[MEMBERSONLY] Show genuine discussions and opinions - Page 77

Originally posted by: raaz19

Just wanted to make sure all was okay 😊 for the forum lately has so gloomy which makes one worry of what to say and when. To be honest this is the safest place I feel to be vocal without being judged for sharing a viewpoint. And I am glad to have met like minded people whom love to discuss and share their thoughts too 🤗

Hope you have a lovely weekend 😊

Will be back later to share some more of my 💭 😆

Raaz +100 Bold

TBH I have not been to the mian forum at all or even had the patience to read the main posts..

I have been trying to detox and not be so addicted to the show.. trying hard.. so.. WIP.😆

I was numb to react seeing the epi last week and was waiting for some time to cool off before I put down my thoughts.. I just did not want to deal with anything related to the show..

Plus on our end, Hulu has been delaying the upload so that has been another test, to wait for the epi to upload or read the updates that sends us into a tizzy.

I feel ok after ranting in birdie yesterday... 😆😆 finally got it out of my system.

Arpita seems a nice enough ckt and she is going to bond with Imlie, she is going to see her bring a smile to her khadoos bhai's face and she is going to turn matchmaker as Imlie is not wearing MS/Sindoor. contrived plots and MU's.... next level.

Will M be used as a pair with ASR or will be paired with Rupi or just a friend... god knows... what they have in mind but till it becomes clear, have to put up with the new entries.

I really want to see M ka pf.. but the feeling I have is like it will be slow.. like peeling the layers of an onion, it will make us cry.. with impatience lol but it will come.. until then we require patience.

I hope and want to see Imlie continue to stay at the hostel.. the warden insulting her was uncalled for. How much more humiliation does Imlie have to bear.. now she has to hear taanas from the new family as well and that will be so disappointing.

Originally posted by: Whatever765

I just checked out one of the most serene visuals of AKT praying to God and a tree -hopefully to grow some sense.. 😍

Sitting there thinking what went wrong

Oh how the mighty have fallen after being quite strong

White is soothing white is calm

Is this the lull before the storm? 🤔

*runs away, because break*🤧

Think we all loved that scene .. these two can’t even survive one day without torturing themselves so I wonder how they intend to drag this . How will they tie in imlie with the new fam? Only thing I can think of is BT and I guess from there they will build the bond..

Arree what more storm can they bring yaar? 😂😂😂😂😂they have given us more than storm as in tornado, tsunami, earthquake, volcano. Aap kuch baaki nahi raha.. oh wait.. imlie marry asr to save his family ! Shrugs.. bhau can do anything

Originally posted by: nim_var

Hola peeps.

I am having mixed feelings and have been watching the episodes.. I think I am finally able to detox...and not think about the episode after I watch. In that respect..yay..at last..

The pf that was promised is sadly not in the horizon and M still has the upper hand, living in her delusions and obsessive behavior continuing.

A few observations on the separation that the FD wanted to see but the whole thing came about in a very contrived fashion. It was uncalled for and very OTT and have an issue with some of the scenes..that I called out the makers for.. not that anything is going to change..

Cannot disrespect the religious sentiments of folks and label it as entertainment. This has been going on subtly in the show and am not happy about it.

The burning of the MS and wiping of the sindoor when those are important symbols of a married woman in Hindu culture was uncalled for and unnecessary. Imlie as a ckt was shown to value these as she came from the land of Sita Maiyaa and for her to cast these off aside, in a fit of ego, anger, disappointment.. whatever does not sit well with me. I can rant more about this scene where none of the Ts who did a token search and returned to Adi just running till the gate to search for her or meethi/Nani who meekly returned to PD after cursing the Ts.. the whole MU between Adilie was setup and executed at jet speed.. and continuity suffered big time. No cohesiveness or exposure of what we need, instead we are getting all other unwanted new entries and their back story.

We have been tolerating the crap dished out by the makers.. in the hope that M will be exposed.. but that is not happening. She is still continuing to live with the Ts and they are tolerating her behavior.. lord know why.

As for the new entry..sorry did not make an impression at all and his back story is even less impressive.. glad that Gaurav's wife got a role to play but again.. not really keen on the story or the bhai behen bonding.. FF zindabad..

Whether it is going to a triangle,quadrangle or a pentagon..again. the stupid kichdi being cooked by the makers is not very palatable, with Gash ka ss reduced..that leaves the FD wanting more.

Am I waiting to see the next week, not really unless it involves the pf of M or Adi wakes up and smells the coffee about his GD.

