2

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I know but when Kairav had approached Akshara at the gates, she had outright refused the whole matter and blamed herself for building up a fantasy. What exactly she was feeling or the depth of them, Kairav has no clue. It's the same thing with Arohi. Apart from that one text message, Kairav has no idea what exactly transpired between her and Abhimanyu that led Arohi to believe that Abhimanyu loves her. Upar se, he was already biased against Abhi as he didn't trust his intentions with either of the girls. In Kairav's defense, he is right to be cautious. He barely knows Abhimanyu as a person, and neither of the girls have ever had a serious relationship before. If they had time to know one another, then he wouldn't have been so pissed.

Tbh, Kairav has been the only sensible one so far. He was correct to be cautious of Abhi when he met him at the resort. He was correct to argue with the family when they went behind Akshara's back and found a guy for him and proceeded with the talks. He was correct in wanting to tell Akshara about the rishta, wanting Abhi to state the name for whom he came, wanting to tell Arohi who the rishta is actually for, wanting to clear things out with Abhi and the list goes on and on. But the only reason why he's not taken so seriously is because he's "chota" compared to the other so called adults.

And adults are playing 'doctor-surgeon difference' game... Goenka's [and us] doesnt even know Neil kaun hai,... they just went behind family name..same goes with Birla's- nobody bothered to ask who is whom in each family before going ahead with rista [meri doctor Bahu meri doctor bahu bolne se pehle kuch clear toh karta... duniya mein doctor bahu ke kami todi hai]

Originally posted by: adithyan

And adults are playing 'doctor-surgeon difference' game... Goenka's [and us] doesnt even know Neil kaun hai,... they just went behind family name..same goes with Birla's- nobody bothered to ask who is whom in each family before going ahead with rista [meri doctor Bahu meri doctor bahu bolne se pehle kuch clear toh karta... duniya mein doctor bahu ke kami todi hai]

Exactly!

It goes to show another stark difference between the older generation and the younger. The older generation titles mein hi atki reh gayi while the younger generation wanted to take the time to get to know each other better for who the individual person is. As for the more personal baatein like who Neil is in relation to the Birlas, I'm sure it would have come up organically with the gang when the situation called for it.

And this "doctor bahu" ka jaap jo Manjiri ne laga rakha tha was so damn annoying. 😤😤

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Exactly!

It goes to show another stark difference between the older generation and the younger. The older generation titles mein hi atki reh gayi while the younger generation wanted to take the time to get to know each other better for who the individual person is. As for the more personal baatein like who Neil is in relation to the Birlas, I'm sure it would have come up organically with the gang when the situation called for it.

And this "doctor bahu" ka jaap jo Manjiri ne laga rakha tha was so damn annoying. 😤😤

in todays precap manjari is ohk with abhi akshu relationship...she will not be angry with akshu

Originally posted by: Khushi_Albeli

in todays precap manjari is ohk with abhi akshu relationship...she will not be angry with akshu

She told that if akshu also loves you then don't leave her but what if after the accident of aarohi akshu denies her feelings. Then what will they do. 😲

Then abhi will teach lessons for both sisters before confession it was confuseion happen after also they want to play with his emotions then definitely he will play his cards, beacuse today he got his maa permission also

Originally posted by: hari15

She told that if akshu also loves you then don't leave her but what if after the accident of aarohi akshu denies her feelings. Then what will they do. 😲

they r doing thismisunderstanding things before marriage of abhi nd akshu intentially making plot for future so that akshu will be taunted in her sasurals after mrg.Akshu become bad infront of birlas to such an extent thar she has to prove that she is good nd sacrificing bahu...So they will stretch all misunderstanding nd blame game for akshu

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Exactly!

It goes to show another stark difference between the older generation and the younger. The older generation titles mein hi atki reh gayi while the younger generation wanted to take the time to get to know each other better for who the individual person is. As for the more personal baatein like who Neil is in relation to the Birlas, I'm sure it would have come up organically with the gang when the situation called for it.

And this "doctor bahu" ka jaap jo Manjiri ne laga rakha tha was so damn annoying. 😤😤

my hated for Manjiri lessened after seeing precap... 😃

But her sister is so cheap despite being so educated🤢

Originally posted by: Khushi_Albeli

they r doing thismisunderstanding things before marriage of abhi nd akshu intentially making plot for future so that akshu will be taunted in her sasurals after mrg.Akshu become bas infront of birlas to such an extent thar she has to prove that she is good nd sacrificing bahu...So they will stretch all misunderstanding nd blame game for akshu

That is so irritating. I once thought yrkkh is doing work in progressive style and I admired it for that but this is complete bullshit now.

Originally posted by: adithyan

my hated for Manjiri lessened after seeing precap... 😃

But her sister is so cheap despite being so educated🤢

I never hated Manjiri. I actually really like her character and sympathize with her a lot. I just didn't like the "doctor bahu" jaap as it was said with way too much enthusiasm. I completely understand her abundance of happiness and desperation in wanting everything to go right. She had put way too much pressure and expectations on this wedding which wasn't fair to Abhi.