Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #106|Shiva, Chumma aur Pani - Page 57

Originally posted by: HanaKB

Mera dil meray ShiVi pe fida hai but writers bewafa hai...haan bewafa hai!🤡🤣

Man, watching Shivi from the start and looking at them now, all I think is WTF! 🤣🤣 WHO ARE THESE CHARACTERS? I don't recognize them! They had no growth, just got worse! 🤣🤣🤡🤡

Hana🤗 you are back!

Tell me about it. I don’t recognize any of the characters too.

I am not sure why I even put this much time on the show and I came back for an ITV show after 8 years, my bad😕

Originally posted by: VaishnaviG

Actually if I had never visited this forum na I would have left the show some days ago only and catch-up it only at the reunion but the people on this forum write so good things and their analysis of the scenes are so beautiful , that I think even writers can not interpret how much we do .And the credit goes to kdice too because of their acting we can interpret their feelings.All the above are the reasons why PS is so special to me and can not leave it.

Tagging for Vaishu

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Truee that piuu ❤️

Emotions are wayyy more complicated in real life.

It's not the boy meets girl, falls in love and gets married to stay happily ever after .

I am glad you found your peace ❤️

Shit happens. Two people who love each other madly can have the slightest understanding, while two who may not be in love can have insane knowledge and respect.

Everyone in life defines their own rules, boundaries and process. Coming back to Shiva, I did watch the episode many times. Shiva isn't mesmerised, but he is in a bit of shock. Also, the way he spoke to Disha shows how unimportant Disha is to him. She gets an uncomplicated Shiva without any emotional attachment or choking.

That's how irrelevant she is to him. He has never noticed her in 1.5 years. She doesn't exist for him. It's easy for him to open up.

He has given up hope for Raavi due to multiple reasons.

Does that mean he is overwhelmed with her; no

Does that mean he is ready to move on; no

But, he probably experiences a validation and acceptance of him being worthy. Imagine if Shiva were a woman and were constantly reprimanded for his looks, we would have teared up.

The biggest problem with this track is that Shivi aren't technically divorced, and any physical gesture hints towards infidelity.

In this day and age, where we women are fighting for our rights, this gives a wrong message, and thus a specific sensitivity is required to handle this track.

I liked how easy-breezy Disha makes Shiva feel. She must have liked him to go ahead and spend a life with him.

You know the problem is that Shivi are still children who don't have a typical marriage relationship. There's a strange tashan, one-upmanship and haq over each other. I have said several times mes. Marriage means nothing to them. It's the validation and acceptance of each other being important. Shiva has deep-rooted childhood issues with Raavi, and that makes them atypical. Infidelity is equally complicated.

Anyway, I like complicated stories in fiction and see PS as a fictional piece only.

Originally posted by: deeps07

Please give us some gifs reaction post...too depressed since the morning..

Arey bhai! Deepthi, is it worth your time and energy to get disturbed by a show that's being written not for the sake of art but commercial value! 🤗

Sorry for going all out, Momzie, on you. 🤗

The makers will write shit even if it's really ugly because it's a sales product for them. Shows like Saath Nibhans Saathiya rocked too.

Request you not to fret and get your nerves frazzled on merely a stupid show.

sorry, if I sounded preachy. But, it's the reality.

You and your health are important

Originally posted by: VaishnaviG

Actually if I had never visited this forum na I would have left the show some days ago only and catch-up it only at the reunion but the people on this forum write so good things and their analysis of the scenes are so beautiful , that I think even writers can not interpret how much we do .And the credit goes to kdice too because of their acting we can interpret their feelings.All the above are the reasons why PS is so special to me and can not leave it.

💯

I agree

I would have fully left this show long back if I haven't been part of this forum.

Originally posted by: Transference

Arey bhai! Deepthi, is it worth your time and energy to get disturbed by a show that's being written not for the sake of art but commercial value! 🤗

Sorry for going all out, Momzie, on you. 🤗

The makers will write shit even if it's really ugly because it's a sales product for them. Shows like Saath Nibhans Saathiya rocked too.

Request you not to fret and get your nerves frazzled on merely a stupid show.

sorry, if I sounded preachy. But, it's the reality.

You and your health are important

No dear..❤️..thanks for the warm words Piu.. 🤗

I understand..but its my prblm when I get invested in a show I think too much abt the characters..I seriously feel moody the whole day..even for fictional character..I reason with myself thinking atleast it's not for real people. ..my family it hates when I worry too much on real things..so fictions are safer..😆

I am dangling between feeling stupid to love this show and to hate it too at the same time..🤪

Anyways..sorry for my rants ❤️

Originally posted by: Transference

Shit happens. Two people who love each other madly can have the slightest understanding, while two who may not be in love can have insane knowledge and respect.

Everyone in life defines their own rules, boundaries and process. Coming back to Shiva, I did watch the episode many times. Shiva isn't mesmerised, but he is in a bit of shock. Also, the way he spoke to Disha shows how unimportant Disha is to him. She gets an uncomplicated Shiva without any emotional attachment or choking.

That's how irrelevant she is to him. He has never noticed her in 1.5 years. She doesn't exist for him. It's easy for him to open up.

He has given up hope for Raavi due to multiple reasons.

Does that mean he is overwhelmed with her; no

Does that mean he is ready to move on; no

But, he probably experiences a validation and acceptance of him being worthy. Imagine if Shiva were a woman and were constantly reprimanded for his looks, we would have teared up.

The biggest problem with this track is that Shivi aren't technically divorced, and any physical gesture hints towards infidelity.

