It's payback time Pallavi, loving the track - Page 2

Originally posted by: Owia

See, Pallavi is a stable character whereas Raghav gets insecure for even the slightest of things because of his past. His past has shaped him up in a way that he gets highly insecure.

Pallavi was upfront from day 1 about Mandar that she is doing it because of her Aai Baba or humanity(whatever).She never hid things from him .

Yes, Raghav ensured her yesterday that he loves her only but the way he tried to hide things today is what didnt go down well with me. He needs to be clear about everything.

Now , I am damn sure he will keep hiding things from Pallavi, thats not acceptable.

Pallavi can only get insecure if she gets strong hints whereas Raghav loses it at even a small hint.

If Pallavi misunderstands him this time, she is not to be blamed for it.

Well I just remembered kirti dialogue that day...she specifically told him watever your thinking or planning to do please share it with pallavi...obviously coz if he hides there will be mu...but wat he z doing exactly that...hiding thgs from her...I'm sure this whole hotel thg and watever happ he ll lie...and obviously later she ll come to know

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Thanks Sama and Sahu. I tried to bring in a different perspective.

It's funny that even in this track P is getting questionned, jaise R toh kuch galat nai kar sakta...ab bullet se badkar kya ho sakta hai to prove ur love???

Its always about what Pallavi's wrong actions.

Raghav's wrong actions are always considered right.

Originally posted by: Owia

Its always about what Pallavi's wrong actions.

Raghav's wrong actions are always considered right.

Sahu if you see Pallavi ka character is way stronger than Raghav's (despite not getting her monologues etc). She a very good example of a life partner. She doesn't leave when things go south. She loves with all her heart and is very practical in her dealings. She doesn't even hold grudges and is honest in her relationships. R has really lucked out, if you ask me.

I hope this track gets rid of his insecurities and abandonment issues and mostly his lying ways.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Sahu if you see Pallavi ka character is way stronger than Raghav's (despite not getting her monologues etc). She a very good example of a life partner. She doesn't leave when things go south. She loves with all her heart and is very practical in her dealings. She doesn't even hold grudges and is honest in her relationships. R has really lucked out, if you ask me.

I hope this track gets rid of his insecurities and abandonment issues and mostly his lying ways.

Rightly said.

It always feels like he messes up and she sorts out everything.

I repeat , always!

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I agree to disagree with your views completely. Let me site examples and reasons:

Pain and insecurities

1. Pallavi is a very trusting person and hence normally would never fear losing Raghav and have insecurities. This is because of her secure past as well as her unfailing trust in Raghav and their relationship.

2. Raghav's past makes him insecure and he fears abandonment. In this fear, he will resort to drinking, behave irresponsibly and be impulsive and shut her out.

Priority

1. Raghav was always her priority and she has proved this time and again but Raghav never made her his priority.

2. Pallavi chose him over D family even when she didn't love him.

3. She went to jail so that he doesn't sacrifice himself for Keerti.

4. She took a bullet for him.

5. When he told her to leave his house she didn't leave him but tried to show him the right path.

6. She didnt go to the police with the diamonds and compromised on her morals for her love.

7. In comparison, for him it's always my business, my family, my sister.

8. He was hurting her for something that wasn't her fault in the Keerti track.

9. In the last week, he says my business and she says our.

10. She even went to dasri to get him back the deal.

Fighting for the relationship

1. Pallavi has always fought for their relationship through all the tracks (mandar accident, his return and the idealogy track, keerti return track). She never left him nor even thought that was an option. In her own words, she doesn't know anything apart from loving him.

2. Raghav has always taken her for granted, shunned her, lied to her time, publicly insulted her and again and is doing the same even now.

3. Whereas Pallavi has been nothing but trusting of him. I understand Raghav has a past baggage and is highly insecure and worries abandonment but Pallavi has taken a bullet for him as well.

Communication

1. Raghav is generally someone who will shut communication and not confront whereas Pallavi is more practical and would talk to sort things out. These are their basic character traits. He needs to grow up to trust his wife, she's always proved she's going to be by his side.

2. Raghav needs to come out clear and stop lying to her. No relationship works without trust. In Mandar's time also, Pallavi was so transparent with Raghav. She did whatever she did but she wasn't lying to him. Her stand was clear and it was Raghav who was insecure. I agree Pallavi made mistakes along the way but Raghav will make them too in this track.