Thank you to all those who tagged me.. sorry for not replying earlier.

Hey nim! Good to hear from u after so long.. but I been reading your thoughts on birdie too so 😂😂😂… honestly this track has been testing all of our patience and some is just in bad taste.. I will say this show likes controversy of their own doing.. I think only we are trying to find silver linings.. that’s why I come here cos the day this thread no one has hope is the day I know it’s time to do extreme detox. 🤣..maybe we can get a virtual detox package for all of us.. group discount 😆😆

as for Didi pf, the dialogues from the diff characters seem to indicate something and sometimes if I think really really hard and squint my eyes, it seems like that’s what the writers are heading towards it and I think they are showing Didi getting more desperate that her plan didn’t work.. but I don’t know if I am delu.. the writers are really doing kichdi but I am hoping that at the end like kichidi is comfort food then something good will come out of this… the writers have to add on chutney, dhai and aloo 🤤… also cos it’s one day in imlie land but 4 days in real, I think at least for me i imaging all the things they should do but to them its bern a few hours and adI thinks imlie will defo come back . To him he is still stuck on she will return before end of day abd samd for family I guess deep down..

. vaisai seems like everyone except delu Didi, st and new fam are shooting this weekend .. for me I don’t mind if gm ss is being reduced for the last one day so cos they are building a story but I can’t connect with this new family so that’s the irritating part and I have given up

Trying to understand their mind so like u I have a lot of ff going on… 😁…

One thing I wanted to bring up which is more real than reel is that delu Didi is milking it with her fans for sympathy.. it’s sad cos I heard it’s st birthday on Monday.. can u imagine the abuse from Didi fans over the weekend.. ???

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CWOMDsYg2U_/?utm_medium=copy_link

anyway like most here I only go main forum for spoilers or to post media updates.. the rest I really try to stay away cos no one likes my comments 😂😂😂😂😂 ( see what I did there?? I did a delu Didi looking for sympathy )

sorry my thoughts are very scrambled

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

Think we all loved that scene .. these two can’t even survive one day without torturing themselves so I wonder how they intend to drag this . How will they tie in imlie with the new fam? Only thing I can think of is BT and I guess from there they will build the bond..

Arree what more storm can they bring yaar? 😂😂😂😂😂they have given us more than storm as in tornado, tsunami, earthquake, volcano. Aap kuch baaki nahi raha.. oh wait.. imlie marry asr to save his family ! Shrugs.. bhau can do anything

Storm within RD! 😄

The man has to get to that point of tsunami in his thoughts/feelings..

Originally posted by: Whatever765

Storm within RD! 😄

The man has to get to that point of tsunami in his thoughts/feelings..

oh ha.. that’s true.. but the poignancy of their angst is so good . U feel the pain which is conveyed without screaming or monologues like some ppl need . I would have stopped watching a long time ago if not for st, gm and the cast .

Originally posted by: Rollingdeep

Hey nim! Good to hear from u after so long.. but I been reading your thoughts on birdie too so 😂😂😂… honestly this track has been testing all of our patience and some is just in bad taste.. I will say this show likes controversy of their own doing.. I think only we are trying to find silver linings.. that’s why I come here cos the day this thread no one has hope is the day I know it’s time to do extreme detox. 🤣..maybe we can get a virtual detox package for all of us.. group discount 😆😆

Hey RD ... just missed this group so much.. and the honest opinions. 🤗

So we have a safe space to vent out and also state what is in our minds..

Lol..ok.. 😆

see the things folks have diff userids in birdie n in the forum.. there are few I know who use the same usernames.. as for the rest... dunno.. but glad you have been keeping up with birdie. Sometimes it is easier for me to state what I feel in 150 ckts and be done with the epi for the day.

We defo need a detox package- group.. and we all do shanti mantra..OM..... now, wiz ka gif of the cat meditating comes to mind.. and a massage at the end of it. So stress inducing and trying to deduce what is coming our way or seeing Dd rant/roll those eyes of hers.. in delusion.

as for Didi pf, the dialogues from the diff characters seem to indicate something and sometimes if I think really really hard and squint my eyes, it seems like that’s what the writers are heading towards it and I think they are showing Didi getting more desperate that her plan didn’t work.. but I don’t know if I am delu.. the writers are really doing kichdi but I am hoping that at the end like kichidi is comfort food then something good will come out of this… the writers have to add on chutney, dhai and aloo 🤤… also cos it’s one day in imlie land but 4 days in real, I think at least for me i imaging all the things they should do but to them its bern a few hours and adI thinks imlie will defo come back . To him he is still stuck on she will return before end of day abd samd for family I guess deep down..

