It's payback time Pallavi, loving the track

Well, im actually loving this track, it's unlike the previous 2 disastrous track of Mandar and Smuggling. I think the writers are doing a good job so far and the pace it's good, the story is moving forward.

But more than that, this will be first time Pallavi will be feeling the pain, the insecurities of losing Raghav.

The previous 2 tracks, we had seen Raghav actually paining for Pallavi, his fear, his insecurities of losing her.

Pallavi was always secure in her relationship with Raghav, never had or faced the fear of losing him.

Now the tables have turn, its Pallavi will need to fight for her Raghav. I really hope there are scenes where Pallavi craved for Raghav attention. We have always seen Raghav wanting her attention, her love, her time to be with him. Raghav wanting him to be her priority, which Pallavi always fail to give.

Hope the writers are good enough to show that relationship requires 2 to work. Raghav has always put his 100%, now it's Pallavi's turn.

Let's look forward for this track and keep enjoying the show.

See, Pallavi is a stable character whereas Raghav gets insecure for even the slightest of things because of his past. His past has shaped him up in a way that he gets highly insecure.

Pallavi was upfront from day 1 about Mandar that she is doing it because of her Aai Baba or humanity(whatever).She never hid things from him .

Yes, Raghav ensured her yesterday that he loves her only but the way he tried to hide things today is what didnt go down well with me. He needs to be clear about everything.

Now , I am damn sure he will keep hiding things from Pallavi, thats not acceptable.

Pallavi can only get insecure if she gets strong hints whereas Raghav loses it at even a small hint.

If Pallavi misunderstands him this time, she is not to be blamed for it.

Originally posted by: Owia

See, Pallavi is a stable character whereas Raghav gets insecure for even the slightest of things because of his past. His past has shaped him up in a way that he gets highly insecure.

Pallavi was upfront from day 1 about Mandar that she is doing it because of her Aai Baba or humanity(whatever).She never hid things from him .

Yes, Raghav ensured her yesterday that he loves her only but the way he tried to hide things today is what didnt go down well with me. He needs to be clear about everything.

Now , I am damn sure he will keep hiding things from Pallavi, thats not acceptable.

Pallavi can only get insecure if she gets strong hints whereas Raghav loses it at even a small hint.

If Pallavi misunderstands him this time, she is not to be blamed for it.

I totally agree with that

I agree to disagree with your views completely. Let me site examples and reasons:

Pain and insecurities

1. Pallavi is a very trusting person and hence normally would never fear losing Raghav and have insecurities. This is because of her secure past as well as her unfailing trust in Raghav and their relationship.

2. Raghav's past makes him insecure and he fears abandonment. In this fear, he will resort to drinking, behave irresponsibly and be impulsive and shut her out.

Priority

1. Raghav was always her priority and she has proved this time and again but Raghav never made her his priority.

2. Pallavi chose him over D family even when she didn't love him.

3. She went to jail so that he doesn't sacrifice himself for Keerti.

4. She took a bullet for him.

5. When he told her to leave his house she didn't leave him but tried to show him the right path.

6. She didnt go to the police with the diamonds and compromised on her morals for her love.

7. In comparison, for him it's always my business, my family, my sister.

8. He was hurting her for something that wasn't her fault in the Keerti track.

9. In the last week, he says my business and she says our.

10. She even went to dasri to get him back the deal.

Fighting for the relationship

1. Pallavi has always fought for their relationship through all the tracks (mandar accident, his return and the idealogy track, keerti return track). She never left him nor even thought that was an option. In her own words, she doesn't know anything apart from loving him.

2. Raghav has always taken her for granted, shunned her, lied to her time, publicly insulted her and again and is doing the same even now.

3. Whereas Pallavi has been nothing but trusting of him. I understand Raghav has a past baggage and is highly insecure and worries abandonment but Pallavi has taken a bullet for him as well.

Communication

1. Raghav is generally someone who will shut communication and not confront whereas Pallavi is more practical and would talk to sort things out. These are their basic character traits. He needs to grow up to trust his wife, she's always proved she's going to be by his side.

2. Raghav needs to come out clear and stop lying to her. No relationship works without trust. In Mandar's time also, Pallavi was so transparent with Raghav. She did whatever she did but she wasn't lying to him. Her stand was clear and it was Raghav who was insecure. I agree Pallavi made mistakes along the way but Raghav will make them too in this track.

Ownership

1. Also, Pallavi has always taken more ownership of their relationship and they are still together only because of Pallavi. Otherwise one problem and Raghav in his impulsiveness won't hesitate to push her away.

I'm not bashing or critisizing Raghav, he's written that way but he needs to grow up now.

