Anupamaa Speech should have mentioned Anuj - Page 3

So many women like us follows passion and the way anupama ‘s passion is cooking /dancing, my passion is writing codes as a software engineer and I developed my own product too but in this entire journey there is definitely 2-3 person in my life who got me opportunity and gave me platform to execute my vision including my dear husband And I am forever thankful to those 3 pillars of my life !

For me it’s never about idea because I know idea has no place if nobody is there to offer platform !

In anupama’s case dance academy was her idea but after that there was no struggle for platform because main asset was offered by Bapuji and she needed only work permit ! No headache of deposits/rental/advance is huge relief when you are living in metros !

Again in anupama’s case her role is about giving idea and giving speeches on her idea to everyone and rest of things will be managed by Anuj ! So again no headache of anything else ! And we all know how much anupama is good in giving long speeches in front of family to anuj’s staff to ladies who participated in competition! Anupama is doing nothing out of her comfort zone !

Lol uska email account tak Nandini ne uss din banaya tha kitchen mai khade khade and she was just giggling that she has now her own email account! She didn’t show any willingness to make the email account on her own with someone’s guidance! Why ? Just because it is out of her comfort zone stuff ! You can’t always stay in your comfort zone when you are working as business partner or working with other professionals!

Idea , idea , idea ab bahot zyada ho raha hai because itna humko bhi pata hai ki sirf idea se he sab kuch nahi ho jata hai so ofcourse I am not seeing it as anupama’s struggle etc etc etc !

Originally posted by: surabhi01

One cannot do everything alone . One of my cousin is doing टीचर job and her school is 45 distance hr . And she has total five member and usne khaane banani wali rakhi hai aur अलग se jhaadu pochha wali rakhi hai

And one of cousin live in delhi she has just three family member and she also do job but उसने bhi khane banane wali rakhi hai jo roj subah 5 baje aa jati hai

To real life jo log bus ek job kar rahe hain aur only three member hai tabhi to maid rakhe hue hai. यहाँ serial mein pata nahin kaise 4 job aur 4 time 8,9 member ka khana banana woh bhi daily anupama akele yeh sub kaise kar rahi with out maid

Sevak, helper to shree ram shree krishna ke time mein bhi they. Satyug, treta yug aur dwapar yug mein sevak सेविका hua karte they. So i Dont know cvs feel. Wrong to keep maid and Hell bent showing anupama work all alone

Human body ki power and energy ki Linitation hoti hai. Saara, kaam akele karna possible nahin

@bold : surabhi shree ram and shree krishna unke time ke rock star/wondermen /superman nahi the bichare ! But Anupama kaliyug ki rock star /wonder women /super women hai that’s why satyug/treta yug aur dwapar yug mai sevika hua karte the but kaliyug ki rock star ko unki zarurat nahi hai 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Absolutely. Actions speak louder than words. Her thoughts through and through were how Anuj should not face difficulties for humouring her idea. It was her heartfelt way of acknowledging his role.

Don't get me wrong I lead a unit and manage 700 people every day. I travel 50 kms one way.

We are a family of 3 adults. Breakfast and lunch is prepared in less than an hour. Of course it is a simple affair. I plan and do My shopping, griding kneading on Sundays. My house help does the cleaning of vessels sweeping, swabbing and is at home with my mother in law till I get back. We take turns in running the machine and drying. My husband helps chop vegetables grate coconut. He is a busy entrepreneur too. Sometimes having more people to depend for your chores Interferes with task and time management. I complete all my e mail and browsing as I travel. I do my meditation, reading and embroidery. I don't consider myself a super woman.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Don't get me wrong I lead a unit and manage 700 people every day. I travel 50 kms one way.

We are a family of 3 adults. Breakfast and lunch is prepared in less than an hour. Of course it is a simple affair. I plan and do My shopping, griding kneading on Sundays. My house help does the cleaning of vessels sweeping, swabbing and is at home with my mother in law till I get back. We take turns in running the machine and drying. My husband helps chop vegetables grate coconut. He is a busy entrepreneur too. Sometimes having more people to depend for your chores Interferes with task and time management. I complete all my e mail and browsing as I travel. I do my meditation, reading and embroidery. I don't consider myself a super woman.

My husband and father in law both helps in chopping vegetables ,dough kneading , machine and drying, vacuum cleaning, gardening etc unlike shah household where all men sit on the dining table and anupama/kinjal has to serve them standing next to them entire time! Yeh log khud se apna khana tak serve nahi karege , doe kneading and machine/drying toh durrrr ki baat hai ! Aise household mai meditation and reading toh chodo, women ko newspaper padhne tak ka time nahi milta!

