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Originally posted by: Anu1975

If they want to retain a bit of dignity to Raghav’s character then he should confess it to Pallavi himself before she gets to know from someone else.. but I am sure it won’t happen…Whether something happened or not between him and Esha is different but the fact that he volunteered to stay back in the same room and have a drink with his ex and hiding it from Pallavi will successfully ruin Raghav for me…I won’t be able to see him the same way anymore…I don’t know about Pallavi but I have lost trust in him…he is not the same Raghav anymore…

I will be greatly disappointed if Pallavi pulls a Sati Savithri to save her Satyavan act here…no she doesn’t deserve this…I want her to lash out at him and leave him to his misery and wallow in guilt and that pain would be nothing compared to the heartbreak she will go through…

To Pallavi “ Giri please leave…you deserve better, you don’t have to choose him this time simply because he treated you as an option”

Anu I understand what you feel right now.

I want R to come clean as well. Even their relationship truth she got to know through Esha and not Raghav which was so bad. If he lies, he will bring everything down himself.

Pallavi will lash out at him. She will never tolerate a cheating husband. She loves him way too much to tolerate this. No woman would. Her self-respect is way too important. I trust Pallavi to do the right thing, she always has. It's Raghav whom I can't understand. Will he learn from his past mistakes and tell the truth or what.

Again, the drinking with ex and in the same room is all ok if his conscience is clean and he tells the truth to pallavi ki kuch nai tha..

A lot of people may find that unacceptable but for me, his intentions matter. But jhoot is to much yaar. When he lies about this, it fuels her doubts and questions her blind trust.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Anu I understand what you feel right now.

I want R to come clean as well. Even their relationship truth she got to know through Esha and not Raghav which was so bad. If he lies, he will bring everything down himself.

Pallavi will lash out at him. She will never tolerate a cheating husband. She loves him way too much to tolerate this. No woman would. Her self-respect is way too important. I trust Pallavi to do the right thing, she always has. It's Raghav whom I can't understand. Will he learn from his past mistakes and tell the truth or what.

Again, the drinking with ex and in the same room is all ok if his conscience is clean and he tells the truth to pallavi ki kuch nai tha..

A lot of people may find that unacceptable but for me, his intentions matter. But jhoot is to much yaar. When he lies about this, it fuels her doubts and questions her blind trust.

I thought about the scene again and I feel like as long as his intentions and conscience are clear that's half the problem solved and the other is for him to explain clearly to Pallavi what happened. The whole story, not bits and pieces. I would be fine with that.

If he says nothing at all and wallows in guilt for staying quiet about this, that's a good sign that at least he knows he shouldn't be hiding things. I don't want him to be in guilt for finding himself in that condition the next morning in the sense that he crossed some boundaries with Esha if the truth is that he didn't do a thing. I do want him to question himself as to where he must draw the line between insaniyat, sympathy, etc. and self-preservation. I remember the accident track where he was going nuts and I don't think we'll see that here. Technically, he can't resort to drinking his guilt away this time so what will he do without alcohol to dim his senses?

The fact is though, that good intentions not matched by the right actions can cause a lot of damage not just to Pallavi but also to himself because once again he will go back to square one where he will have lost everything. Does he really want that for himself, to go back to that vicious cycle?

Originally posted by: inlieu

I thought about the scene again and I feel like as long as his intentions and conscience are clear that's half the problem solved and the other is for him to explain clearly to Pallavi what happened. The whole story, not bits and pieces. I would be fine with that.

If he says nothing at all and wallows in guilt for staying quiet about this, that's a good sign that at least he knows he shouldn't be hiding things. I don't want him to be in guilt for finding himself in that condition the next morning in the sense that he crossed some boundaries with Esha if the truth is that he didn't do a thing. I do want him to question himself as to where he must draw the line between insaniyat, sympathy, etc. and self-preservation. I remember the accident track where he was going nuts and I don't think we'll see that here. Technically, he can't resort to drinking his guilt away this time so what will he do without alcohol to dim his senses?

The fact is though, that good intentions not matched by the right actions can cause a lot of damage not just to Pallavi but also to himself because once again he will go back to square one where he will have lost everything. Does he really want that for himself, to go back to that vicious cycle?

He needs to come clean. Knowing Raghav till he knows he was drugged and nothing happened, he will believe he cheated on Pallavi and that is something he never agreed even before Pallavi. He's going to be so guilt striken every time he sees Pallavi. He's going to die a little everytime. Like you said, he won't be able to resort to alcohol or Pallavi as only these 2 are his coping mechanisms. Bahut bura phasa hai yeh.

If he comes clean, things will get better otherwise it's a lie after another to try and salvage a relationship that is going to break eventually.

Originally posted by: Owia

Ren , to be honest I have reached a stage where even ranting about the track or expressing myself here doesnt help me in getting over the frustration.

I am at loss of words now.

Trying few destressing therapies at home .

If they help me overcome this, I will surely write a long reply here.😂

I feel you Sahu and I've not watched the entire episode. Last 5 mins and precap has got my blood boiling.

I want to destress myself as well...

Originally posted by: joliefemme

He needs to come clean. Knowing Raghav till he knows he was drugged and nothing happened, he will believe he cheated on Pallavi and that is something he never agreed even before Pallavi. He's going to be so guilt striken every time he sees Pallavi. He's going to die a little everytime. Like you said, he won't be able to resort to alcohol or Pallavi as only these 2 are his coping mechanisms. Bahut bura phasa hai yeh.

