Pre - warning !! We cannot expect anu to not be a human

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Of course we all love anuj and wld not want him to get hurt. Of course i wld certainly not want that too.

But at the same time we cannot expect anupamaa to be normal with him or brush this off totally post his confession before the shahs.

Anupamaa had been in a toxic marriage for 25 years. But she is strong that's why within a span of some weeks she was able to take the decision to divorce that trash and move on in her life.

But as she said in the temple she is afraid of having a heartbreak again not that anuj wld break her heart. Definitely not. Anuj wld only protect her at any cost. What i mean is anu is afraid of falling in love again and also has low self worth and thinks she is not worthy enough to be loved by anyone. All thanks to that digusting trashraj who destroyed her self worth.

She loved vanraj unconditionally purely in a devoted manner but all she got was insults defamation and betrayal. Still anu did not lose her confidence and respect for love nor for the institution of marriage.

She clearly said she does not have the mentality to remarry NOT BCOZ of her age or she is mother of 3 grown up kids or she is a divorcee.

Anupamaa is a strong and sorted woman. But yes she wld get shocked and might even distance herself from anuj initially after this confession of his.

But i just hope writers don't destroy anu's character by making her hurt or insult anuj's love in any way. I believe anu won't do that. Coz she respects LOVE a lot.

But yeah we cannot expect her to go all soft and silent. In MaAn love story both anuj and anu r equally invested and both r entitled to their opinions.

So let us hope this progresses in a good way and brings MaAn closer. 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

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Posted: 3 years ago
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That's what I am also hoping for ... She can distance herself from him for sometime but should not hurt or insult his feelings... Dooriyaan pyaar badatha hain❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I frankly dont have problem with confessions coming having problems with confessions coming in front of them ..

Firstly Anupama has the right to know this ofcourse if anuj wants I would have been much happier if he had told this to Anupama first than it came out like this .


Now the way it has come out Anupama will herself be very weak and confused to support anuj and he will be hurt by letting it out this way and may be he may think it will again create problems with Anupama more now's if they both have knows they both have been support system of each other. Anupama ko may be Anuj sambhal ke what about anuj . Let's see how they show it anyways let's wait to see

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: yuvanaa

Of course we all love anuj and wld not want him to get hurt. Of course i wld certainly not want that too.

But at the same time we cannot expect anupamaa to be normal with him or brush this off totally post his confession before the shahs.

Anupamaa had been in a toxic marriage for 25 years. But she is strong that's why within a span of some weeks she was able to take the decision to divorce that trash and move on in her life.

But as she said in the temple she is afraid of having a heartbreak again not that anuj wld break her heart. Definitely not. Anuj wld only protect her at any cost. What i mean is anu is afraid of falling in love again and also has low self worth and thinks she is not worthy enough to be loved by anyone. All thanks to that digusting trashraj who destroyed her self worth.

She loved vanraj unconditionally purely in a devoted manner but all she got was insults defamation and betrayal. Still anu did not lose her confidence and respect for love nor for the institution of marriage.

She clearly said she does not have the mentality to remarry NOT BCOZ of her age or she is mother of 3 grown up kids or she is a divorcee.

Anupamaa is a strong and sorted woman. But yes she wld get shocked and might even distance herself from anuj initially after this confession of his.

But i just hope writers don't destroy anu's character by making her hurt or insult anuj's love in any way. I believe anu won't do that. Coz she respects LOVE a lot.

But yeah we cannot expect her to go all soft and silent. In MaAn love story both anuj and anu r equally invested and both r entitled to their opinions.

So let us hope this progresses in a good way and brings MaAn closer. 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞


I think this is where we need to see how both handle each other and themselves. It might be possible that anuj himself keeps distance as he knows that she has said no already.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Baki sab to thik hai but anupama SORTED WOMAN kaha se ho gayiii ??!!!!! 😳

Purane sasural ki gali mai jhankna and jan buj kar leela ki gali se guzarna sorted kaha se ho gaya !!!! Sorted log toxic logo ko avoid karte hai !

Divorce ke baad bhi purane abusive sasural mai daily character assassination ke sath rehna sorted decision kab se ho gaya?!

Agar night stand ka ilzaam nahi laga hota toh Abhi bhi purane abusive sasural ki chaatt par aachar/papad sukha rahi hoti sorted lady ! 🤢

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Well said, I hope Anupama will understand Anuj and will keep her friendship with him intact. love after such a betrayal will come slowly. the whole family specially Babuji Samar, Pakhi, and Vanraj's sister can help her understand to move on in life with Anuj. I only wished that makers could have given them more time to make their friendship stronger.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I just dont get it. She already knew that Anuj had crush on her in the college. So what is so shocking here. Yes, for her to learn that he didn’t marry because he loved her, might be shocking but the whole thing about Anuj having crush on her, she already knew. Why is writer changing the storyline as if she had absolutely no idea. She is not a baby that she will not know. This is so stupid.

Posted: 3 years ago
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oh I really want to comment on this one vistaar se so I shall be back soon

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Posted: 3 years ago
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She is not going to return his feelings overnight nor I expect her to. For acknowledging them maturely would do.


I would be totally fine even if she politely rejects Anuj for now. But that is the thing, if she handles this confession maturely and politely - no issues at all.

I just don't want her to go under all Samaj or Baa pressure to react to Anuj's confession. Writer has a knack to write scenarios which screams of hypocrisy.

Anu tend to say one thing and apply another when it comes down to her precious Shah's. I think that is why most are worried. That Anuj might get entitled to feel - he did something wrong. Which he didn't and it shouldn't be done otherwise.

If Anu-Anuj were alone during this confession then there were no troubles at all. Major variable in this situation are Shah's and Anu's Shah bhakti!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Yes that's my biggest concern. It should not destroy or harm the bond that they already have..it was slowly and beautifully progressing.


So I'm excited yet a bit scared


Hope makers do t spoil the essence for me as if I loose the essence then maan won't be maan

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