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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: raaz19


Welcome back Nim missed you girlie 🤗 I can so agree with you it has been a struggle to go to the main forum and not want to rant away and say that we got we wished for even if some of the scenes do not sit well with us as viewers.

I hate the fact that we are writing off Aditya and Imlie main character traits when we know that both of these will be explored further. This story has always been a slow burner of parallels and one has to connect the dots as they watch throughout. 😳

I know at the moment with the cast on holiday the story is somewhat on hold and slow but like Aps has been saying her positive post the reveal of Maline lies is in the horizon soon. Aditya is a lost muse without Imlie and his yearning for her will also burn him to become agitated and emotionally challenge to tolerate Maline nonsense. Imlie was he balance in this storm and with her gone his heart will not be in the place to meet her needs as she believes he shall. He was aloof to her before and know that that connect is gone he no longer sees the need to hold her issues close to him.


We wanted the separation and we got it too. How why and what shall happen will be shaped throughout the next few weeks and I still feel this track is not so bad as the suicide track we got. Sorry but that was repeated twice and with a rape and no one screamed murder. We need to see why asr is introduced and how his sister role shall play a part in imlie journey. Maybe this a parallel run to Maline story that two woman whom see there situations in two different ways. I feel they are here more to show us what the difference can be in the way the two ladies have handled the loss of love. I hope so anyway. And how this shapes imlie choices in the future and her way back to Aditya.

The drag is not necessary but at the same time I get why it happened. Like you said this journey requires patience and lot of it maybe a bottle of wine or two 🍷 🤣🤣



I just hate that with each tracks we get the forum explode with negatively. Seriously when you ask for angst wait for it to be shown. We always knew with a cliche track like this we will get cliche scenes too. But no all of a sudden that has been forgotten about everyone screams blue murder and ships imlie with the new guy like really 🤔


For me so far I have seen that although she has walked away she is equally hurt by her decision not once has she said it has been easy for her or them. She has shown her remorse for it and pain as well. But no that fact was left behind because the newbie hit her with the car or the duppata scene which once again was taken way out of context 🤔


Once again sorry to but I will say this and it’s not to offend anyone but the written update do not match the episode feel sometimes we home far more on the negatives then the positives. 🤔

But I have to agree with yourself asr will lose likely be paired with Rupi to support his revenge plan when he realises that his plan around imlie is not working 😈. So i am keeping the 🍿 warm in the stove for Maline reveal 😎 and with it a bucket of ice just incase that hope soon dies 🤣🤣

I am off to complete the run of episodes and then be back to officially rant away here too 🤣🤣 if you guys will still have me around 😆


So will say this as you said at the start detox 🥳for it has been indeed a challenge week so far.

But before signing of as Aditya realised his way towards love he will realise his way back to his redemption and so shall Imlie find her path to him too. There are two peas in a pod, whom have always been attracted to each other like a moth to a flame. All relationships face challenges but it doesn’t mean that the one dies with it for it only shows how it becomes stronger. 😎


As we have to remember Aditya always believed he would have a marriage of convenience which he found in his friendship with Maline. He never married for love to start and it was always a worry his mother held for him. Till his path met imlie whom showed him that love can make life a lot easier and better. She also made him realise what he was missing in his relationships.

In the opposite way we have to remember that Imlie never hoped to marry and find love that comes to accept her for whom she is. She alway wanted to be a free agent one whom decided her path and makes a name for her self. Becomes her own voice like the Phoenix of the soul she holds within. Just like Aditya she always yearned for acceptance and family and in this marriage she found it all and more. She found someone whom would encourage her to spread her wings and would support her journey by walking with her. Just as she has done with him. 😉

So although we may not like it but both never thought that love was possible and acceptance of whom they are with it too. Today since they have found it they yearn to fight to hold on to it. But all the misunderstanding can make it hard for that hope to stay afloat and that’s where they are today.
We have to remember in the 300 episodes they have found that connection and in the next few days they will also learn of ways of how to draw boundaries around the relationships that never should have matter with to start.

So no for me like Aps has said the slate has been wiped clean and once again for all the nay sayers out there it will be shown that had they met without any baggage they would have still belonged for there souls are interconnected by faith and no truth can change that.


sorry the ramble went on longer then I though it would 😆

You have all written it so well, Raaz, Nim and RD!