She's been an emotional anchor for Raghav for way too long that she's always pushed her own emotional needs to the background. The last conversation in the yellow sari, she was herself shook but still gave him support.

Pallavi will leave this time and he will have to give her the assurance of his love. It was always the other way around, her assuring him she won't leave. Raghav needs to realise her importance in his life. I know he knows but his actions of insulting her or pushing her away of lying to her constantly speak otherwise.

I want to write a more detailed one of comparisons between Raghav and Pallavi but I'm short for time. I love both of them equally and believe their relationship is quite balanced for the most part. I just hope Raghav trusts Pallavi in this track and both stay together.

Well said.

Raghav is hiding things from Pallavi as her "love" is always judgemental and conditional,,,baap re if Raghav tells everything about Esha Pallu will be like who what when why

Mein tumhe badalkar rahungi

mein kabhi soch bhi nahi sakti

tum badal gaye ho

So Raghav hiding things coz he is scared of her.She will beat him with chappal also. If Pallu was my husband I will also behave like Raghav

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I agree to disagree with your views completely. Let me site examples and reasons:

Pain and insecurities

1. Pallavi is a very trusting person and hence normally would never fear losing Raghav and have insecurities. This is because of her secure past as well as her unfailing trust in Raghav and their relationship.

2. Raghav's past makes him insecure and he fears abandonment. In this fear, he will resort to drinking, behave irresponsibly and be impulsive and shut her out.

Priority

1. Raghav was always her priority and she has proved this time and again but Raghav never made her his priority.

2. Pallavi chose him over D family even when she didn't love him.

3. She went to jail so that he doesn't sacrifice himself for Keerti.

4. She took a bullet for him.

5. When he told her to leave his house she didn't leave him but tried to show him the right path.

6. She didnt go to the police with the diamonds and compromised on her morals for her love.

7. In comparison, for him it's always my business, my family, my sister.

8. He was hurting her for something that wasn't her fault in the Keerti track.

9. In the last week, he says my business and she says our.

10. She even went to dasri to get him back the deal.

Fighting for the relationship

1. Pallavi has always fought for their relationship through all the tracks (mandar accident, his return and the idealogy track, keerti return track). She never left him nor even thought that was an option. In her own words, she doesn't know anything apart from loving him.

2. Raghav has always taken her for granted, shunned her, lied to her time, publicly insulted her and again and is doing the same even now.

3. Whereas Pallavi has been nothing but trusting of him. I understand Raghav has a past baggage and is highly insecure and worries abandonment but Pallavi has taken a bullet for him as well.

Communication

1. Raghav is generally someone who will shut communication and not confront whereas Pallavi is more practical and would talk to sort things out. These are their basic character traits. He needs to grow up to trust his wife, she's always proved she's going to be by his side.

2. Raghav needs to come out clear and stop lying to her. No relationship works without trust. In Mandar's time also, Pallavi was so transparent with Raghav. She did whatever she did but she wasn't lying to him. Her stand was clear and it was Raghav who was insecure. I agree Pallavi made mistakes along the way but Raghav will make them too in this track.

Ownership

1. Also, Pallavi has always taken more ownership of their relationship and they are still together only because of Pallavi. Otherwise one problem and Raghav in his impulsiveness won't hesitate to push her away.

I'm not bashing or critisizing Raghav, he's written that way but he needs to grow up now.

She's been an emotional anchor for Raghav for way too long that she's always pushed her own emotional needs to the background. The last conversation in the yellow sari, she was herself shook but still gave him support.

Pallavi will leave this time and he will have to give her the assurance of his love. It was always the other way around, her assuring him she won't leave. Raghav needs to realise her importance in his life. I know he knows but his actions of insulting her or pushing her away of lying to her constantly speak otherwise.

I want to write a more detailed one of comparisons between Raghav and Pallavi but I'm short for time. I love both of them equally and believe their relationship is quite balanced for the most part. I just hope Raghav trusts Pallavi in this track and both stay together.

👏well said dear

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I agree to disagree with your views completely. Let me site examples and reasons:

Pain and insecurities

1. Pallavi is a very trusting person and hence normally would never fear losing Raghav and have insecurities. This is because of her secure past as well as her unfailing trust in Raghav and their relationship.

2. Raghav's past makes him insecure and he fears abandonment. In this fear, he will resort to drinking, behave irresponsibly and be impulsive and shut her out.

Priority

1. Raghav was always her priority and she has proved this time and again but Raghav never made her his priority.

2. Pallavi chose him over D family even when she didn't love him.

3. She went to jail so that he doesn't sacrifice himself for Keerti.

4. She took a bullet for him.

5. When he told her to leave his house she didn't leave him but tried to show him the right path.

6. She didnt go to the police with the diamonds and compromised on her morals for her love.

7. In comparison, for him it's always my business, my family, my sister.

8. He was hurting her for something that wasn't her fault in the Keerti track.

9. In the last week, he says my business and she says our.

10. She even went to dasri to get him back the deal.

Fighting for the relationship

1. Pallavi has always fought for their relationship through all the tracks (mandar accident, his return and the idealogy track, keerti return track). She never left him nor even thought that was an option. In her own words, she doesn't know anything apart from loving him.