Everyone is busy working in my household too but all are very independent and having progressive mind when it comes to doing domestic work unlike shah house where daughter in law is the one who wakes up at 4:00 AM to do start to end job in the kitchen single handedly along with her 3-4 different jobs ! That's why she looks wonder woman who wakes up at 4 , cooks for all the useless people single handedly, does 3-4 different jobs blah blah blah !

Humne to dekha hai ki halwai jo shaadi mein khana banata hai woh halwai to gharaati se to मटर chilwata hai. Hum mausi ke shaadi mein gaye aur hum sub matar cheel rahe they

To ek halwai jiski habit hoti hai khana b babane ki hoti hai woh bhi ghrati se matar cheelne madad leta hai

Kamal hai anupama sara khana akele bana rahi hai

Humne suna hai sadiyon year pehle doodh ki nadiyaan behti thi koi pollutuion nahin tha ek dum shudh khana milta tha aur log shudh desi ghee khaate they aur shudh hawa milti thi to health problem nahin utni

Magar phir bhi humne suna hai purane time mein help lete they

Hai pehle there was no gas to log wood ya dry buffalo dung ta wood ka jo cheelan hota tha usme khaana banate they

Aur meri nani ke yahan koi aati thi wohi lakdi khaana banane ke liye jala ke jaati thi

Well ( kuan) se paani nikalne ke kahaar hota tha

Village mein mein bhi jao to wahaan bhi kuen se paani nikalne wale kahaanr mil jaayege

But is serial mein jabardasti anupama se sub khuch akele karte dikhana

Ek khaana bana wali aati hai woh tuk kehti hai daal. Chawal. Dho ke aur bhigo ke rakhna aur methi ke pate saaf kar ke rakhna aur kehti hai agar hum chawal bhi dhoyenge sabji bhi dhoyenge daal bh to hum thak jaayenge

Jub khaana banane wali aati hai usjki ke liye daal chaaval dhok ke bhigo ke aur patte saaf karke pehle se rakhna hota hai kyonki woh thak jaati hai

Ek bartan wali hai uski ke liye bartan pehle se bhigo ke rakhna hota hai aur bartan maane jub kaam wali bai ya khaana banane wale tuk. humse help le rahe hai like kadhai do kalchul. Do jabki bata diya,ki yahan kadhai kalchul belan su unhe pakdaao nahin to khud kalchul kadhai lene mein khana banane wali thak jaayengi ( to anupama akele kaam kar rahi badi hairaani ki baat hai

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Humne to dekha hai ki halwai jo shaadi mein khana banata hai woh halwai to gharaati se to मटर chilwata hai. Hum mausi ke shaadi mein gaye aur hum sub matar cheel rahe they

To ek halwai jiski habit hoti hai khana b babane ki hoti hai woh bhi ghrati se matar cheelne madad leta hai

Kamal hai anupama sara khana akele bana rahi hai

Humne suna hai sadiyon year pehle doodh ki nadiyaan behti thi koi pollutuion nahin tha ek dum shudh khana milta tha aur log shudh desi ghee khaate they aur shudh hawa milti thi to health problem nahin utni

Magar phir bhi humne suna hai purane time mein help lete they

Hai pehle there was no gas to log wood ya dry buffalo dung ta wood ka jo cheelan hota tha usme khaana banate they

Aur meri nani ke yahan koi aati thi wohi lakdi khaana banane ke liye jala ke jaati thi

Well ( kuan) se paani nikalne ke kahaar hota tha

Village mein mein bhi jao to wahaan bhi kuen se paani nikalne wale kahaanr mil jaayege

But is serial mein jabardasti anupama se sub khuch akele karte dikhana

Ek khaana bana wali aati hai woh tuk kehti hai daal. Chawal. Dho ke aur bhigo ke rakhna aur methi ke pate saaf kar ke rakhna aur kehti hai agar hum chawal bhi dhoyenge sabji bhi dhoyenge daal bh to hum thak jaayenge

Jub khaana banane wali aati hai usjki ke liye daal chaaval dhok ke bhigo ke aur patte saaf karke pehle se rakhna hota hai kyonki woh thak jaati hai

