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When Sai got married everyone assumed they will consummate their marriage so an SR was arranged for them . Sai was 18 yr old then she didn’t react like Virat was about to force her . She trusted a man whom she knew for few months and calmly handled it . She even didn’t suspect the man when he tucked her hair behind but fast forward to 1 yr Sai gets uncomfortable with his innocent hand touch because someone spoke about having babies .Is it more uncomfortable than SR with a deal husband ? Seriously?? She knew him for past 1 year and she has shared bed with him yet she gets panic attack when he touches her hand . Where is progression ?? This was supposed to Sai’s realization track right ? Please don’t make Sai like a 5 yr old girl . An 18 yr old Sai was far mature than this 19 yr old girl .

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Virat’s age

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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

😆😆 I know right

When she unilaterally took decisions for a mentally unstable Devyani , when she understood Pulkit’s love for Devi just by liking into his eyes , when she decided to celebrate anniversary she was not 19 . Her plan could have backfired and being just 19 people shouldn’t question her involvement in such complicated matter but when it comes to her life she becomes 19 . 19 year old are aware of difference between friendship and marriage . She is not 4 yrs old to not understand the advances of a man .

When she can sense Pulkit’s love , Aai Baba love then why is he acting ignorant when it comes to understanding Virat . This friendship spoiled the beautiful organic growth of Sairat . Initially though she was just 18 she knew the kind of relationship she shared with Virat but after turning 19 she is unable to differentiate between friendship and marriage.

I had mentioned this in one of my earlier posts that Sai is someone who doesn't want to get tied in a relationship. She loves her freedom. Basically, if she does acknowledge her relation with Virat it will be clear that she's accepted him as a husband,so she's playing safe. She has been brought up in an environment where noone questioned her. Kamal sir gave her so much freedom that she accustomed living on her own terms and conditions,which is not wrong but she's crossing her limits.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Wow Kaku …👏👏 she asked all the valid questions today . I must say she won my heart and proved why she eas able to rule CN for so long unlike Ashwini. Ashwini lacks vision .

Kaku asked all right questions and I am glad she thought about him unlike Ashwini who only thinks about Sai . She was right when she said how long can they be scared of Sai’s dhamki of leaving the home. What would happen to Virat if one day Sai dumps him ? If Sai cannot accept him as her husband then it’s better she divorces him and allows him to move on in life . He deserves conjugal bliss .

Less said the better about Sai . Maybe a dedicated post for her is needed

Wow! When you're living in a joint family the head of the family has to be strong to keep the family intact. I have lived in a joint family and so I'm aware of the nuances. Kaku is definitely the right person to rule Chavan family. Ashwini lacks vision as well as she doesn't know how to mould a person. She doesn't have the knowledge to pull the string on Sai. She's always soft towards her and gives in her demands. That's why she's flying high.

You have mentioned about Kaku asking the right questions and from your post I feel Ashwini must have been left tongue tied. And, I too am happy that she thought about Virat unlike Ashwini who only thinks about Sai. Why should the family be scared of Sai leaving the house? It's not their problem. They should be worried about Virat's future. He deserves peace.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

When Sai got married everyone assumed they will consummate their marriage so an SR was arranged for them . Sai was 18 yr old then she didn’t react like Virat was about to force her . She trusted a man whom she knew for few months and calmly handled it . She even didn’t suspect the man when he tucked her hair behind but fast forward to 1 yr Sai gets uncomfortable with his innocent hand touch because someone spoke about having babies .Is it more uncomfortable than SR with a deal husband ? Seriously?? She knew him for past 1 year and she has shared bed with him yet she gets panic attack when he touches her hand . Where is progression ?? This was supposed to Sai’s realization track right ? Please don’t make Sai like a 5 yr old girl . An 18 yr old Sai was far mature than this 19 yr old girl .

Sai knew Virat even before she married him. When Jagtap kidnapped her and Virat came on time to save her the relief on her face was quite evident. It looked as if she was sure he would save her.

Coming back to her marriage though she didn't want to get married somewhere she did have a feeling that Virat wouldn't force himself on her. But, after one year of marriage she doesn't trust him and she's feeling uncomfortable to share his bedroom. This is ridiculous. There's no progress from Sai's side.

https://twitter.com/sairatlove/status/1458371296954257417?s=20

https://twitter.com/salkat_2716/status/1458390390030016514?s=20

https://twitter.com/SarahBethKrn/status/1458434033310859269?s=20

Can anyone tell me what happens after Pakhi, Sonali and Omi try to instigate Bhavani? I've watched till Sai breaks down in front of Ninad and Ashwini in their bedroom and she misunderstands Virat about him talking with Sunny about anniversary celebration.