Temptation anddd ...NOPE

So I like a lot of others felt I need to take a break from the show and was coming here to check out what other said and read what sushine36 had written about Anuj being back so gave in to temptation and watched parts of the show -- and NOPE.

Wtaf is wrong with Anupama. Leave Toshu - Do not expect anything from him but Anupama - how can you even let him speak such crap and for so long. Tell him to get out and leave.

Oh truly blood boiling.

Also like father like son. BOTH ARE suffering from MAN CHILD syndrome. Neither takes responsibility of their actions and state of affairs and use someone as their scape goat. Toshu uses Anupama for his loss of penthouse and Varaj uses Kavya and Baa for telling Dolly to get out. What Spineless men. What complete Pricks.

I completely understand your point of view and its okay you dint like it but I still stand by my opinion that today was a good episode coz the surprise for me was Anuj opening his mouth. I was fed up of him standing in a corner watching like a helpless person.. and to be honest I wasnt one bit angry at that jerk coz thats what he was always capable of..why are we even surprised by his filthy mouth🤮 infact am happy this happened coz tomorrow we will see Anu's bubble burst about her son and he will be shown his place🤨..my POV today was only as an Anuj fan. His outburst was long time due and it finally happened.

As far as Anu is concerned, we have to understand one thing. As a viewer when you watch someone like Toshu, Vanraj and Leela our blood boils but the truth is ppl like them actually exist in our families or atleast we have heard of such ppl in our society. Anu has been in this toxic shit for more than 26 yrs..its not easy for someone like her who considers her family her entire world to cut off ties just like that. It takes a lot of courage and pain to take extreme steps. Honestly I am proud that Anu is taking slow and steady steps towards her self respect..her growth has been phenomenal since the start of the show and I like the pace of her transformation. This whole maala japna of Toshu is gone and very soon Leela's turn will come too..

No no I am not stating what you said was wrong at all. I Think you are right as a Anuj fan (which is why I watch the show). I am Fed up too - I actually would like Anuj to talk less and just bring out his Hockey and surprise them. LOL.

I understands Anus predicament of being in a toxic relationship for so long - but if she can tell Vanraj shah off then she def can tell Toshu off and much quicker.

I think I am just over this negativity. I want the Shah's to pay and how!!! Waiting game is long but I get it - its a ITV show.

in vanrj's case Anupama was heart broken by the deceit and she has severed her ties with him.That is not the case with Paitosh. As her first born and as someone whose identity has been Toshu hi Mummy it was hard for her. Lets hope the slap scene is tomorrow.

Why she is still attached to Baa Baghwan is hard to fathom.

But Toshu has time and time again shown his true colours just like Baa. When Vanraj's affair came out he tried to justify it. He has said a lot of horrible horrible things to his mother just like Ba has - and baa is older (which according to Anu is a license to say what ever she wants). Then What holds her back from saying something to Toshu much earlier.

Originally posted by: bob-bob

So I like a lot of others felt I need to take a break from the show and was coming here to check out what other said and read what sushine36 had written about Anuj being back so gave in to temptation and watched parts of the show -- and NOPE.

Wtaf is wrong with Anupama. Leave Toshu - Do not expect anything from him but Anupama - how can you even let him speak such crap and for so long. Tell him to get out and leave.

Oh truly blood boiling.

Also like father like son. BOTH ARE suffering from MAN CHILD syndrome. Neither takes responsibility of their actions and state of affairs and use someone as their scape goat. Toshu uses Anupama for his loss of penthouse and Varaj uses Kavya and Baa for telling Dolly to get out. What Spineless men. What complete Pricks.

Omg ditto. I was skipping today's episode but read a post saying Anuj is back, so got excited. But what disappointment. He is a bigger doormat than Anupamaa. He should have slapped him and got him out. With!! Who tolerates a person talking like this to his mom ???

All he did was stupid stare and looking at Anupamaa.

She is equally annoying waiting for him to keep slandering her and anuj and in the end will slap tomm.