If he comes clean, things will get better otherwise it's a lie after another to try and salvage a relationship that is going to break eventually.

@bold, actually this is the part that I'm worried about. He basically has a self-destructive tendency so that as long as he feels he crossed the line (even if under the influence) he won't be able to forgive himself and won't be whole for Pallavi. He is going to go into a darker and darker spot to the point where it's not his insecurity but sense of shame and hatred of his betrayal that will drive him away from Pallavi. As time passes, it will be harder for him to speak up and one day it will all come crashing down.

I've just seen hints of this BTS so what you and I are speculating is likely to happen. Damn. I feel bad for Raghav because he's stuck in this rut and is not just self-destructing but taking his loved ones down with him. The immediate impact will be on Pallavi but it will end up hurting Amma and maybe even Keerti too if the family falls apart. The four of them came together under one roof because of the marriage and if the marriage itself is in trouble, so will the other dynamics be.

Just as in the Mandaar track Raghav needed Amma's steady guidance, I think this time he will need it again. He can't go to anyone else with this and no one will be able to show him the way, not even Pallavi since it involves her directly.

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold, actually this is the part that I'm worried about. He basically has a self-destructive tendency so that as long as he feels he crossed the line (even if under the influence) he won't be able to forgive himself and won't be whole for Pallavi. He is going to go into a darker and darker spot to the point where it's not his insecurity but sense of shame and hatred of his betrayal that will drive him away from Pallavi. As time passes, it will be harder for him to speak up and one day it will all come crashing down.

I've just seen hints of this BTS so what you and I are speculating is likely to happen. Damn. I feel bad for Raghav because he's stuck in this rut and is not just self-destructing but taking his loved ones down with him. The immediate impact will be on Pallavi but it will end up hurting Amma and maybe even Keerti too if the family falls apart. The four of them came together under one roof because of the marriage and if the marriage itself is in trouble, so will the other dynamics be.

Just as in the Mandaar track Raghav needed Amma's steady guidance, I think this time he will need it again. He can't go to anyone else with this and no one will be able to show him the way, not even Pallavi since it involves her directly.

I'm already hurting thinking about where this is going. I don't think I can see this track. Raghav is going to literally curse himself and won't come clean. Pallavi will lash at him and retreat into her shell just like she was before Raghav.

Shit we are back to square zero and how. I doubt Amma kuch bhi kar payegi. It's too big a hole he has dug.

Don't have much to add bc you've said it all. 👏

the answer to your quesitons

1) with how much inner hate Raghav has for cheating women - no.

2) I never advocated that for Raghav so I can't support that lol.

They can work it out if he was drugged and if he reveals the truth. If he was drunk - then he needs rehab because that means he can't control himself when drinking. And tbh idk what I'd do if I was Pallavi in that situation.

If he was drugged - then he can't truly be held accountable for his actions.

If he keeps things hidden in either of these scenarios - then Pallavi needs to walk away with her own dignity and Raghav needs to wallow in his guilt. I love him just as much as the next fan, but dang my dude, you need to understand what path your decisions are leading you down. He needs to go through extreme guilt to realize that he can't keep being like this because he's too impulsive and in his own way. HIs poor decisions led him here, drugged or not, and that is something he needs to work on. And Pallavi should not have to be his support for that, not after this. She deserves better.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I'm already hurting thinking about where this is going. I don't think I can see this track. Raghav is going to literally curse himself and won't come clean. Pallavi will lash at him and retreat into her shell just like she was before Raghav.

Shit we are back to square zero and how. I doubt Amma kuch bhi kar payegi. It's too big a hole he has dug.

Actually, the only one who can help is Amma.

I am just afraid that he might decide to go for divorce because of his guilt and feeling he doesn't deserve her or this relationship. We don't want Pallavi to be mahaan but I'm dreading seeing him be mahaan instead, because of the trend of role reversals on this show.

It might not be such a bad thing for them to separate, have some space and let things settle down before they decide what to do about their relationship. Something tells me that for all our worries, the track will be over with a bang in a couple of weeks and ACP Laxmi will be back to stir trouble (as if these two didn't have enough of it).

Mujhe pata nhi kyun ACP Laxmi ki baat sunke hasi aa gyi...

Originally posted by: Trina2021

Dont know what else to say after reading your post .You said it all . Pallavi is not here to clean up Raghavs messes all time time . Why can’t she leave him for good and concentrate on her career and reach her potential Why would she stay back and take on his tantrums and cheating and two timings and what not and give her. Best to save Ragahvs from the Messes he creates every time . As it is Raghav never deserved a life partner like him in the first place . She’s too good for a mental case like him . His own mom refused to be with him for 10’years for a reason .

He ruined Anjalis life and gave him lectures and now look @ him . Did what he said he hated the most and always blamed others

Hypocrisy Ki to hadh ho gayee ab 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Yeah now their relationship feels one sided where Pallavi is there to clean his mess. He needs to literally grow up and take responsibility for his actions. It's high time.

I won't call Raghav mental. He's had a pretty traumatic past and he's shaped this way because of that. His ways aren't always right but he's a nice person at the end of the day and he loves Pallavi more than himself. This is what i want to remember.

Unfortunately he will believe he's cheated Pallavi and did the same thing he hated once upon a time, he's going to go crazy thinking of this. I really hope he comes clean to her. I feel so bad for him- he's too naive and stupid to fall into this trap and by lying is digging a bigger grave for himself.

I've always believed Pals is more practical and she'll survive without him (she will walk out for sure), he won't survive without her.