Teja needs to have a sporting spirit

She needs to learn that everyone will not love her it's a game where each and every contestants are competing with each other. Each and every contestants will have different opinions so if they are just keeping their opinions nicely without insulting someone then teja should take it sportingly. What shamita did in captaincy task and after that what she did in 6000 ft task that's here opinion and she should have taken it sportingly instead of overreacting. If she learns to take things sportingly she will be good👍🏼

Teju se pehle bolo jo udd rahi hai waha se neeche utare 😂😂 and Teju said 6000 feet mein Leshan durr rahe aur ab sachi durr hua to royi🤣

There is a distinct difference, however, between wanting to be liked and needing to be liked. Lately it seems like Tejasswi has been blurring the thin line that separates the two.

I understand that everyone including you and I want to be liked. The desire for approval, appreciation, and acceptance by others is a normal part of being human. And although some people may care less than others about the opinions of their peers, on some level everyone wants to be liked. Unfortunately, the world doesn’t work that way. There will always be people who just don’t like you very much, and you’ll need to be able come to terms with that.

It is absolutely not necessary to be liked by everyone. People judge you based on their opinions. They create a version of you and have expectations based on that. If the other person doesn't think fondly of you because of a version of yours they've conjured up inside their heads, you can try clearing the air about the same but after a point, there's nothing you can do.

I like Tejasswi and I say this in the nicest way possible, she has to realise that it's okay to not be liked by everyone. She has to unlear this constant need to always be on good terms with everyone, it doesn't work even in real life, and definitely won't happen in this show.

What someone else thinks of you doesn't matter as long as you and the people that matter to you know your truth.

Originally posted by: CobraKai1972

There is a distinct difference, however, between wanting to be liked and needing to be liked. Lately it seems like Tejasswi has been blurring the thin line that separates the two.

I understand that everyone including you and I want to be liked. The desire for approval, appreciation, and acceptance by others is a normal part of being human. And although some people may care less than others about the opinions of their peers, on some level everyone wants to be liked. Unfortunately, the world doesn’t work that way. There will always be people who just don’t like you very much, and you’ll need to be able come to terms with that.

It is absolutely not necessary to be liked by everyone. People judge you based on their opinions. They create a version of you and have expectations based on that. If the other person doesn't think fondly of you because of a version of yours they've conjured up inside their heads, you can try clearing the air about the same but after a point, there's nothing you can do.

I like Tejasswi and I say this in the nicest way possible, she has to realise that it's okay to not be liked by everyone. She has to unlear this constant need to always be on good terms with everyone, it doesn't work even in real life, and definitely won't happen in this show.

What someone else thinks of you doesn't matter as long as you and the people that matter to you know your truth.

Nice post but just keeping teja aside because right now I can't judge teja completely so keeping her aside I just loved ur post and agree to what you have said. But one question came across my mind yes that finally it all matters what ur people think about you. Only that matters but what if the people who you love or trust the most they themselves don't like you ? Then what ? Most of self worth issues are arrived due to this only. The people who have secure circle who make them feel emotionally secure will never face such issues.

Teja has a sporting spirit which is why she took the avoid task in her stride and didnt go on a rampage against the people who gave her the avoid tag.

Its a show of expressing opinions and so it makes sense for her to ask Shamita for an explanation. She wasnt rude to Shamita and didnt say you shouldnt have done that, she just wanted to understand why Shamita did that after things got sorted out between them.

Originally posted by: CobraKai1972

There is a distinct difference, however, between wanting to be liked and needing to be liked. Lately it seems like Tejasswi has been blurring the thin line that separates the two.

I understand that everyone including you and I want to be liked. The desire for approval, appreciation, and acceptance by others is a normal part of being human. And although some people may care less than others about the opinions of their peers, on some level everyone wants to be liked. Unfortunately, the world doesn’t work that way. There will always be people who just don’t like you very much, and you’ll need to be able come to terms with that.

It is absolutely not necessary to be liked by everyone. People judge you based on their opinions. They create a version of you and have expectations based on that. If the other person doesn't think fondly of you because of a version of yours they've conjured up inside their heads, you can try clearing the air about the same but after a point, there's nothing you can do.

I like Tejasswi and I say this in the nicest way possible, she has to realise that it's okay to not be liked by everyone. She has to unlear this constant need to always be on good terms with everyone, it doesn't work even in real life, and definitely won't happen in this show.

What someone else thinks of you doesn't matter as long as you and the people that matter to you know your truth.

I think her need stems from the fact that she has always been the popular girl who everyone wants to be around. KK or someone asked her if she was always the popular one in college/school and she admitted it. This happened when these people used to have discussions about their college life, just life in general outside their career's.

Yeh baat BB me bhi dikha tha mujhe during the initial weeks - all these people used to flock around her and do masti with her more than any of the other girls like they do with Affo now.

But, the only one sticking by her side is KK and everyone else has left her mainly due to this fact that she is very stubborn in her need to be always proven as right/good which she probably thinks makes her more likeable.

She also said in one of the arguments that she is well respected in the industry, she has never been disliked like this before or something like that. Not sure/don't remember the exact convo.

The more I observe her and whenever I catch the LF at times, this girl has either never encountered anyone who has disliked her on her face or she is too dumb to realize that she is being disliked until they spell it out for her.

Whatever may be the case, she should have learnt this lesson by now because she is 28/29 years old. These are issues that usually teens or people in their early 20s go through and considering the industry she is in, it seems like silly that she cannot accept this fact and take it in a stride.

Abhi samjh nahi ayega toh kabhi nahi ayega isko.

Can't believe I actually wrote such an essay... kya din aa gaye hai where I'm actually focusing on the psychological dissection of a BB contestant.😆

I don’t remember whether it was shown on episode or not but she did question meisha and Iesshan on why they gave avoid tag to her. even I think that could be one reason why she nominated meisha..

She was definitely rude to Shamita .. dint u see her tone n attitude .. only she knows everything n others are dumb types ..I think she has taken that Queen remark literally n acting oversmart. sorry to say but she is coming negative offlate ..

Originally posted by: adnilover

Teja has a sporting spirit which is why she took the avoid task in her stride and didnt go on a rampage against the people who gave her the avoid tag.

Its a show of expressing opinions and so it makes sense for her to ask Shamita for an explanation. She wasnt rude to Shamita and didnt say you shouldnt have done that, she just wanted to understand why Shamita did that after things got sorted out between them.

I think she is fine. Everyone in BB asks for eplanations or gives explanations for the tags they don't like. For example Shamita didn't like when Karan chose Teja over her or when today Jay didn't like Ieshan to take Karan's side. It becomes awkward or irritating when it's taken too personally and becomes spiteful.

Along with Teja, even Shamita, Jay and Vishal have no sporting spirit. Shamita screams at the one who criticizes her like Vishal in the case of Debo and even Jay constantly keeps screaming and getting aggressive if anyone tells him anything. It's mainly Karan and Nishant who know how to take criticism and don't scream back.

Originally posted by: Candy_Crush

I don’t remember whether it was shown on episode or not but she did question meisha and Iesshan on why they gave avoid tag to her. even I think that could be one reason why she nominated meisha..

She was definitely rude to Shamita .. dint u see her tone n attitude .. only she knows everything n others are dumb types ..I think she has taken that Queen remark literally n acting oversmart. sorry to say but she is coming negative offlate ..