I will only add that as Imlie kept saying, when Adi finds out the whole truth, he will be shattered. Just the fact that he was raped by his so-called friend of seven years will be a very hard pill for him to swallow. 😒 Imlie was trying so hard not to put him through that as his wife, but as they say, life will teach you all that you need to learn one way or another. There is no escape for anyone from that. This phase is for him to realize that people can change with time, sometimes for the better & sometimes for worse. It is unwise for him to place blind faith in anyone, even if that is someone he has known for the longest period of time. As far as Imlie goes, she had to leave the house, yes, but she will eventually learn to reign in her tendency for impulsivity too. She is as human as Adi is, and time, maybe even this separation, will teach her some of the lessons that she needs to learn herself.


If the two people in a relationship do not stumble and pick themselves back up, they never grow. Adilie are meant to grow into more than what they are now. 😳 I know the writers have really pushed a lot of contrivance at us for whatever reasons, but the one aspect of this show that has remained constant from the very beginning is adilie's togetherness. I've always believed that even early Adi, full of bitterness and anger over the circumstances he was put in, was only ever his real self with Imlie. He took all liberties with her because she was always his own, a part of his self. While his actions weren't excusable, of course, that's the purest form of togetherness that can exist in my eyes. Even when they oppose each other, they try their hardest to find middle ground. Even when they are angry with each other, they cannot go long without seeing each other. Even when they fight hard, they make every possible effort to reconcile. It is always adilie against the rest of the world, even in the situations where it's Adi vs Imlie itself. That's hands down the most beautiful thing about them.


Just as our love for them is taking us through these testing times, their love will find a way. 😊

Edited by jperalta - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Wow a 100 pages! Honestly 100 pages ago I never thought I would be here. I remember telling a few I wanted to actually leave the forum for good for reasons alot ( if not all ) of us have and aps was one of them. It had gotten to the point I was pming some to share my thoughts, bakwas predu and opinions and well I was just thinking that it was too taxing mentally cos I didn’t want to go to the forum.. and then came this by aps.. the best part is she invited all those that she knew would gel - we have diff insights, diff opinions yet she knew we would be able to have healthy discussions so no matter what happens on imlie 1 year anniversary… Dhamaka or not I am chuffed to have u guys on this journey with me ..



I will come back to all your tags ladies.. today mummy duty calls . 😆


Edited by Rollingdeep - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: jperalta

You have all written it so well, Raaz, Nim and RD!


I will only add that as Imlie kept saying, when Adi finds out the whole truth, he will be shattered. Just the fact that he was raped by his so-called friend of seven years will be a very hard pill for him to swallow. 😒 Imlie was trying so hard not to put him through that as his wife, but as they say, life will teach you all that you need to learn one way or another. There is no escape for anyone from that. This phase is for him to realize that people can change with time, sometimes for the better & sometimes for worse. It is unwise for him to place blind faith in anyone, even if that is someone he has known for the longest period of time. As far as Imlie goes, she had to leave the house, yes, but she will eventually learn to reign in her tendency for impulsivity too. She is as human as Adi is, and time, maybe even this separation, will teach her some of the lessons that she needs to learn herself.


If the two people in a relationship do not stumble and pick themselves back up, they never grow. Adilie are meant to grow into more than what they are now. 😳 I know the writers have really pushed a lot of contrivance at us for whatever reasons, but the one aspect of this show that has remained constant from the very beginning is adilie's togetherness. I've always believed that even early Adi, full of bitterness and anger over the circumstances he was put in, was only ever his real self with Imlie. He took all liberties with her because she was always his own, a part of his self. While his actions weren't excusable, of course, that's the purest form of togetherness that can exist in my eyes. Even when they oppose each other, they try their hardest to find middle ground. Even when they are angry with each other, they cannot go long without seeing each other. Even when they fight hard, they make every possible effort to reconcile. It is always adilie against the rest of the world, even in the situations where it's Adi vs Imlie itself. That's hands down the most beautiful thing about them.


Just as our love for them is taking us through these testing times, their love will find a way. 😊

Bingo Girls Raaz, Nim, RDand JP👏

Just on point on everything.. I would just add now patience is the key..