Ek bartan wali hai uski ke liye bartan pehle se bhigo ke rakhna hota hai aur bartan maane jub kaam wali bai ya khaana banane wale tuk. humse help le rahe hai like kadhai do kalchul. Do jabki bata diya,ki yahan kadhai kalchul belan su unhe pakdaao nahin to khud kalchul kadhai lene mein khana banane wali thak jaayengi ( to anupama akele kaam kar rahi badi hairaani ki baat hai

Surabhi work distribution har jagah sabke ghar mai hota hai! as you said cook ho toh bhi daal-chawal bhigo kar rakkha jata hai and cook ki team ho toh unme bhi work distribution hota hai!

yaha anupama ko kaliyug ki wonder woman dikhane ke liye banati bhi yeh hai, serve bhi yeh karti hai, cleaning dusting bhi yeh karti hai and raat ko ghar ke khidki/darwaze/lights bhi anupama he bandh karti hai and again 4 AM uth kar useless logo khana bhi banati and and 3-4 day jobs bhi karti hai!

Kya kachra dikha rahe hai!😆 Fir lecture deti hai ki sabko uske jaise kaam karna chahiye ghar and office mai ! I was like behen tumhare ghar jaisa male chauvinist and regressive culture humare yaha nahi chalta jaha admi khud se apna plate bhi nahi serve karte, khud ki medicines and glass of water bhi hath mai dena padta ho!

Originally posted by: shrizz

well I might be wrong but I feel that the small eye contact which she had with Anuj with happy tears in her eyes was her way of thanking him.When all the women praised her then she turned to Anuj with a smile on her face and a lone tear dropping from her eyes.At that moment Anuj also got a bit teary but then they both were quick to wipe the tears away.

Ps-"Actions speak louder than words"

Aah, I didn't think that eye contact and tear was toward each other. I thot she just turned other side and cried a bit and Anuj saw that and he had a tear too..hehe

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Surabhi work distribution har jagah sabke ghar mai hota hai! as you said cook ho toh bhi daal-chawal bhigo kar rakkha jata hai and cook ki team ho toh unme bhi work distribution hota hai!

yaha anupama ko kaliyug ki wonder woman dikhane ke liye banati bhi yeh hai, serve bhi yeh karti hai, cleaning dusting bhi yeh karti hai and raat ko ghar ke khidki/darwaze/lights bhi anupama he bandh karti hai and again 4 AM uth kar useless logo khana bhi banati and and 3-4 day jobs bhi karti hai!

Kya kachra dikha rahe hai!😆 Fir lecture deti hai ki sabko uske jaise kaam karna chahiye ghar and office mai ! I was like behen tumhare ghar jaisa male chauvinist and regressive culture humare yaha nahi chalta jaha admi khud se apna plate bhi nahi serve karte, khud ki medicines and glass of water bhi hath mai dena padta ho!

Hahah exactly. We are not wonder women and dont want to be. Every member should contribute towards the house. Sabka ghar hai.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

So many women like us follows passion and the way anupama ‘s passion is cooking /dancing, my passion is writing codes as a software engineer and I developed my own product too but in this entire journey there is definitely 2-3 person in my life who got me opportunity and gave me platform to execute my vision including my dear husband And I am forever thankful to those 3 pillars of my life !

For me it’s never about idea because I know idea has no place if nobody is there to offer platform !

In anupama’s case dance academy was her idea but after that there was no struggle for platform because main asset was offered by Bapuji and she needed only work permit ! No headache of deposits/rental/advance is huge relief when you are living in metros !

Again in anupama’s case her role is about giving idea and giving speeches on her idea to everyone and rest of things will be managed by Anuj ! So again no headache of anything else ! And we all know how much anupama is good in giving long speeches in front of family to anuj’s staff to ladies who participated in competition! Anupama is doing nothing out of her comfort zone !

Lol uska email account tak Nandini ne uss din banaya tha kitchen mai khade khade and she was just giggling that she has now her own email account! She didn’t show any willingness to make the email account on her own with someone’s guidance! Why ? Just because it is out of her comfort zone stuff ! You can’t always stay in your comfort zone when you are working as business partner or working with other professionals!

Idea , idea , idea ab bahot zyada ho raha hai because itna humko bhi pata hai ki sirf idea se he sab kuch nahi ho jata hai so ofcourse I am not seeing it as anupama’s struggle etc etc etc !

Hi five fellow developer 🖐.

I know idea is one thing but execution is the tough part. You made a valid point, even a small thing like making email id, she didn't ask Nandini to teach her, just gave recommendation of the email id and was getting excited about it. She didn't even ask how to check the email or open email.

I agree she talks big, but no execution.