It's payback time Pallavi, loving the track - Page 8

Originally posted by: Hopeful_Heart

Pallavi has time and again proved her love and unconditional trust on Raghav. Yet, everything is back to squareone. No progression at all😳.

I see many people defending Raghav saying its good that he did not shared with Pallavi what Esha replied to him otherwise she might have felt bad and he was just protecting her. Like really?🤔

Few are saying thats its his nature. I understand that thats his nature but after so many incident and progression he is still doing the same thing. Then how can you justify his act? I will wait for tomorrow's episode before commenting further.

@bold typical ITV excuse that we've heard loads of times and that we know only gets people in trouble eventually. 😆

I do think the writers don't want to show character progression the way we are all hoping to see, at least at this point they don't seem to be investing in that. It's just non-stop drama without closing the loop each time.

Originally posted by: Hopeful_Heart

Respectfully, I do think its very necessary to defend her and that too all the time. Though her character stands strong on its own, people misjudged her all the time in every track. Even if she is breathing, people will have problem. So, its very much needed to justify everything to everyone.

I feel if Pallavi doesn't need defenders then same goes with Raghav. The writers crafted his character in a specific way and thats what will come out on screen. He is also a strong character. His character stands strong on its own, with no need to justify anything to anyone.

I don't mean to offend anyone by writing all this. Just sharing my perspective. This forum is a space for freedom of debate, discussions, etc. so I respect everyone's wish to write their piece.

@bold, my point exactly. Some people will hate her no matter what so all this defending doesn't get through to them.

I was just expressing my view that I don't understand the need to defend her but I get that some people do feel that way. I respect that.

Originally posted by: johnslove

As long as the track is done tastefully and not same old daily soap storylines or that will end this show really quick

-don’t want to see Raghav getting trapped in a molestation case

-RR getting drugged and taken advantage of/ child with ex

-pallavi leaving RR with his child only to come back 5 years later

Oh yeah, I absolutely don't want to see these ghise pite tracks that we've seen on ITV for years.

it is not easy to love a person with emotional baggages. Such people irrespective of gender are permanently scarred. They live by their own set of rules and have pre conceived opinions about everyone including their own.

Raghav Rao has to pay a price for everything including happiness. He became rich because of the very same insecurities that came to him in the form of a challenge. First Krishna Rao made a fool out of him and Esha Mahadvan broke his heart, he resorted to illegal means inorder to make money and his mother not only blamed him for his father's death but did not acknowledge his success. Also, lowered his morale each and every time they met.

Raghav Rao is a softie from within, since his loved ones hurt him so much, he made use of his anger, arrogance and language to hurt people. It was his weapon whenever he is in a delicate position. He made so much of money that it is not possible for him to mellow down or give some sort of explanation to anyone including his wife.

He definitely paid a price by falling in love, first it was betrayal and with Pallavi, he is trying to adjust to a new normal. She is trying to tame a beast and he definitely is cooperating to a certain extent.

Sikcand has moved from Raghav Rao the don to Raghav Rao the husband, the son, the brother and instead of creating tracks highlighting his past, he has brought in personal equations.

It is not payback time Pallavi but rather Payback time Raghav.

This time he is learning the art of communication.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I agree to disagree with your views completely. Let me site examples and reasons:

Pain and insecurities

1. Pallavi is a very trusting person and hence normally would never fear losing Raghav and have insecurities. This is because of her secure past as well as her unfailing trust in Raghav and their relationship.

2. Raghav's past makes him insecure and he fears abandonment. In this fear, he will resort to drinking, behave irresponsibly and be impulsive and shut her out.

Priority

1. Raghav was always her priority and she has proved this time and again but Raghav never made her his priority.

2. Pallavi chose him over D family even when she didn't love him.

3. She went to jail so that he doesn't sacrifice himself for Keerti.

4. She took a bullet for him.

5. When he told her to leave his house she didn't leave him but tried to show him the right path.

6. She didnt go to the police with the diamonds and compromised on her morals for her love.

7. In comparison, for him it's always my business, my family, my sister.

8. He was hurting her for something that wasn't her fault in the Keerti track.

9. In the last week, he says my business and she says our.

10. She even went to dasri to get him back the deal.

Fighting for the relationship

1. Pallavi has always fought for their relationship through all the tracks (mandar accident, his return and the idealogy track, keerti return track). She never left him nor even thought that was an option. In her own words, she doesn't know anything apart from loving him.

2. Raghav has always taken her for granted, shunned her, lied to her time, publicly insulted her and again and is doing the same even now.

3. Whereas Pallavi has been nothing but trusting of him. I understand Raghav has a past baggage and is highly insecure and worries abandonment but Pallavi has taken a bullet for him as well.

Communication

1. Raghav is generally someone who will shut communication and not confront whereas Pallavi is more practical and would talk to sort things out. These are their basic character traits. He needs to grow up to trust his wife, she's always proved she's going to be by his side.

2. Raghav needs to come out clear and stop lying to her. No relationship works without trust. In Mandar's time also, Pallavi was so transparent with Raghav. She did whatever she did but she wasn't lying to him. Her stand was clear and it was Raghav who was insecure. I agree Pallavi made mistakes along the way but Raghav will make them too in this track.

Ownership

1. Also, Pallavi has always taken more ownership of their relationship and they are still together only because of Pallavi. Otherwise one problem and Raghav in his impulsiveness won't hesitate to push her away.

I'm not bashing or critisizing Raghav, he's written that way but he needs to grow up now.

She's been an emotional anchor for Raghav for way too long that she's always pushed her own emotional needs to the background. The last conversation in the yellow sari, she was herself shook but still gave him support.

Pallavi will leave this time and he will have to give her the assurance of his love. It was always the other way around, her assuring him she won't leave. Raghav needs to realise her importance in his life. I know he knows but his actions of insulting her or pushing her away of lying to her constantly speak otherwise.

I want to write a more detailed one of comparisons between Raghav and Pallavi but I'm short for time. I love both of them equally and believe their relationship is quite balanced for the most part. I just hope Raghav trusts Pallavi in this track and both stay together.

This couldn't have been put it any better🤗