*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 16*~* Bakhuda Tumhi Ho - Page 20

Originally posted by: euphoric

But I still very strongly feel nothing happened between them there. Its all a cook up. He's trapped. And even its deed, he never had anyone else in his conscience other than pallavi. Its such a sly and stealthy movements to enter and capture his life.

1. Resign from the job to gain some brownie points. Deal signed and got the job back (whatever be the reason. She's not aware of Raghav Pallavi conversation)... so step one complete!

2. Sending "me too" to see his reaction. Not reported to wife... not bluntly told off... bingo!

3. Cook up a sob story... start emotional blackmail. Gain sympathy... mission accomplished!

4. Make him drunk. Had he been drugged, he would have put two + two together. So yes, she knows how to get him do her bidding... Try your moves. He's not rude anymore... some progress!

5. Get him to believe something happened and lines were crossed... level crossed!

6. Try reigniting old flame now that the premise of ONS is established. Man not moved. wants to end...move failed!

7. Again sob story of abusive husband... not letting anyone touch her... Professing love... EMA proposition! Man offended and wants to flee. (They have yet not shown us what Raghav told her before getting her to RR mansion. I am sure, its definitely not an acceptance to her proposal)... so at least get him to empathise and hang around his neck... smart move!

Agree the planning of Esha is meticulous and she has an added advantage of knowing Raghav emotionally. I think she did not expect Raghav to be in deep love with Pallavi and Pallavi knowing their break up story. That was the first shock to her in the boutique when Pallavi rudely tells her off. That is why I strongly feel Esha got in the domestic violence thing and the whole - I sacrificed my life to save your life angle. Raghav is putting his foot down when he can and has been frank in telling her that he can not imagine anyone in his life other than Pallavi so Esha is doing the sob story of abusive husband and blah blah. Esha jumped on staying with Amrutha for that reason also - She can fake an attack in front of amrutha to gain sympathy of everyone including Pallavi.

Dunno about you guys but I've already scene last week's precap at least thrice, and all three times I've cracked up listening to Raghav saying "Mistake ho gaya". IDK why it just sounds so hilarious to me, as if he left the wet towel on the floor or left the toilet seat up or something🤣🤣

Originally posted by: PSharada

Ren, Raghav truly admires Pallavi and he has given his life's reins to her. He is lost without her in his life. After the shootout he truly had the fear of losing her. That is why this ONS doesn't make sense to me. The Raghav who got his wife after a near death experience would never ever do something stupid like this. It is clear butchering of the character by the creatives to get Raghav being guilty of the situation and to get the ex tadka in. Now after all this I am damn sure he will realize that his actions will hurt Pallavi and hopefully this will help him in not doing stupid mistakes like these. Of course, I do want him to tease and fight with Pallavi every now and then - I just love their childlike fights and Raghav fighting for Pallavi's attention is so cute.

Can't believe I missed this amazing conversation I want Pallavi to be strong and maybe also distance herself from him for a while IF he is unable share the ONS secret (which I don't think happened either) with her but this walking out of the marriage specifically is something I've been debating over in my mind. I don't believe in staying in toxic/abusive relationships or relationships where there's no respect/love or loyalty. Personally, I don't think any of these apply to RaghVi marriage. I consider myself a feminist too, it's just that feminism can be seen/interpreted differently by different individuals under different circumstances. Walking out of marriage, or any relationship for that matter, isn't always the solution. It's often easier said than done. Coming to mental peace, walking out often does more harm to many people than good (because not everyone handles it the same way). Sometimes you love someone so deeply you'd go against your own nature and principles to give them a leeway when they've done something wrong. Relationships aren't purely transactional, as in if I do these 10 things right the other party has to do the other 10 things right or the deal is off. I definitely want Pallavi to be hurt and Raghav hurt more seeing her pain but I wasn't sure about her giving up on him. Thanks guys for giving me some reassurance❤️

Originally posted by: rubys07

Can't believe I missed this amazing conversation I want Pallavi to be strong and maybe also distance herself from him for a while IF he is unable share the ONS secret (which I don't think happened either) with her but this walking out of the marriage specifically is something I've been debating over in my mind. I don't believe in staying in toxic/abusive relationships or relationships where there's no respect/love or loyalty. Personally, I don't think any of these apply to RaghVi marriage. I consider myself a feminist too, it's just that feminism can be seen/interpreted differently by different individuals under different circumstances. Walking out of marriage, or any relationship for that matter, isn't always the solution. It's often easier said than done. Coming to mental peace, walking out often does more harm to many people than good (because not everyone handles it the same way). Sometimes you love someone so deeply you'd go against your own nature and principles to give them a leeway when they've done something wrong. Relationships aren't purely transactional, as in if I do these 10 things right the other party has to do the other 10 things right or the deal is off. I definitely want Pallavi to be hurt and Raghav hurt more seeing her pain but I wasn't sure about her giving up on him. Thanks guys for giving me some reassurance❤️

I have 2.mins to quickly reply before the episode is up.