Ownership

1. Also, Pallavi has always taken more ownership of their relationship and they are still together only because of Pallavi. Otherwise one problem and Raghav in his impulsiveness won't hesitate to push her away.

I'm not bashing or critisizing Raghav, he's written that way but he needs to grow up now.

She's been an emotional anchor for Raghav for way too long that she's always pushed her own emotional needs to the background. The last conversation in the yellow sari, she was herself shook but still gave him support.

Pallavi will leave this time and he will have to give her the assurance of his love. It was always the other way around, her assuring him she won't leave. Raghav needs to realise her importance in his life. I know he knows but his actions of insulting her or pushing her away of lying to her constantly speak otherwise.

I want to write a more detailed one of comparisons between Raghav and Pallavi but I'm short for time. I love both of them equally and believe their relationship is quite balanced for the most part. I just hope Raghav trusts Pallavi in this track and both stay together.

There are multiple flaws in raghav and none of his wrong actions can ever be justified.. his Anger, lies , hiding ..Nothing can ever be justified..

Just my opinion as a viewer..

Priorities: raghav prioritised pallavi over his self respect when he bowed down to vd to wash his feet just to get pallavi back her family. Yes he was fixing the wrong hr had done to her but the fact remains pallavi inspite of making it clear that she cares two hoots yet he was ready to go to any lengths for her which is what prompted pallavi to let go of her family for his self respect.. it was an action reaction..
raghav in a twisted stupid way went to jail just so that she can get closure.. however idiotic his logic is..

Am not sure how u viewed the mandaar track but the fact was pallavi prioritised her kartavya ( d family) over her pyaar( raghav) when she walked out on raghav indefinitely till mandaar regains his memory. nothing wrong her family after all, she can prioritise..

Am not saying that pallavi has not Prioritised raghav.. its just that the story cant be viewed in terms of priority..

Hurt, insecurity: i think both keep hurting each other. They love each other but undoubtedly hurt each other.. mandaar track and smuggling track both..

Fighting for the relationship: mandaar’s return track is the only track where there was a real Threat and i think it was raghav inspite of all his insecurities understood Pallavi and was patient and kept the marriage afloat when he couldve easily broken it.. in a way he was the one fighting for their relationship.. it was very explictly spelt out by both amma and aai saying keep faith in ur love, things will end soon..

every other track that u have mentioned, they have been on opposite sides but both have never thought of ending their marriage at all.. infact both never even thought of the consequences of their actions impacting their marriage at all..

mandaar accident track: ideally pallavi was against keerthi that could potentially have broken their marriage from both sides.. how can pallavi be married to the man whose family was responsible for her hisbands death nor did raghav think wrongly of her to jeopardise their marriage..both neither raghav nor pallavi nor amma nor keerthi actually thought about the impact on raghvi marriage neither did they talk explicitly about it .. it was treated as just another conflict between husband and wife..

Again keerthi-sunny marriage track: the characters in the story all treated it as just another fight between the couple.. there was nothing threatening that pallavi was fighting to save her marriage in that sense..

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

There are multiple flaws in raghav and none of his wrong actions can ever be justified.. his Anger, lies , hiding ..Nothing can ever be justified..

Just my opinion as a viewer..

Priorities: raghav prioritised pallavi over his self respect when he bowed down to vd to wash his feet just to get pallavi back her family. Yes he was fixing the wrong hr had done to her but the fact remains pallavi inspite of making it clear that she cares two hoots yet he was ready to go to any lengths for her which is what prompted pallavi to let go of her family for his self respect.. it was an action reaction..
raghav in a twisted stupid way went to jail just so that she can get closure.. however idiotic his logic is..

Am not sure how u viewed the mandaar track but the fact was pallavi prioritised her kartavya ( d family) over her pyaar( raghav) when she walked out on raghav indefinitely till mandaar regains his memory. nothing wrong her family after all, she can prioritise..

Am not saying that pallavi has not Prioritised raghav.. its just that the story cant be viewed in terms of priority..

Hurt, insecurity: i think both keep hurting each other. They love each other but undoubtedly hurt each other.. mandaar track and smuggling track both..

