Anupamaa Speech should have mentioned Anuj - Page 4

Originally posted by: Moongdal

Hahah exactly. We are not wonder women and dont want to be. Every member should contribute towards the house. Sabka ghar hai.

Exactly! Ghar sabka ho tab household work bhi distributed hona chahiye!! Har jagah "main kar lungi " "anupama tu kar sakti hai" aisa nonsense nahi chalta hai!

Iss show mai housewife specially anupama ki typical slave mentality dikhayi gayi hai! Speech bade bade deti hai and har ek speech mai slave mentality ko bhi openly promote karti hai!

Fir audiences ko bolte hai ki anupama ko independent and strong lady samjo ! MATLAB KYA HAI YEH! Apki lead every next lecture mai slave mentality ko promote karti hai, male chauvinist life style ko society mai badhava deti rehti hai and hum usko independent samje!!!! 🤢

Aj uske lecture ko dekh kar mera to mann kiya suna dene ka ,"Behen tu plate serve kar tere ghar ke useless selfish male chauvinist family members ki and tu bana subah 4 baje uth kar khana sabka ! Hum jaise bhi tumse better independent hai and tumse 100 times better mentality wale hai! "

Agar sikhna hai toh anupama sikhe humse se how to lead life with self respect!

Yeh kya degi society ko message jisse divorce ke baad bhi slavery chut nahi rahi hai on the name of baabul drama!

Originally posted by: Moongdal

Hi five fellow developer 🖐.

I know idea is one thing but execution is the tough part. You made a valid point, even a small thing like making email id, she didn't ask Nandini to teach her, just gave recommendation of the email id and was getting excited about it. She didn't even ask how to check the email or open email.

I agree she talks big, but no execution.

Watching that scene i was like ! Yeh dekho email id bhi ready made kisi ne baju mai khade reh kar bana diya ! itna bhi nahi hua ki chalo comfort zone se bahar nikal kar kuch sikhte hai! Fir bolte hai anupama ko independent samjo!🤢🤢

Anuj ki business partner cum idea speaker zyada dikhti hai! Basically same idea ko different set ko people ke samne explain karte rehna is anupama's only role as a business partner! Kabhi same idea ko anuj ke team ke samne, kabhi media ke samne, kabhi 10 ladies ke samne bolti rehti hai! Ha behen pata hai tumko idea ratt gaya hai and jaha bolege waha start ho jaogi ! Abhi idea popat ke jaise har jagah bolne ke badle kabhi khud ka mail account banana bhi sikh lo!🤢

Business partner ki roles ne responsibilities sirf har jagah kisi ke bhi samne popat ke jaise idea speech bolne lagne ki he nahi hoti hai!

Originally posted by: Moongdal

In her big lecture, she said I decided to write my own story, one word my name, one page etc but she should have acknowledged, it happened because of the right support and platform. Like how Devika mentioned to Anuj, magic happened because you were her Saarthi.

To be honest for Anupamaa the opportunity was gifted on platter, no doubt she had to fight with family but again that fault is her, she is not answerable to ex in laws and ex husband. She chooses to let them control.

Her big lecture was wrong too, that women can do everything at home and then go work. It's giving wrong example, if you are working outside family has to help you out. God we are not machine that we can do it all.

I didn't understand the analogy what Anuj was explaining and she thot about Vanraj. What was the analogy there ?

The instant gratitude that Devika expressed and the way she gave credit where it was due was perfect.👍🏼 Anupama does not seem express gratitude directly to Anuj at all. In front of him, she thanks Kanhaji or something else. She believes she has moved mountains despite the shackles of the society etc, etc... I feel like her self-sympathizing is over done. Enough is enough, move on already!

@bold - I also found it very weird that she was reminded of Vanraj. Anuj mentioned about how some things will happen only when destiny dictates it. She is reminded of past many months ago... her 1st cheque , V ignoring it, and then to present day where V encourages her. Maybe she is thinking that her destiny was meant to change now? But still, it was a weird connection she drew. 😲

Actually slowly anupama is inbibing anuj’s qualities n interests as in one episode she was having hot chocolate,in other saying shayari and then about his finance.

Also now she will draw comparison between Vanraj n Anuj because earlier it was only about her nest n Vanraj

I agree with you Anupamma got this opportunity on a platter. After the drama that was created by Vanraj and Anupama's family, and the taunts that Anuj has to listen to, any corporation would have canceled her partnership. she is not a good example to follow in Devika's language she has "Mahanta syndrome" which is not feasible in today's time you have to be smart and know where to fight and where to surrender.

once I read an article about the sacrifices done by housewives and why they should not sacrifice all the time. These small sacrifices over the period choke them, instead of favors for families they slowly become expectations. It always starts with something small like, not eating the portion of dessert that is kids or spouse favorite, not going for an outing with friends so the family can get food or their stuff done on time, or working extra hard to make family members comfortable. In starting, spouse and family will appreciate her but slowly they will start taking it for granted & expect the same sacrifice from you, without even realizing that you also like that last piece of dessert, you too want to spend time with friends or that you would like to have some free time to just relax .. eventually big sacrifices will take place of small sacrifices. you will be the one who will always be expected to give up and give in. Some research shows that suppressing your own needs often backfires, leaving you feeling less authentic and satisfied These small moments of sacrifice and suppression add up, and the more people sacrifice for their partners, the more depressed they tend to be(only if family and spouse are not supportive and understanding). If you will stop doing sacrifices they will accuse you of not doing your part. because it's very easy giving some privilege or stuff to anyone but if you stop giving it or want it back they don't like it. I think the same thing is happening in Anupama.