Yes raghvi relationship is so beautiful that you can't give it up. It doesn't make you weak, it makes you strong because you are willing to put the extra effort to make a relationship work. Raghav hasn't cheated on Pallavi and us trapped rn.

I strongly believe that you can't keep counts like what you do vs the other person. It depends on the nature of a person n the circumstances. Some relationships are lopsided where one person takes more effort and slack and shit while the other not so much. But then again, it's a personal dynamic and the couple needs to find the best fit. In today's world people find it easier to walk away for smallest of reasons which is so sad. You don't leave blood relations at the drop of a hat then why a spousal relationship.

I'm happy we all have similar thoughts on this topic

Originally posted by: euphoric

But I still very strongly feel nothing happened between them there. Its all a cook up. He's trapped. And even its deed, he never had anyone else in his conscience other than pallavi. Its such a sly and stealthy movements to enter and capture his life.

1. Resign from the job to gain some brownie points. Deal signed and got the job back (whatever be the reason. She's not aware of Raghav Pallavi conversation)... so step one complete!

2. Sending "me too" to see his reaction. Not reported to wife... not bluntly told off... bingo!

3. Cook up a sob story... start emotional blackmail. Gain sympathy... mission accomplished!

4. Make him drunk. Had he been drugged, he would have put two + two together. So yes, she knows how to get him do her bidding... Try your moves. He's not rude anymore... some progress!

5. Get him to believe something happened and lines were crossed... level crossed!

6. Try reigniting old flame now that the premise of ONS is established. Man not moved. wants to end...move failed!

7. Again sob story of abusive husband... not letting anyone touch her... Professing love... EMA proposition! Man offended and wants to flee. (They have yet not shown us what Raghav told her before getting her to RR mansion. I am sure, its definitely not an acceptance to her proposal)... so at least get him to empathise and hang around his neck... smart move!

Exactly this! We've been going over this for the last couple of days--all of it seems too convenient with way too many coincidences happening one after the other. I've been saying this since the ONS precap was shown: Raghav did not sleep with Esha. I know ITV can change their tracks halfway through so I very well could be wrong but given everything we've seen so far, my instincts are telling me nothing happened. There's just something off about Esha since day one and no matter what she says or does (and no matter how many emotional bg music we're shown for her scenes), I'm not convinced.

btw Soni, don't think we've met, I go by Ruby or Ru :)

Okay so Lungiwala Raghav is actually talking sense this time, about how Pallavi will sooner or later find out the truth because she isn't a fool (*cough* like you Raghav *cough*)Does he have an evil twin or is he just bipolar?😳🤣

Tu zindagi bhar jhoot ka bojh jhelega, ya usse sach bata kar sach ka nateeja jhelega?

Done options mein, nahi life easy hone wala hain, nahi pain kam hone wala hain. Toh ab tu decide kar, tereko kaunsa pain chahiye?

Okay HANDS DOWN my favorite dialogue since this track started hayee Lungiwala Raghav🤣

Raghav: Hum dono kab paas aaye, woh emotions mein beh gaye, pata hi nahi chala

Me:

I'm cracking up please this is so funny, aisa lag raha hain Raghav is auditioning for "Ek Hi Bhool" part 2🤣

Originally posted by: rubys07

Raghav: Hum dono kab paas aaye, woh emotions mein beh gaye, pata hi nahi chala

Me:

I'm cracking up please this is so funny, aisa lag raha hain Raghav is auditioning for "Ek Hi Bhool" part 2🤣

I wanted to shriek at the writers. How did they go from Raghav thinking he was with Pallavi to falling into past emotions with Esha.

W T F was that.

someone explain that Hindi to me.

and thank goodness P didn’t hear that.

based on precap and his dialogue after she left the room - he’s gonna be to chicken to tell her. She’ll find out from someone else and be humiliated. They want to break RaghavPallavi completely and do a possible redo of their love story. Smells like an EK serial right now.

Also. I knew that saree on E was on purpose and not bc of budget issues 😂😂.

Tadka tadka tadka.

Okay Like I guessed they are fast forwarding this track. The Esha in Lavender saree was in BTS on Saturday and it is coming up Tomorrow ? Usually they shoot about 5 days in advance - that means only one thing. They are fast forwarding this track and Esha is coming to RR Mansion tomorrow itself.