Originally posted by: CottonWorld
So I'm trying to figure out who is more obsessed with the other... Dev with Ishwari or vice versa. Till this point I think it's Dev who is coming across more obsessed with his mother. Obsessed and so deeply tangled in his past woes that anybody who will be close to him other than his family...will end up being collateral damage.
Ishwari at this point is trying to move on from her past... trying to enjoy her beautiful present but it's her son who keeps holding her back. Not saying that she doesn't enjoy the attention, concern or care bestowed upon by her son...but she wants to do it enjoy her present too which is something I don't see in Dev.
It did seem that dev was obsessed but i think by episode 3 it is apparent the Ishwari is even more so. These were the little red flags I missed first but the way she is eyeing who dev is talking to through entirety of the pooja is creepy. Like enjoy the celebration for you DAUGHTERS engagement and let your son live.
I also know later on she sends him off on a wild goose chase becuase she wants to prevent him fro talking to Saloni... like seriously??? and it doesn't end there, I also remember that down the line she makes it clear to Radha rani that she can intervene all she wants in Neha's life but Dev is off limits. Ishwari gets to be the only person making decisions on his behalf/ controlling him.
That was my original "she is going to wreak havoc" realisation