2. Raghav has always taken her for granted, shunned her, lied to her time, publicly insulted her and again and is doing the same even now.

3. Whereas Pallavi has been nothing but trusting of him. I understand Raghav has a past baggage and is highly insecure and worries abandonment but Pallavi has taken a bullet for him as well.

Communication

1. Raghav is generally someone who will shut communication and not confront whereas Pallavi is more practical and would talk to sort things out. These are their basic character traits. He needs to grow up to trust his wife, she's always proved she's going to be by his side.

2. Raghav needs to come out clear and stop lying to her. No relationship works without trust. In Mandar's time also, Pallavi was so transparent with Raghav. She did whatever she did but she wasn't lying to him. Her stand was clear and it was Raghav who was insecure. I agree Pallavi made mistakes along the way but Raghav will make them too in this track.

Ownership

1. Also, Pallavi has always taken more ownership of their relationship and they are still together only because of Pallavi. Otherwise one problem and Raghav in his impulsiveness won't hesitate to push her away.

I'm not bashing or critisizing Raghav, he's written that way but he needs to grow up now.

She's been an emotional anchor for Raghav for way too long that she's always pushed her own emotional needs to the background. The last conversation in the yellow sari, she was herself shook but still gave him support.

Pallavi will leave this time and he will have to give her the assurance of his love. It was always the other way around, her assuring him she won't leave. Raghav needs to realise her importance in his life. I know he knows but his actions of insulting her or pushing her away of lying to her constantly speak otherwise.

I want to write a more detailed one of comparisons between Raghav and Pallavi but I'm short for time. I love both of them equally and believe their relationship is quite balanced for the most part. I just hope Raghav trusts Pallavi in this track and both stay together.

All plausible points listed out, Ren !.

Originally posted by: partner

Well, im actually loving this track, it's unlike the previous 2 disastrous track of Mandar and Smuggling. I think the writers are doing a good job so far and the pace it's good, the story is moving forward.

But more than that, this will be first time Pallavi will be feeling the pain, the insecurities of losing Raghav.

The previous 2 tracks, we had seen Raghav actually paining for Pallavi, his fear, his insecurities of losing her.

Pallavi was always secure in her relationship with Raghav, never had or faced the fear of losing him.

Now the tables have turn, its Pallavi will need to fight for her Raghav. I really hope there are scenes where Pallavi craved for Raghav attention. We have always seen Raghav wanting her attention, her love, her time to be with him. Raghav wanting him to be her priority, which Pallavi always fail to give.

Hope the writers are good enough to show that relationship requires 2 to work. Raghav has always put his 100%, now it's Pallavi's turn.

Let's look forward for this track and keep enjoying the show.

And you used the word "payback" , so is it that Pallavi intentionally did everything in Mandar track?.

Because I dont think so.

Its Raghavs character that made him so insecure , yes Pallavi kind of made mistakes incase of Mandar but she didnt even lie once.

But Raghav is messing up !.

" Hiding things also comes under lying".

Raghav is so insecure that he couldn't tolerate mandar sending a message to Pallavi which wasn't even creepy from Pallavi's perspective then. He bought her a new phone and changed the sim.

Esha toh I love you messages bhej rahi hai and Pallavi can't even ask questions? If Raghav is clear in his head (which I know he is), why lie to Pallavi and fuel her doubts. Pallavi never lied to him during the M track. She did stupid things but her conscience was always clean.

Even after taking a bullet for him if her love is judgemental and conditional, I don't know aur kaise prove kar sakte hai her love.

Just because Pallavi asks him to change his drinking ways or illegal ways because they will hurt him in the long run, concern toh kisiko dikh bhi nai raha. Even today, it was Pallavi who first called him to patch up ask if he's eaten or not etc. Raghav is in forever sulking mode. He never tries to patch things up.

Also why will she beat him if his stand is not conflicted. She listened to him bullshitting about soulmate etc and gave him the emotional support he needed that time.

Pallavi is way too mature and that's the only reason she is still able to handle Raghav. He's a pretty difficult man to live with ( no doubts that he has a lot of positives going for him as well).

Thanks Sama and Sahu. I tried to bring in a different perspective.

It's funny that even in this track P is getting questionned, jaise R toh kuch galat nai kar sakta...ab bullet se badkar kya ho sakta hai to prove ur love???