Yup bold of kichdi being comfort food that is calming for the stomach and is good too.. hoping the makers see fit to give us closure to M and her delusions. I too believe with Aps and the rest that some plan is being executed right now and we need to give it time to see it come to fruition. We were wanting separation and I to walk out of the T h and that she did. The manner I do not agree with but all the same we got it..

Dd is going to get more and more despo as people are missing/thinking of Imlie all the time and she cannot erase her from their hearts and mind. They are merely tolerating her presence now and that is going to drive her up the wall even more.. so yes I will wait for the pf..

Not happening the coming week as the Ts are all on vacation. So we will get more of the newbies and ofc Dd.. theek hai.. whatever is thrown our way.

. vaisai seems like everyone except delu Didi, st and new fam are shooting this weekend .. for me I don’t mind if gm ss is being reduced for the last one day so cos they are building a story but I can’t connect with this new family so that’s the irritating part and I have given up

Trying to understand their mind so like u I have a lot of ff going on… 😁…

M is trying very hard to ingratiate herself into the Ts life again and not succeeding. Rupi knows and probably is smart enough to just warn her, be alert and watch out as she saw her games with Imlie that ultimately led her to leaving on her own on Diwali day, which is a big deal. As for Adi he is trying to come to terms with Imlie leaving him and trying to find comfort in the things that mattered to her, hence the visit to the mandir and no dialogues, just blissful silence, trying to absorb the facts in his mind, probably praying for strength to deal with it and also find the strength to bring her back as he is hurting badly now. He said her presence is his biggest gift and she has denied him that gift now by walking out.

One thing I wanted to bring up which is more real than reel is that delu Didi is milking it with her fans for sympathy.. it’s sad cos I heard it’s st birthday on Monday.. can u imagine the abuse from Didi fans over the weekend.. ???

oh yes i saw this and am appalled. The poor girl thinks of MD as her badi behen and this is what she is asking of her fans... delusional much and despogiri. Yuck.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CWOMDsYg2U_/?utm_medium=copy_link

anyway like most here I only go main forum for spoilers or to post media updates.. the rest I really try to stay away cos no one likes my comments 😂😂😂😂😂 ( see what I did there?? I did a delu Didi looking for sympathy )

sorry my thoughts are very scrambled - Me too same boat.. thoughts all over the place..

my reply in bold blue RD.

Originally posted by: nim_var

my reply in bold blue RD.

I get you NM.., as for birdie I am not on much cos the toxicity there would give anyone stomach ulcer.. just read a few of which one is yours cos I knew it was you… and normally I go to get updates cos I watch quite late nowdays … apart from that the rest of ppl on birdie I just ignore and I am not active there either so I don’t actually post . I post here only

Reached a 100 pages frans 🥳

Thank you for making such a wonderful, open & warm platform for us, Aps! ❤️

Originally posted by: nim_var

Raaz +100 Bold

TBH I have not been to the mian forum at all or even had the patience to read the main posts..

I have been trying to detox and not be so addicted to the show.. trying hard.. so.. WIP.😆

I was numb to react seeing the epi last week and was waiting for some time to cool off before I put down my thoughts.. I just did not want to deal with anything related to the show..

Plus on our end, Hulu has been delaying the upload so that has been another test, to wait for the epi to upload or read the updates that sends us into a tizzy.

I feel ok after ranting in birdie yesterday... 😆😆 finally got it out of my system.

Arpita seems a nice enough ckt and she is going to bond with Imlie, she is going to see her bring a smile to her khadoos bhai's face and she is going to turn matchmaker as Imlie is not wearing MS/Sindoor. contrived plots and MU's.... next level.

Will M be used as a pair with ASR or will be paired with Rupi or just a friend... god knows... what they have in mind but till it becomes clear, have to put up with the new entries.

I really want to see M ka pf.. but the feeling I have is like it will be slow.. like peeling the layers of an onion, it will make us cry.. with impatience lol but it will come.. until then we require patience.

I hope and want to see Imlie continue to stay at the hostel.. the warden insulting her was uncalled for. How much more humiliation does Imlie have to bear.. now she has to hear taanas from the new family as well and that will be so disappointing.

