One major thing I can’t digest about Anupama

Hi all I have been watching the show for a while now but don’t post often. I just wanted to say this one thing that is chubbhing me and I mentioned to my hubby as well:

That girls just KNOW ki kon unko kis niyat se dekh raha he. Girls have a sixth sense about these things and can catch very easily if someone likes/loves or has a crush on them. Here I can’t believe that Anupama has no clue whatsoever about Anuj feelings towards her. It really irks me as its extremely unrealistic.

Anuj ki chodo !!

Anupama ka then husband vanraj was romancing with kavya just under the nose of anupama for 8 long yearsss!!!!! lol apne husband and secretary ka comfort zone and closeness dekh kar bhi anupama ko kabhi kuch sense nahi hua!!!!

Now i would never like to use "Trust on husband" word here because trust apni jagah hota hai and body language/behaviour/gesture koi bhi real life ki wife bina notice kiye nahi reh sakti !

Housewife bhi at last aurat he hoti hai and jab god ne yeh sense diya tab yeh difference nahi rakkha tha ki kaun housewife hai and kaun working woman hai !

Jab apne 25 saal ke then husband ka intention samaj nahi aya toh kal ka aya anuj kya chiz hai!!!!!😆 I can see it's totally possible in anupama's case !

Kuch log hote hai aise ! jinko kabhi kuch tedha hota hua kabhi dikhayi he nahi deta and aise log pura life suffer karte karte zindgi kaat dete hai because bhagvan ne by birth unko insaan pehchan ne ka god gift nahi diya hota hai !

Dekha jaye to insaan pehchan ne ka god gift nahi hona kisi shaap se kum nahi !

I feel bad for those women jinko bhagvan ne woman toh banaya but woman wali sixth sense ka god gift nahi diya!

In Anu's defense you can't really blame her. Lady so far thought that Baa and Bapuji loved her the most in the world. Baa ko toh Bhagwan bhi bana diya tha😆

Now thankfully she has put Baa out of the list of people who supports her. I think we will very slowly she her getting out of Shah delusion and see actual world - and notice Anuj of course. When Anuj was sick she did notice a little but brushed it off.

Originally posted by: piyu008

In Anu's defense you can't really blame her. Lady so far thought that Baa and Bapuji loved her the most in the world. Baa ko toh Bhagwan bhi bana diya tha😆

Now thankfully she has put Baa out of the list of people who supports her. I think we will very slowly she her getting out of Shah delusion and see actual world - and notice Anuj of course. When Anuj was sick she did notice a little but brushed it off.

@bold ! soooo true ! Baa ko toh bhagvan bana diya tha and meriiiiii baaaa ka jhulaaaaaaaa is the most epic feeling of anupama😆

Yes. She herself said once that when she got married, it was she and her family..... then it became her family.... then it bacame her kitchen. She has not moved out probably anywhare other than buying vegetables thet too with Baa. Being married at young age, she is bounded to house, a small wish to travel in flight and seeing beach is not fulfilled by her husband. Her MIL looks through a binacular and watches her. MIL never liked Anupama and constantly bad mouth about her to her son. Anupama is probably under the impression that at office people all behave like how Vanraj and Kavya behave. She was even an admirer of Kavya initially of her english, looks, ability handle everything and accepted that she being just houswife is not anywhere near her.

She don't have an idea of what a "Love" feels like. She needs a spark to initiate this feeling and that will be slow in ITV.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Anuj ki chodo !!

Anupama ka then husband vanraj was romancing with kavya just under the nose of anupama for 8 long yearsss!!!!! lol apne husband and secretary ka comfort zone and closeness dekh kar bhi anupama ko kabhi kuch sense nahi hua!!!!

Now i would never like to use "Trust on husband" word here because trust apni jagah hota hai and body language/behaviour/gesture koi bhi real life ki wife bina notice kiye nahi reh sakti !

Housewife bhi at last aurat he hoti hai and jab god ne yeh sense diya tab yeh difference nahi rakkha tha ki kaun housewife hai and kaun working woman hai !

Jab apne 25 saal ke then husband ka intention samaj nahi aya toh kal ka aya anuj kya chiz hai!!!!!😆 I can see it's totally possible in anupama's case !

Kuch log hote hai aise ! jinko kabhi kuch tedha hota hua kabhi dikhayi he nahi deta and aise log pura life suffer karte karte zindgi kaat dete hai because bhagvan ne by birth unko insaan pehchan ne ka god gift nahi diya hota hai !

Dekha jaye to insaan pehchan ne ka god gift nahi hona kisi shaap se kum nahi !

I feel bad for those women jinko bhagvan ne woman toh banaya but woman wali sixth sense ka god gift nahi diya!

But honestly how can any someone miss so many signs even when hes doing love poetry for you on your face and what not. So weird it comes off ya.

Anupama should take the line that so what if Anuj likes her .. she doesn’t (so far) and even if she does whats the problem. Shes not committed (shes divorced) so what’s the problem. That would have been so much more progressive than baar baar harping about agni pariksha and making it seem like she agrees doing something with anuj would be “wrong”

I dont think the comment was made with reference to love but the lecherous look. I think that she said any woman can make out when a guy was looking at her normally and when otherwise.

Originally posted by: sunshine333

But honestly how can any someone miss so many signs even when hes doing love poetry for you on your face and what not. So weird it comes off ya.

Anupama should take the line that so what if Anuj likes her .. she doesn’t (so far) and even if she does whats the problem. Shes not committed (shes divorced) so what’s the problem. That would have been so much more progressive than baar baar harping about agni pariksha and making it seem like she agrees doing something with anuj would be “wrong”

It is also possible she is conveniently ignoring all the signs and wants to continue to live in bubble that he had soft corner for her during teenager days and after so many years now no soft corner for her due to whatever reasons! Basically she has decided anuj’s side too !

It is also possible she is not blessed with the sixth sense which we women blessed with that’s why she fails to understand vanraj’s affair and now anuj’s feelings too.

Otherwise koi teenage ladki bhi aisi poetry sun le toh samaj jaye ki ladka uss par lattooo hai , anupama to fir bhi kafi experienced hai 😆

Anupama is failing to understand this feeling may be because at her age she has well experienced sexual life but she is fresher when it comes to feeling love of partner !