Baa and Vanraj are typical narcissists

The Karkhana kand is over.......what an overwhelming and emotional rollercoaster it was!!! 😭😭😭

Bapuji........baa's words have reduced him to a broken shell of a man.💔💔💔 Having watched Anupamaa's story from the beginning, I often questioned Bapuji's passive support to Anu, when he could have been more fierce in his stance. Baa's outburst at the Karkhana however, entirely justified his silence for all those years, which was needed to maintain peace in the house.

Shah house suffered collateral damage under the reign of Leela, her ladla and now her pota. Leela is the embodiment of a typical narcissist. She is an example of how one person can single handedly cause destruction...it is her sense of entitlement which she had carefully nurtured and passed on to her son....Bapuji and Anu were mere pawns who were in good books as long as they remained silent. In reality, their silence were two of the strongest pillars of the Shah house which helped and Baa and Vanraj could create a facade of a happy family for the entire world to see. The first pillar crumbled when Anu broke free of her toxic marriage. Bapuji knew that if Anu left, it would mark the start of domino effect of destruction of his house, aided by Baa's able new bahurani. Narcissists thrive on control on they excercise on their victims, blaming and shaming them for everything going wrong and certainly went back to their old ways with Anu. When Bapuji could not bear Anu's extreme humiliation at their hands he helped her break the shackles of her ghosla, and fly away. He knew that the house had become a makaan and was no longer a home...Leela's kand at the kharkhana was the final push to the hammer that broke Bapuji's pillar of silence as well and the house will now only move towards destruction....

Gaslighting, blaming and shaming victims for the mistakes that they themselves commit, is the core nature of narcissists....but the only thing they fear is that their victim slips away from their clutches.... Seeing Baa swing in her Jhoola today made me think that she is losing control over herself....the entire scene had such a creepy and spooky vibe to it ☠️☠️....gave me horror story feels with the creaking jhoola and the house devoid of light and the lamp lit in front of the deity flickering away.....the Shah house is totally doomed.....

Yes agar bapuji agar chup nahin rahe hote to ghar mein roj 24 hrs jhagda hi hota rehta aur vanraj bh पढ़ाई nahin kar paata

Chup rehne ka matlab yeh nahin ki bapuji baa se darte they. Baliki kisi bache ka future na bigde isliye woh shant rahe

Agar bapuji rich bhi hote to bhi aagey jaakur sub khuch barbaad hona tha. Kyonki leela ka yeh jhagda karna taunt karna yeh leela ka character situation ke hisaab nahi hai. Yeh leela ka inbuiit character ki use choti choti baat pe ya bina baat ka tamasha banana hai

Leela mein jabardast ego gussa bhara hai aur same go ti vanraj

People like baa vanraj ko bina matlab gussa karne ki aadat hai they have fully make mind ki chahe koi khuch kehta rahe hume kisi ki baat nahin sunni to aise mein inka baa vanraj khuch nahin ho sakta destrucion to hona hi hai

very well written. The two pillars of Tamashah House have come tumbling down. the supporting beams like Maamaji, Sanjaykumar and Dolly are alienated it is doom in sight for Leela, Ladla and his ladla.

Leela is quarrelsome by nature . We have never seen her say anything nice to anybody other than her ladla. She asked GK to stand arrogantly as he was from the boys ide in the Maang scene. If Hasmukh had also acted like Vanraj the house would have lost its sanctity. It is Anupama that cemented and held things together which is why Hasmukh treats her as his own daughter.

Leela love to insult others it is her bobby and favorite time paas . She is destructive by nature .

Originally posted by: moonwearer

very well written. The two pillars of Tamashah House have come tumbling down. the supporting beams like Maamaji, Sanjaykumar and Dolly are alienated it is doom in sight for Leela, Ladla and his ladla.

Thank you...❣️

These characters of Baa and Vanraj are so well sketched by the writers...you can literally find people like them in the society...but Anu who has managed to break free of them is truly an inspiration for many 🤗🤗

Very well written. Agree. Narcissism and borderline personality disorder diagnosis screams from Baa and Vanraj.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yes agar bapuji agar chup nahin rahe hote to ghar mein roj 24 hrs jhagda hi hota rehta aur vanraj bh पढ़ाई nahin kar paata

Chup rehne ka matlab yeh nahin ki bapuji baa se darte they. Baliki kisi bache ka future na bigde isliye woh shant rahe

Agar bapuji rich bhi hote to bhi aagey jaakur sub khuch barbaad hona tha. Kyonki leela ka yeh jhagda karna taunt karna yeh leela ka character situation ke hisaab nahi hai. Yeh leela ka inbuiit character ki use choti choti baat pe ya bina baat ka tamasha banana hai

Leela mein jabardast ego gussa bhara hai aur same go ti vanraj

People like baa vanraj ko bina matlab gussa karne ki aadat hai they have fully make mind ki chahe koi khuch kehta rahe hume kisi ki baat nahin sunni to aise mein inka baa vanraj khuch nahin ho sakta destrucion to hona hi hai

Aise logo ko zarurat hoti hai kisiki usse control karne k liye....they cannot survive without that...without it, they go bat shit crazy like Baa is behaving now....its really scary to live with such people...

Originally posted by: bob-bob

Very well written. Agree. Narcissism and borderline personality disorder diagnosis screams from Baa and Vanraj.

Absolutely....both of them need help though I doubt that their ego would ever let them accept their diagnosis...they would blame even that on Anu

Ek tiger itna khatarnaak nahin hoga jeetne ki leela