@bold - adding on he'll be more shattered and hurt because in his obviousness to not see things and put on blinders.. He hurt imlie,their relationship suffered, the person who stood for truth and his biggest truth was his love for imlie who got hurt due to his trying to be in his own world despite warnings given.. He'll angry at himself for giving a person chance just because he knew her those 7 years..

Imlie thought when he'll come to know about M he'll be heartbroken but that's the thing where I think this seperation was long overdue if he came to know about M's manipulations and her deeds while imlie waa beside him.. He could've again be guilt tripped that M did all this because of him.. That guilt tripping thing with seperation and last card being played by M directly framing imlie and playing with Adi's mind which led imlie to leave cannot happen anymore I believe..

And for him M is white noise its imlie who matters but his past with M him being a self proclaimed gadha he was responsible for making her reach a point where she wanted to break the vishwas (IMO she's still having that but ye drama k chakkar mei they did all that MS/Sindoor burning thing which again will break Adi more) even after being warned n their relationship has to go through this phase he'll be more than shattered/broken.. That is why the diya FB scene in yesterday's episode.. He was in negligence for a moment n someone harmed the Imlie's vishwas.. But when he came to know he was just not letting it go and have it safe n sound holding on to the flame even if the process involved him getting burned..

And for imlie too she did her part in mistakes... But they both and we will eventually come out of this phase too..

I really hope I made sense

Edited by Juvvi9 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Woah 100 pages 👏..

Never ever thought I could write something or put up my POV while agreeing to disagree..

But yeah just love, love this place where we are able to share our thoughts without being judged or called biased..

A big shout to Aps for creating the space.. N cheers we're almost here.. 1 year down🥂 with those happy, sad, frustrating rants and moments.. We still made it so yeah we need to applaud ourselves too.. 👏.. 🎉🎊

Here's to hopefully next beautiful/frustrating but still sticking up phase together 🍻 🥳

Edited by Juvvi9 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Congratulations on hitting a century!!!!!!


To all who watched the show and stayed around, even during trying times, exchanging pleasantries and strong opinions, without fear of being judged.


Thanks to Aps for creating this space. 🤗


A big 🤗 to all the ladies here who share their thoughts and it is a delight to read through this thread.


We all have our other responsibilities and sometimes, posting a short hello or peeking in... understanding one may not be able to reply .. that is a blessing.

Here is a toast to many more to come and Happy 1st year anniversary of the show that is coming up soon.


Tagging all the members, you know who you are 😃 and wonderful folks without whom this would not be possible. Toast !!!!!

Edited by nim_var - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: nim_var

Congratulations on hitting a century!!!!!!


To all who watched the show and stayed around, even during trying times, exchanging pleasantries and strong opinions, without fear of being judged.


Thanks to Aps for creating this space. 🤗


A big 🤗 to all the ladies here who share their thoughts and it is a delight to read through this thread.


We all have our other responsibilities and sometimes, posting a short hello or peeking in... understanding one may not be able to reply .. that is a blessing.

Here is a toast to many more to come and Happy 1st year anniversary of the show that is coming up soon.


Tagging all the members, you know who you are 😃 and wonderful folks without whom this would not be possible. Toast !!!!!


Mujhe bi toast karungi aaj 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂


Edited by Rollingdeep - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Hahahahahahahahajajajahaha! I have gone mad.. I read that on one year anniversary Adilie will Be no more. Kya karu

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

Hahahahahahahahajajajahaha! I have gone mad.. I read that on one year anniversary Adilie will Be no more. Kya karu


I meant I read someone say this… don’t panic 😱


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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

Hahahahahahahahajajajahaha! I have gone mad.. I read that on one year anniversary Adilie will Be no more. Kya karu


Tell me where ? 🤣🤣 It cannot be birdie right 😆


Must be all the ***** dogs barking for there white noise must have become the white flashes we see and royally ignore 🤣🤣



Sorry but I cannot stop 😆😆 firts this new guy and know this what’s next 🤣🤣 pigeons flying 😎 just remembered they already do🤣🤣


Thanks for the good giggle 🤭 and so cannot blame your reaction too 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep


I meant I read someone say this… don’t panic 😱



That’s my reaction to birdie these days 🤣sorry cannot help it 🤣


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