Welcome back Nim missed you girlie 🤗 I can so agree with you it has been a struggle to go to the main forum and not want to rant away and say that we got we wished for even if some of the scenes do not sit well with us as viewers.

I hate the fact that we are writing off Aditya and Imlie main character traits when we know that both of these will be explored further. This story has always been a slow burner of parallels and one has to connect the dots as they watch throughout. 😳

I know at the moment with the cast on holiday the story is somewhat on hold and slow but like Aps has been saying her positive post the reveal of Maline lies is in the horizon soon. Aditya is a lost muse without Imlie and his yearning for her will also burn him to become agitated and emotionally challenge to tolerate Maline nonsense. Imlie was he balance in this storm and with her gone his heart will not be in the place to meet her needs as she believes he shall. He was aloof to her before and know that that connect is gone he no longer sees the need to hold her issues close to him.

We wanted the separation and we got it too. How why and what shall happen will be shaped throughout the next few weeks and I still feel this track is not so bad as the suicide track we got. Sorry but that was repeated twice and with a rape and no one screamed murder. We need to see why asr is introduced and how his sister role shall play a part in imlie journey. Maybe this a parallel run to Maline story that two woman whom see there situations in two different ways. I feel they are here more to show us what the difference can be in the way the two ladies have handled the loss of love. I hope so anyway. And how this shapes imlie choices in the future and her way back to Aditya.

The drag is not necessary but at the same time I get why it happened. Like you said this journey requires patience and lot of it maybe a bottle of wine or two 🍷 🤣🤣

I just hate that with each tracks we get the forum explode with negatively. Seriously when you ask for angst wait for it to be shown. We always knew with a cliche track like this we will get cliche scenes too. But no all of a sudden that has been forgotten about everyone screams blue murder and ships imlie with the new guy like really 🤔

For me so far I have seen that although she has walked away she is equally hurt by her decision not once has she said it has been easy for her or them. She has shown her remorse for it and pain as well. But no that fact was left behind because the newbie hit her with the car or the duppata scene which once again was taken way out of context 🤔

Once again sorry to but I will say this and it’s not to offend anyone but the written update do not match the episode feel sometimes we home far more on the negatives then the positives. 🤔

But I have to agree with yourself asr will lose likely be paired with Rupi to support his revenge plan when he realises that his plan around imlie is not working 😈. So i am keeping the 🍿 warm in the stove for Maline reveal 😎 and with it a bucket of ice just incase that hope soon dies 🤣🤣

I am off to complete the run of episodes and then be back to officially rant away here too 🤣🤣 if you guys will still have me around 😆

So will say this as you said at the start detox 🥳for it has been indeed a challenge week so far.

But before signing of as Aditya realised his way towards love he will realise his way back to his redemption and so shall Imlie find her path to him too. There are two peas in a pod, whom have always been attracted to each other like a moth to a flame. All relationships face challenges but it doesn’t mean that the one dies with it for it only shows how it becomes stronger. 😎


As we have to remember Aditya always believed he would have a marriage of convenience which he found in his friendship with Maline. He never married for love to start and it was always a worry his mother held for him. Till his path met imlie whom showed him that love can make life a lot easier and better. She also made him realise what he was missing in his relationships.

In the opposite way we have to remember that Imlie never hoped to marry and find love that comes to accept her for whom she is. She alway wanted to be a free agent one whom decided her path and makes a name for her self. Becomes her own voice like the Phoenix of the soul she holds within. Just like Aditya she always yearned for acceptance and family and in this marriage she found it all and more. She found someone whom would encourage her to spread her wings and would support her journey by walking with her. Just as she has done with him. 😉

So although we may not like it but both never thought that love was possible and acceptance of whom they are with it too. Today since they have found it they yearn to fight to hold on to it. But all the misunderstanding can make it hard for that hope to stay afloat and that’s where they are today.
We have to remember in the 300 episodes they have found that connection and in the next few days they will also learn of ways of how to draw boundaries around the relationships that never should have matter with to start.

So no for me like Aps has said the slate has been wiped clean and once again for all the nay sayers out there it will be shown that had they met without any baggage they would have still belonged for there souls are interconnected by faith and no truth can change that.

sorry the ramble went on longer then I though it would 😆

Reached a 100 pages frans 🥳

Thank you for making such a wonderful, open & warm platform for us, Aps! ❤️

Congratulations 🥳 everyone on this new milestone 🤗

Well spotted and thanks again for the thread Aps 🤗

And jperalta thanks for starting the party 🎈 😆