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Bhavani's Strange Demand

After Bhavani orders Sai and Virat to share a room, she demands a child from them. While Sai breaks into tears, Virat fears losing the bond again.

What is this demand! There is one BIG DIL sitting and doing nothing.Why cant she ask her that! Asking a woman who is studying to become a doctor is cruel. Virat should say it is none of others business to demand things like this from them. He should not distance himself from this demand. He should own up their relationship and say his decision. Sai will be impressed and BK will shut up.

But I think he will make up his mind for the transfer. Why? 😭

Unfortunately this kind of topic makes Sai shut down and will definitely hamper the progress she has made coz such topics remind Sai of the circumstances of their marriage n how they are nothing like a real couple even now. In any case she is not at an age/point in her life or marriage where she is ready to be having babies. She is a student, only 19- 20 years old and she has to finish her education first. And hers is not a conventional marriage. Despite knowing everything about the circumstances of the marriage it is extremely insensitive for bk to publicly say rubbish like this to Sairat. We know BK is ridiculous but wveryday this show sets new bars for how pathetic their screenplay can get. 🙄😡 I hope they partially redeem themselves with appropriate reactions from Sairat- especially Virat.

One time post harinee party when there was a mention of kids, Sai just walked away n Virat shut them up firmly. I hope it is something similar this time. There should be no prolongation of discussion on such rubbish.

When any couple - even a regular one choose to have kids or not is only n only their matter. People can offer counsel if they are well intentioned but not make a public spectacle of it.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Unfortunately this kind of topic makes Sai shut down and will definitely hamper the progress she has made coz such topics remind Sai of the circumstances of their marriage n how they are nothing like a real couple even now. In any case she is not at an age/point in her life or marriage where she is ready to be having babies. She is a student, only 19- 20 years old and she has to finish her education first. And hers is not a conventional marriage. Despite knowing everything about the circumstances of the marriage it is extremely insensitive for bk to publicly say rubbish like this to Sairat. We know BK is ridiculous but wveryday this show sets new bars for how pathetic their screenplay can get. 🙄😡 I hope they partially redeem themselves with appropriate reactions from Sairat- especially Virat.

One time post harinee party when there was a mention of kids, Sai just walked away n Virat shut them up firmly. I hope it is something similar this time. There should be no prolongation of discussion on such rubbish.

When any couple - even a regular one choose to have kids or not is only n only their matter. People can offer counsel if they are well intentioned but not make a public spectacle of it.

Yes instead of distancing himself which he will anyways do, he should express that it will be their decision to have or not to have. Owning up their marriage in front of others is something Sai needs to see from him. They are wife and husband first and Virat should not forget it in the facade of friendship. Just keeping mum will send mixed signals to Sai.

mollion $ question is why she doesnt ask Pakhi! this shows double standards. just to trouble sai?!

This is so stupid.

Why should Sai or Virat cry about it?

Kaku is not forcing them to have sex on the dining table.

They can be like yes ok and then do what they want in their bedroom.

Sai is crying and behaving as if she always does as the family tells her to do, so if kaku asks, she will have a child next year.

They have brought this talk on themselves by talking about Ashwini Ninad SR decorations. They could have just let it be a surprise for just them and downplayed it when Devi spoke about the decorations.

But Sai and Virat made it okay for such talks to happen and Kaku won't let them go that easily.

Virat needs to take a firm stand and not only call Sai his wife but say that their dynamics as a couple , when they have kids etc is nobody's business and that he will not tolerate such matters being made a mockery of and Sai being made to feel insulted in any way. He needs to reinforce that Sai's education and careee aspiration takes priority over ghar ka chiraag. But he needs to make sure that his stance reflects that he still thinks of Sai as his wife. And that negating talk of kids is not in any way a signal to Sai that he still may be caught up in his past.

I hope they deviate from KD and dont show Virat deliberately take transfer n abandon her. They can ahow him gonon a mission or short term assignment n have Sai miss him wtc.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Virat needs to take a firm stand and not only call Sai his wife but say that their dynamics as a couple , when they have kids etc is nobody's business and that he will not tolerate such matters being made a mockery of and Sai being made to feel insulted in any way. He needs to reinforce that Sai's education and careee aspiration takes priority over ghar ka chiraag. But he needs to make sure that his stance reflects that he still thinks of Sai as his wife. And that negating talk of kids is not in any way a signal to Sai that he still may be caught up in his past.