I am super annoyed with the episode precap and also maan day pics on insta. The story line is so annoying and they don't even take any effort for any extra good content!!

Originally posted by: sunshine36

I completely understand your point of view and its okay you dint like it but I still stand by my opinion that today was a good episode coz the surprise for me was Anuj opening his mouth. I was fed up of him standing in a corner watching like a helpless person.. and to be honest I wasnt one bit angry at that jerk coz thats what he was always capable of..why are we even surprised by his filthy mouth🤮 infact am happy this happened coz tomorrow we will see Anu's bubble burst about her son and he will be shown his place🤨..my POV today was only as an Anuj fan. His outburst was long time due and it finally happened.

As far as Anu is concerned, we have to understand one thing. As a viewer when you watch someone like Toshu, Vanraj and Leela our blood boils but the truth is ppl like them actually exist in our families or atleast we have heard of such ppl in our society. Anu has been in this toxic shit for more than 26 yrs..its not easy for someone like her who considers her family her entire world to cut off ties just like that. It takes a lot of courage and pain to take extreme steps. Honestly I am proud that Anu is taking slow and steady steps towards her self respect..her growth has been phenomenal since the start of the show and I like the pace of her transformation. This whole maala japna of Toshu is gone and very soon Leela's turn will come too..

BOLD -- and with her level of tolerance and the way she is I am not surprised!! As you rightly said for a person like her its takes time to cut off and extremities like this will make her do that. Next is Baa's turn

The way Anuj speaks to the shahs, saying tell me whatever you want but spare Anupama. Anupama taking all the nonsense heaped her but taking a stance for Anuj we can call it Mahanta syndrome for want of a better label.

Paritosh has never called her names and questioned her character. The shock and the fact Samar and he were coming to blows, she looked on in pain.

Now coming and saying all this in front of a friend , a professional colleague, on a festival when you felt incomplete without him , he comes and starts mud slinging it becomes unbearable.

Originally posted by: bob-bob

No no I am not stating what you said was wrong at all. I Think you are right as a Anuj fan (which is why I watch the show). I am Fed up too - I actually would like Anuj to talk less and just bring out his Hockey and surprise them. LOL.

I understands Anus predicament of being in a toxic relationship for so long - but if she can tell Vanraj shah off then she def can tell Toshu off and much quicker.

I think I am just over this negativity. I want the Shah's to pay and how!!! Waiting game is long but I get it - its a ITV show.

It is sad that such negativity do exist in a toxic abusive family. And a girl/lady who has lived her whole life like this has immense tolerance level so much so that it becomes second nature. I have been to old age homes or homes for special treatments where people are there bec of abuses. I dont want to comment on the reason why do they stick as they might be abundant ones and we are not the ones who should judge, but i understand Anu. I understand her quietness and also her somewhat putting Baa in that pedestial. For people like us, we will not tolerate this even for a sec, but for people like ANu, we will be super surprised. And trust me it takes a equally massive blow to come out and then start thinking about urself and the self worth. They would have totally lost the self worth as they would have sacrificed themselves for the good for nothing family.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

The way Anuj speaks to the shahs, saying tell me whatever you want but spare Anupama. Anupama taking all the nonsense heaped her but taking a stance for Anuj we can call it Mahanta syndrome for want of a better label.

Paritosh has never called her names and questioned her character. The shock and the fact Samar and he were coming to blows, she looked on in pain.

Now coming and saying all this in front of a friend , a professional colleague, on a festival when you felt incomplete without him , he comes and starts mud slinging it becomes unbearable.

So well said man!! It is sooo painful and that just stops one from reacting!!

I understand Anuj here as well. A man whose love is one sided, who is very very careful of his boundaries, who has wanted to tell off the Shah's multiple times but has kept quiet just bec of his boundaries, has seen the effect of this abuse in his lady love, has told himself and her that he will never interfere in her personal matters; if he has lost it today then it must have crossed the limits.

I totally get them both even though we might say that he should have spoken, she should have slapped first only --- this is not as easy as its said. Lots of baggage exists and that prevents us from acting