Fighting for the relationship: mandaar’s return track is the only track where there was a real Threat and i think it was raghav inspite of all his insecurities understood Pallavi and was patient and kept the marriage afloat when he couldve easily broken it.. in a way he was the one fighting for their relationship.. it was very explictly spelt out by both amma and aai saying keep faith in ur love, things will end soon..

every other track that u have mentioned, they have been on opposite sides but both have never thought of ending their marriage at all.. infact both never even thought of the consequences of their actions impacting their marriage at all..

mandaar accident track: ideally pallavi was against keerthi that could potentially have broken their marriage from both sides.. how can pallavi be married to the man whose family was responsible for her hisbands death nor did raghav think wrongly of her to jeopardise their marriage..both neither raghav nor pallavi nor amma nor keerthi actually thought about the impact on raghvi marriage neither did they talk explicitly about it .. it was treated as just another conflict between husband and wife..

Again keerthi-sunny marriage track: the characters in the story all treated it as just another fight between the couple.. there was nothing threatening that pallavi was fighting to save her marriage in that sense..

See, what we are stressing on is that transparency which partners need to maintain in any marriage.

P is very transparent, she confronts him when needed and tries to clear it .

But he unknowingly hides things from her which can be a potential threat to their marriage.

Originally posted by: partner

Well, im actually loving this track, it's unlike the previous 2 disastrous track of Mandar and Smuggling. I think the writers are doing a good job so far and the pace it's good, the story is moving forward.

But more than that, this will be first time Pallavi will be feeling the pain, the insecurities of losing Raghav.

The previous 2 tracks, we had seen Raghav actually paining for Pallavi, his fear, his insecurities of losing her.

Pallavi was always secure in her relationship with Raghav, never had or faced the fear of losing him.

Now the tables have turn, its Pallavi will need to fight for her Raghav. I really hope there are scenes where Pallavi craved for Raghav attention. We have always seen Raghav wanting her attention, her love, her time to be with him. Raghav wanting him to be her priority, which Pallavi always fail to give.

Hope the writers are good enough to show that relationship requires 2 to work. Raghav has always put his 100%, now it's Pallavi's turn.

Let's look forward for this track and keep enjoying the show.

Raghav knew from day 1 about Mandar who he is where he lived etc and as soon as Mandar arrived she did go out with him bcoz she trusted him being an emotional fool but never saw her not notifying RR about mandar and her whereabouts . Not intentionally atleast . Here RR didn’t even bother to tell her about his ex even when she arrived and right in front of her and you think she needs a payback ? She took a bullet for RRs illegal activities for which she wasn’t even responsible for and you want her to crave for his attention ?

She needs to get the hell outta this mans life should he continue his secrecy with ex business from her . He already did enough damage by hiding the fact about Eashas messages and now if he doesn’t even come clear about this hotel incidents as well he’ll be cheating Pallavi emotionally and yes officially .

Sorry I didn’t mean to argue with you or your POV here but I really don’t think Pallavi did anything to deserve a payback . Thanks 🙏🏻

Originally posted by: Owia

See, what we are stressing on is that transparency which partners need to maintain in any marriage.

P is very transparent, she confronts him when needed and tries to clear it .

But he unknowingly hides things from her which can be a potential threat to their marriage.

I am not advocating for raghav or any of his actions…. infact from the beginning i have always been of the view that pallavi should not even accept raghav as her husband.. plain truth be told.. their moral Compasses, their traits , characteristics ideally are not compatible.. the writers also want to show only that.. atleast till Now..that it is their love for each other that keeps them going.. nothing else.. not only pallavi not only raghav’s.. both their love for each other.. if either of them fall out of love.. one person cannot save the relationship..

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Thanks Sama and Sahu. I tried to bring in a different perspective.

It's funny that even in this track P is getting questionned, jaise R toh kuch galat nai kar sakta...ab bullet se badkar kya ho sakta hai to prove ur love???

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

I am not advocating for raghav or any of his actions…. infact from the beginning i have always been of the view that pallavi should not even accept raghav as her husband.. plain truth be told.. their moral Compasses, their traits , characteristics ideally are not compatible.. the writers also want to show only that.. atleast till Now..that it is their love for each other that keeps them going.. nothing else.. not only pallavi not only raghav’s.. both their love for each other.. if either of them fall out of love.. one person cannot save the relationship..

No one is advocating Raghav or Pallavi here, its just that due to one of them - their relationship is being threatened and that too because of silly reasons.

Hope you understand