I hope they deviate from KD and dont show Virat deliberately take transfer n abandon her. They can ahow him gonon a mission or short term assignment n have Sai miss him wtc.

I think this is what they will show. He will show his displeasure to kaku by taking transfer. It is like saying if you think you can force us to stay together when she is not ready, let me take a step back! 😭 In that way he is not abandoning her like in KD, but giving her space and some more time. It also shows he is capable of taking a stand keeping Sai and their relationship as priority.

Meanwhile, I hope Sai to realize what she means to Virat or the dynamics of their relationship. I want her to move with full acceptance into the room, not as a compromise. Lets see. This turn of events is beautiful except for the BK crap talk. Sai's realization is shown beautifully, and I want to see her conflicts fallings one by one.

Originally posted by: ranijain

This is so stupid.

Why should Sai or Virat cry about it?

Kaku is not forcing them to have sex on the dining table.

They can be like yes ok and then do what they want in their bedroom.

Sai is crying and behaving as if she always does as the family tells her to do, so if kaku asks, she will have a child next year.

They have brought this talk on themselves by talking about Ashwini Ninad SR decorations. They could have just let it be a surprise for just them and downplayed it when Devi spoke about the decorations.

But Sai and Virat made it okay for such talks to happen and Kaku won't let them go that easily.

I think because they are really trying to work their relationship. Virat is restless but Sai is finding it really useful I think. Also, it screams double standards to just point them out like that in front of the family. Especially when she is studying for the most demanding course.

I hope BK tells Pakhi too about the baby. She should not be spared from facing the reality. 😡

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I think because they are really trying to work their relationship. Virat is restless but Sai is finding it really useful I think. Also, it screams double standards to just point them out like that in front of the family. Especially when she is studying for the most demanding course.

I hope BK tells Pakhi too about the baby. She should not be spared from facing the reality. 😡

@bold - Yes if Kaku thinks she is being the rightful mukhiya, she should tell this to Samrat Pakhi as well. She doesnt think Mohit is earning enough, so she might not incl them.

Or it is possible that today she will finally say that Sairat or Mohrishma only can give their true heir.

Otherwise Harinee is a chirag just like how Samrakhi's child will be.

I hope Pakhi gets a reminder she is no Chavan Bahu. its only Karishma and Sai.

See the point i was making is, Kaku never spoke about this in open before, but sairat by taking about Nini SR, brought it that anyone can talk about SAIRAT sex life in open. This might be Kaku's way of putting them in place by public humiliation that she does best (like how she did Sonali and Omi on Visarjan day). Sairat can work something between themselves by talking it in private or with Ashwini in private. What is the need to cry in front of kaku as if having sex is a punishment. They can even say we tried but no child, sorry.

Originally posted by: ranijain

This is so stupid.

Why should Sai or Virat cry about it?

Kaku is not forcing them to have sex on the dining table.

They can be like yes ok and then do what they want in their bedroom.

Sai is crying and behaving as if she always does as the family tells her to do, so if kaku asks, she will have a child next year.

They have brought this talk on themselves by talking about Ashwini Ninad SR decorations. They could have just let it be a surprise for just them and downplayed it when Devi spoke about the decorations.

But Sai and Virat made it okay for such talks to happen and Kaku won't let them go that easily.

It's embarrassing na for any couple married for over a year to be indicated upon that they don't share any sexual relationship or even if they do when they should start family planning. Plus the girl is insecure about herself as his wife, theirs was a circumstancial marriage and she's almost a kid in many ways. She's not asked for this marriage or the deal plus she's being threatened to move back to their room in a very unpleasant manner after being shown that she matters.

They could have avoided tears but I think what they want to portray is that this change in stance and again display of fake love ultimately by Kaku for Sai has hurt her a lot. She might bounce back when she'll come prepared in the next zillat for this fake matriarch.