In this day and age, where we women are fighting for our rights, this gives a wrong message, and thus a specific sensitivity is required to handle this track.

I liked how easy-breezy Disha makes Shiva feel. She must have liked him to go ahead and spend a life with him.

You know the problem is that Shivi are still children who don't have a typical marriage relationship. There's a strange tashan, one-upmanship and haq over each other. I have said several times mes. Marriage means nothing to them. It's the validation and acceptance of each other being important. Shiva has deep-rooted childhood issues with Raavi, and that makes them atypical. Infidelity is equally complicated.

Anyway, I like complicated stories in fiction and see PS as a fictional piece only.

@bold to be honest that's my only problem now.this makes me uncomfortable.

I agree with you on the stranger part.its easier to open up to a stranger.i have shared bits and pieces of my life which I have not shared with my closest circle with people I have met on this forum.

As you said at the end of the day its a fictional piece, someone's imagination, it's best to watch it without much expectations and attachment. just focus on the parts you like, troll the ones you dont.take a break if it makes you too uncomfortable.thats the way to watch PS or any other itv show for that matter.lesson learnt.

Originally posted by: deeps07

No dear..❤️..thanks for the warm words Piu.. 🤗

I understand..but its my prblm when I get invested in a show I think too much abt the characters..I seriously feel moody the whole day..even for fictional character..I reason with myself thinking atleast it's not for real people. ..my family it hates when I worry too much on real things..so fictions are safer..😆

I am dangling between feeling stupid to love this show and to hate it too at the same time..🤪

Anyways..sorry for my rants ❤️

Please feel free to rant but take care of your sanity too. You are too precious, life is too precious, and no one deserves to be anxious because of a strictly professional venture in the name of a show 🤗

Originally posted by: Transference

Shit happens. Two people who love each other madly can have the slightest understanding, while two who may not be in love can have insane knowledge and respect.

Everyone in life defines their own rules, boundaries and process. Coming back to Shiva, I did watch the episode many times. Shiva isn't mesmerised, but he is in a bit of shock. Also, the way he spoke to Disha shows how unimportant Disha is to him. She gets an uncomplicated Shiva without any emotional attachment or choking.

That's how irrelevant she is to him. He has never noticed her in 1.5 years. She doesn't exist for him. It's easy for him to open up.

He has given up hope for Raavi due to multiple reasons.

Does that mean he is overwhelmed with her; no

Does that mean he is ready to move on; no

But, he probably experiences a validation and acceptance of him being worthy. Imagine if Shiva were a woman and were constantly reprimanded for his looks, we would have teared up.

The biggest problem with this track is that Shivi aren't technically divorced, and any physical gesture hints towards infidelity.

In this day and age, where we women are fighting for our rights, this gives a wrong message, and thus a specific sensitivity is required to handle this track.

I liked how easy-breezy Disha makes Shiva feel. She must have liked him to go ahead and spend a life with him.

You know the problem is that Shivi are still children who don't have a typical marriage relationship. There's a strange tashan, one-upmanship and haq over each other. I have said several times mes. Marriage means nothing to them. It's the validation and acceptance of each other being important. Shiva has deep-rooted childhood issues with Raavi, and that makes them atypical. Infidelity is equally complicated.

Anyway, I like complicated stories in fiction and see PS as a fictional piece only.

@Bold: U know the worst thing is that.

This show is one of the rarest shows which has shown all type of shit and have been soo insensitive towards soo many things which many people are still dealing and suffering in our society.

But in name of comedy and funny bgm they have shown the most nonsense tracks and dialogues.

Also as PS is not much in lime light that's why gets saved from getting bashed by neutrals and others on SM.

Bcoz makers ne bohot bakwas dikhaya hain show mein in name of comedy.

Originally posted by: Transference

Shit happens. Two people who love each other madly can have the slightest understanding, while two who may not be in love can have insane knowledge and respect.

Everyone in life defines their own rules, boundaries and process. Coming back to Shiva, I did watch the episode many times. Shiva isn't mesmerised, but he is in a bit of shock. Also, the way he spoke to Disha shows how unimportant Disha is to him. She gets an uncomplicated Shiva without any emotional attachment or choking.

That's how irrelevant she is to him. He has never noticed her in 1.5 years. She doesn't exist for him. It's easy for him to open up.

He has given up hope for Raavi due to multiple reasons.

Does that mean he is overwhelmed with her; no

Does that mean he is ready to move on; no

But, he probably experiences a validation and acceptance of him being worthy. Imagine if Shiva were a woman and were constantly reprimanded for his looks, we would have teared up.

The biggest problem with this track is that Shivi aren't technically divorced, and any physical gesture hints towards infidelity.

In this day and age, where we women are fighting for our rights, this gives a wrong message, and thus a specific sensitivity is required to handle this track.

I liked how easy-breezy Disha makes Shiva feel. She must have liked him to go ahead and spend a life with him.

You know the problem is that Shivi are still children who don't have a typical marriage relationship. There's a strange tashan, one-upmanship and haq over each other. I have said several times mes. Marriage means nothing to them. It's the validation and acceptance of each other being important. Shiva has deep-rooted childhood issues with Raavi, and that makes them atypical. Infidelity is equally complicated.

Anyway, I like complicated stories in fiction and see PS as a fictional piece only.

Beautifully penned again..❤️

Other than the fact that I dnt enjoy shivas easiness with disha😆..I understand disha hardly matters to shiva when it comes to ravi..