Vanraj a good father really ?

Anu keep ranting about vanraj being good father so I req samar to remind her about his good deeds .

His partiality amoung his kids

Always finding way to discourage samar

Choose kavya aboveToshu in kintoshu marriage

Kavya send Samar jail still dint do anything .

Never really understand samar or supports him

Plz keep adding..

Telling his son looser nachaniya and encourage other kids to tell his wife and his one son looser

What a joke!!

https://tenor.com/view/laughing-giggle-trying-not-to-laugh-ryan-gosling-thats-funny-gif-17307391

Exactly!

Anupama always tells Samar that he is his father,his right etc,why doesn't she remind Vanraj once that Samar is also his son,and that he is not supposed to be partial or is supposed to support him in his decisions.Also,does Anupama really think that Vanraj will understand Samar and Nandini and their problems,after his giri hui such he showed during their engagement?Will he not question Nandini's character?He might even ask Samar to leave Nandini,but this time if anything of that sort happens,Sanan should definitely not wait for the so called aashirvad of Baa and Vanraj,instead they should either get engaged in front of them,or have a court wedding like JalTosh.

Vanraj,who never supported or loved Samar even once,will support him now??

I think in the whole year to the show, vanraj has appreciated samar hardly twice..... More so when that situation was where samar supported vanraj..... Not otherwise.....

Anupama does this Mahanta syndrome and keeping family close sequence... All the time.... It is kinda irritating....

Vanraj might rise to the occasion of need be.... Wishful thinking......

Anupamas logic and reasoning can be bizzare at times as in this case. Vanraj always manipulates P1&2. anupama always acts as though vanraj dotes on Damar as well. Affection should be felt not claimed.

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Vanraj is a really sh*tty father. Apart from the obvious discrimination and discouragement he has subjected Samar to, I think he’s a bad father to Toshu and Pakhi too. He let them become such horrible humans, let them mistreat their mother, only a bad father could do this. So Anupama lauding him is bullsh*t.

Nevertheless, he’s done the basics, and materially sheltered his children well. So, if Rohan is trying to harm Samar, Vanraj will obviously protect him. However, Vanraj and Baa will blame Nandini and say that this is happening ‘because of Nandini’. They will 100% engage in victim blaming (and Anupama blaming).

Conclusion : Bad father, but does the bare minimum

Anupamaa herself divorced Vanraj & keeps reminding him that he was an abusive husband towards her.

But also keeps gaslighting Samar into forgetting all the abuse that he survived. Merely paying your child's bills doesn't make you a good father if you're also a mental terrorist. And Anupamaa is also a bad mother for not realising this.

PS. Someone remind this Nari-Shakti ka swaroop that males too can be victims of abuse. It isn't a gender thing.