Originally posted by: krispy
Bringing the discussion here from the SM thread.
I agree. There is the main issue of trust, but it just won’t and up and about light itself up. Something needs to lead to its value and realization.
I’d rather he try something to get back to normal with Imlie rather than wallowing in the depths of guilt and shame. I just cannot take that Adi and it’s gotten monotonous.
It’s not the right time for a hug, but he needs to know what is at stake if he doesn’t exhibit the trust or gain her trust. It’s a 2 way street. Moreover, if doesn’t move towards Imlie and remains standing alone, our beloved M is there to assert her rights 🤢🐍
No cannot. I don’t want her in Adi’s room either and if there is a chance M is going to bring that up next.
@snowji the one time I did like Adi saying Babusahib is PD3 revelation “toh babusaheb…” this one does seem tacky but again I am in a place where anything by will do but for MC AND AC or insults.
when exactly is that krispy ji? don't remember.
And Adi going after Imlie is nothing new, is it? Him thinking of her 24/7, them finding their way back to each other, Malini ghanta kuch karpaaying to stop them with all she and her mom have, all of these are well-established truths that don't need to be remembered.
"So the guy is trying his level best to remind her as to why she gave him a chance in the first place the way he knows, without wanto to face the fact that what she really wants will need him to actually introspect and connect the dots about the one person he would rather be oblivious towards"
I quote Aps ji above and what she said is totally true. And that is what my problem is. He's doing all this for what? For himself. Not for Imlie or her happiness. Are jo voh clearly maangrahi hai, infact the only thing she's been asking, with tears in her eyes every damn time you have a conversation, you don't want to address that for how long? par ye date ka kya matlab? doing those silly actions to make her smile. why??? I appreciate your effort to make her smile but it would be much more loving if you can acknowledge her feelings. I wanted to wait until we actually listen to what he says but the way Imlie got up and left is clear that he didn't give her what she wanted. Again. How long dude? This is really sad.
Now I want to agree with anikal ji when she said no woman should have a husband like him. I mean, if my husband won't trust me despite me asking him to, and tries to make me smile, that would hurt me even more. Arey I don't want to smile, I want you to trust me. Everything else is trivial. I'd rather have him stay silent and introspect than do all this. But yeah I understand that our ostrich Adi hasn't reached that point where he starts introspecting cuz they never had a total conversation as Imlie was walking away each time. So, I'll wait until this date is over. If he's not gonna start thinking even then, I give up man, this is depressing.
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