Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #105|Disha Ne Badli Shiva ki Dasha - Page 100

The writers already have one third angle, Oily, for the "lead couple". I hope Disha doesn't become the second one😕

She needs to leave soon!

Originally posted by: Transference

You aren't in the minority, Esha; I am also sailing on the same boat.

I am going to again refer to the avoidant-attached partner style of human interactions.

Shiva burning in anger about Raavi and his friends wasn't dimensional jealousy but a strong reaction towards their words that demeaned him too. At that time, they had hoped for this marriage.

They both were acting like a married couple. Shiva fell for her madly and then went on a rage. He always believed Raavi never has a spark with him, and then the entire chain sequence finally leads to the end of their relationship. So, despite a subconscious hope, Shiva has given up on Shivi long back. He always believed - Raavi tho Tujhe Milne se Rahi.

Question to why isn't Shiva angry anymore. Shiva’s extreme reactions had always been reserved for Raavi. Generally, he is friendly to people and soft-spoken. His friends, too, are like him. Also, Shiva has mellowed down after the debacle. He is like that with Raavi too-extremely passive. It happens when you aren't in the proper state of mind.

I loved the Shiva-Disha conversation. He did warn her and quite frankly told her that he was the one wrong in his relationship. I have always said that Shiva has a habit of bottling up his internalised emotions and burst in the form of a volcano. He isn't very open with family members or Raavi.

He has no emotional attachment to Disha, but validation as a worthy human being made him part surprised and an incredible sense of peace. He could be liked too.

Trust me; I have been through a broken phase of love where a lost relationship had shattered my self-esteem like hell. You seemingly naturally get peace when someone validates, accepts you and makes you feel better during that phase.

Does that mean Shiva is in love? No, he is not and will never be because we know his world revolves around Raavi.

Also, commenting on how different is Shiva’s reaction to Raavi and men. It shows Shiva was more invested in his relationship than Raavi ever was!

I am removing the moral compass because they are technically married. I am slightly annoyed at Raavi’s reaction and the bizarre being married still a thing. I wouldn't have minded if they had shown this after the divorce.

Sometimes, it's easier to pour your heart out to strangers because of the lack of any strings in the conversation. You have nothing to lose. Shiva warned her about his shortcomings and how she should find a better man than him.

I like Shivi and their journey. It isn't cliched. It's interesting to see two people having so much chemistry yet so distant. How they cover the gap is their USP.

I would have been extremely bored if two normal pati-patni like progress had been shown.

We have Gaura for that!

This ❤️ Couldn’t have said it better!

I know many are saying that Raavi has been treated unfairly. My heart would have gone out to Raavi had she reacted in a way that showed she was hurt and heartbroken. But she didn’t. She kept her tone light and funny as well. Like you, I would have preferred had this scene come after the divorce. But keeping that aside, Shiva’s reaction was natural. Now Raavi, as usual has me feeling confused.

Shiva already calls Raavi, pehliwaali😕 not his biwi. So he is really moving on.

Originally posted by: mpks1

If the same thing happened after divorce it wouldn't have bothered anyone.

Now what is the guarantee Shiva will be loyal to Raavi after they get back together.

Give some respect to marriage which is still in paper and legal as well.

Can’t help but compare Raavi’s reaction when maami brought rishtas.

However dobi she is, her heart is still in right place & pace.

Why shiva never talked with her, not even when she was asking him to be friends, like how he talked with Disha? He never did. Instead he kept being stuck on Tera mera mel nahin.

AND WHATS HURTING EVEN MORE....I LOVE YOU GUYS AND DON'T WANNA LEAVE ....I WANT TO HAVE ENDLESS CONVERSATIONS WITH YOU BUT I JUST CAN'T HEAR A SINGLE WORD ABOUT SHIVI AND KDICE FROM NOW ON....I NEED TO LEAVE FOR MY SANITY...BUT TALKING TO YOU GUYS KEEPS ME SANE....I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO😭😭❤

Originally posted by: mpks1

Shiva already calls Raavi, pehliwaali😕 not his biwi. So he is really moving on.

Looks like that. He can't be compared to lord shiva who loved Mata uma/ Parvati wholeheartedly.

If makers are inspired by that EMA show ke TRPs and want 3rd angle for ShiVi's future than this is just 🤮🤮.

I'm done. Will need a break if not done for ever. Like Maya said, I feel like I've been cheated on and it just feels absolutely disgusting. I shouldn't even feel this and is super unhealthy to feel this for an ITV. Thought I was over this phase/feeling. For my sanity, I need to be away. Unless I hear that makers somehow salvage this bs, adios my friends!!

Okay. Let's go through some caps. I am still trying to fathom Shiva’s reaction.

Honestly, as a woman, I always thought Raavi deserves better and should not come running back to Pandya Parivaar. I don't have a problem with her being stupid. Not everyone in the world is supposed to be a brilliant intellectual bulb, but everyone needs self-respect.

I would have cheered if Raavi had given him left, right and centre saying that today you are okay with a peck on the cheek, and you weren't OK with my male friends? It could have been her slap on his face.

That would have made her brilliant. Infidelity is a vital topic, and I am strictly against it. That's why I didn't enjoy the scene as much as I should have. But, shit happens in ITV. I have seen a Dupatta show where a married woman was effusive with her true love despite being married. Anyway, that's a separate discussion altogether.

Also, I think part of this track is bizarre because they aren't technically divorced yet. That's why I said: divorce should have happened, and their story should have begun then.

Shiva is just being Shiva: bottled, confused, and a loner; part idiotic and part Deeth, and a hypocrite.

I quite like what he spoke to Disha. He accepted that he was the one to blame for this failed relationship, and it was all his fault.

He also tells her that she shouldn't invest herself in someone like him who is stubborn, brick headed and clear in his stance.

Coming to be mesmerised. I am trying to cap something to see if Shiva was mesmerised.

Shiva is looking lost while Disha clearly smitten.

There he decides to tell her that he isn't worth her time. I like this cap a lot!

I love love this one where he just tells her that he has failed a relationship.

Lol 🤣

It's subtle passive wonder but not mesmeriSee.

I still don't see mesmerised.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

If makers are inspired by that EMA show ke TRPs and want 3rd angle for ShiVi's future than this is just 🤮🤮.

I'm done. Will need a break if not done for ever. Like Maya said, I feel like I've been cheated on and it just feels absolutely disgusting. I shouldn't even feel this and is super unhealthy to feel this for an ITV. Thought I was over this phase/feeling. For my sanity, I need to be away. Unless I hear that makers somehow salvage this bs, adios my friends!!

Hails! Don't burn you brain on a TV show. If you don't feel like watching it, take a break. I did when I wouldn't say I liked it that much. It's a way of self-preservation

Originally posted by: spdp

Can’t help but compare Raavi’s reaction when maami brought rishtas.

However dobi she is, her heart is still in right place & pace.

Why shiva never talked with her, not even when she was asking him to be friends, like how he talked with Disha? He never did. Instead he kept being stuck on Tera mera mel nahin.

I agree she atleast said no to any rishta and is not even considering remarriage, instead thinking about to studies, job.

Shiva doesn't want to marry at this point but is not averse to marrying. Now that he knows about Disha, it will give him more confidence. I want to see what his next course of action will be,

One of them could be to continue to move around with Disha until Raavi breaksdown and then abandon Disha once he accepts Raavi😕

Or tell her off tomorrow that he is still not interested in her at this time and wants some time.