Baa's reaction

After watching the episode again I just want to say something. Baa's POV is not wrong entirely but is not right too because Babuji actually did something for her and here she valued everything on money.

I did say that my life has a lot of similarities with this show and todays episode had one of the similarity in it.

Baa's explanation on Vanraj was the one of the similarity here

I just wish (Kash, Kash) that my grand mother also did the same thing to my grandfather, so that we all would actually live our best life. My grandfather not only made his wife and kids suffer but also the grandchildren too.

My post itself needs a special thread for the never ending similarities and my story would actually be the perfect competition for this show.

Originally posted by: saito

After watching the episode again I just want to say something. Baa's POV is not wrong entirely but is not right too because Babuji actually did something for her and here she valued everything on money.

I did say that my life has a lot of similarities with this show and todays episode had one of the similarity in it.

Baa's explanation on Vanraj was the one of the similarity here

I just wish (Kash, Kash) that my grand mother also did the same thing to my grandfather, so that we all would actually live our best life. My grandfather not only made his wife and kids suffer but also the grandchildren too.

My post itself needs a special thread for the never ending similarities and my story would actually be the perfect competition for this show.

she brought out the frustration in what all she had faced probably, agreed, but the way she mixed everything - her frustrations in the past, and all the frustrations of losing things - of not having her family around in diwali - is what is wrong. Her main issue was that people left her, her house for MaAn. She could not take that and she lashed out at every damn thing she had in her head. And once u start, u kind of never stop until everything is out and thats exactly what has happened.

Her venting out was not the issue at all..everything she said may not be wrong but how she conveniently forgot to acknowledge Anu's sacrifices for the family are wrong..how she dismissed her all the time even while being married to Vanraj was wrong..she is the one who pushed everyone away with her bitter tongue..and most importantly lashing out infront of kids and grand kids was wrong..there is a time and place for sharing your problems and thats not by creating tamasha wherever you go🙄

And tomorrow the way she breaks stuff and physically harm ppl, however sorry you feel for her today flies out the window😏

Originally posted by: RainFire125

she brought out the frustration in what all she had faced probably, agreed, but the way she mixed everything - her frustrations in the past, and all the frustrations of losing things - of not having her family around in diwali - is what is wrong. Her main issue was that people left her, her house for MaAn. She could not take that and she lashed out at every damn thing she had in her head. And once u start, u kind of never stop until everything is out and thats exactly what has happened.

And this is exactly why she is wrong. She left no doors open for her justification. Anupama is not her anyone now. So she should've left her alone, but she is hell bent on troubling her. And in that process she dragged everyone in the matter.

Originally posted by: sunshine36

Her venting out was not the issue at all..everything she said may not be wrong but how she conveniently forgot to acknowledge Anu's sacrifices for the family are wrong..how she dismissed her all the time even while being married to Vanraj was wrong..she is the one who pushed everyone away with her bitter tongue..and most importantly lashing out infront of kids and grand kids was wrong..there is a time and place for sharing your problems and thats not by creating tamasha wherever you go🙄

And tomorrow the way she breaks stuff and physically harm ppl, however sorry you feel for her today flies out the window😏

After this there is no redemption for her!! Atleast I will not forgive her.

Aaj tuk baa kisi bhi cheej se satisfied hui

Unhe har cheez mein problem hai

Agar kinjal. Aur anupama saath has ke baat karein to baa ko problem

Anupama agar apni maa se baat kare to baa ko problem hai. Baa ko koi na koi excuse chahiye to create tamasha

Yeh baa toshu ka yeh hai yeh apni zindagi to poori jeena chahte hai but agar doosra agar khul ke jeena chahta hai to in baa toshu se bardaasht nahin hota

Like toshu khud ki zindagi ji jeene ke liye achi alag rehna chahta hai but toshu ko yeh tolerate nahin hai ki uski apni maa alag reh kar khud ki zindagi khul ke

Funda of baa toshu and vanraj khud jiyo magar doosre ko na jeene do

Originally posted by: sunshine36

Her venting out was not the issue at all..everything she said may not be wrong but how she conveniently forgot to acknowledge Anu's sacrifices for the family are wrong..how she dismissed her all the time even while being married to Vanraj was wrong..she is the one who pushed everyone away with her bitter tongue..and most importantly lashing out infront of kids and grand kids was wrong..there is a time and place for sharing your problems and thats not by creating tamasha wherever you go🙄

And tomorrow the way she breaks stuff and physically harm ppl, however sorry you feel for her today flies out the window😏

I'm not feeling sorry for her at all but on the contrary im happy that Anu will now see how her Baa really is.

Baa actually never saw Babuji's and Anupama's sacrifice but only saw Vanraj's and she valued that more than the others so she is totally wrong and yeah she should have not done the tamasha like that. She should've chosen some other time. If Kavya can do a meeting with Us president in Diwali then why cant Vanraj leave for an important work since he needs to roll the money from the cafe since there is no one working in the house.

Honestly I don’t even agree with her Venting. Yes there’s a time and place and all the above point are valid. BUT

My BIGGEST issue is why did she basically leave all the financial Responsibility and contribution on her husband head. A woman even of her generation can uplift the man and be their support. Instead of being spoon fed and waiting for better days she could have decided “this is not the life I want to live forever, and for my children- my husband is trying but struggling. I will try and help him in some way to improve our finances”.

she could have cooked or done something anything to make a better life instead of expecting it be her right as she is a woman.(financially) If she chose not help in the financial betterment then she has no right to speak now.
Yes she managed the finances of the house but come on she had a MIL. Leela managed the finances even though Anupama Vanraajs wife is there then Leelas MIL should have managed the finances. Seething I am.

Originally posted by: bob-bob

Honestly I don’t even agree with her Venting. Yes there’s a time and place and all the above point are valid. BUT

My BIGGEST issue is why did she basically leave all the financial Responsibility and contribution on her husband head. A woman even of her generation can uplift the man and be their support. Instead of being spoon fed and waiting for better days she could have decided “this is not the life I want to live forever, and for my children- my husband is trying but struggling. I will try and help him in some way to improve our finances”.

she could have cooked or done something anything to make a better life instead of expecting it be her right as she is a woman. If she chose not help in the financial betterment then she has no right to speak now.
Yes she managed the finances of the house but come on she had a MIL. Leela managed the finances even though Anupama Vanraajs wife is there then Leelas MIL should have managed the finances. Seething I am.

BOLD - this mindset is rare, u will not get this in many ladies. they will wait to be fed, to be given a better life and they will blame things on everyone else rather than themselves. And they will overlook every flaw in themselves and their kids ... sadists u see

Jhooladevi ne koi ehsaan nhi kiya na ho vanraj be koi ehsaan kiya hai every person hold responsibility towards his or her family they just fulfill their part of responsibility .