Anupama should slap vanraj

I want anupama to give vanraj a tight slap in front of everyone specially baa. And then take her bags and leave that prison for once and for all.

Why the hell she keeps replying to that monster's cheap comments at all? Why does she even stand there and listen to vanraj, kavya, toshu or baa at all? Thats not sanskar at all - its wrong interpretation of what we call as manners and how anupama is proud of keeping her manners intact. Its basic self respect. Prevention is better than cure. Why to even let him talk to her? Why? I can literally understand Anuj's frustration with anupama where she willing lets her abusers stamp on her. 😡

And what did bhavesh gain at all by keeping quiet when his sister was being humiliated? For bapuji he didn't respond - like really?? Every person hearing that cheap rant from vanraj and not responding there and there itself were all to blame. Vanraj will never give any one opportunity to speak - but do you really need his permission to speak up against this utter non-sense? Samar, pakhi, kinjal, nandini, mamaji, - what the yell dif anyone do at home either?? Lending supporting by just saying you are right mummy is never enough - they need to question vanraj. Mamaji needs to literally question him. That rotten brain daughter, pakhi should have questioned vanraj on how dare he treat her mother like this, kinjal should have told its a crime what vanraj is doing to anupama, that rakhi was right about him. Samar should literally give him ultimatum of reporting at police station if vanraj or his gang ever even spoke to his mother. And bapuji's verbal support count for nothing for vanraj, so why doesn't he throw vanraj out of the house and his entire team who supports his crimes.

Only Anuj, Gk & devika are the ones I am glad are showing anupama showing the mirror of her so called parivaar.

Y'all want everyone to speak for Anu. But conveniently forget that when they do, Anu shuts them up herself. Someone who willingly keeps putting herself in abusive environments, you can only fight on their behalf for so long. Considering all that, Samar/Kinjal/Bhavesh still speak a lot more than Anu prefers.

Devika speaks because she's a rebel & hasn't put Anu on a pedestal. Else, Anu has tried to silence Devika many times too. GK & Anuj speak out of naivity. They're new to the situation & don't know how Anu functions.

Also, slapping an aggressive man twice your size is not a sign of bravery. It's stupidity Movies & TV have women believe that they can physically take men down. But Anu will be on the floor in half a second if Vanraj retaliates. 10/10 not recommended unless she has bodyguards around.

Originally posted by: usernameyrkkh

Y'all want everyone to speak for Anu. But conveniently forget that when they do, Anu shuts them up herself. Someone who willingly keeps putting herself in abusive environments, you can only fight on their behalf for so long. Considering all that, Samar/Kinjal/Bhavesh still speak a lot more than Anu prefers.

Devika speaks because she's a rebel & hasn't put Anu on a pedestal. Else, Anu has tried to silence Devika many times too. GK & Anuj speak out of naivity. They're new to the situation & don't know how Anu functions.

Also, slapping an aggressive man twice your size is not a sign of bravery. It's stupidity Movies & TV have women believe that they can physically take men down. But Anu will be on the floor in half a second if Vanraj retaliates. 10/10 not recommended unless she has bodyguards around.

You are right. Anupama is herself the main reason for her suffering.

But also, Anu is a trauma survivor. People who have faced trauma tend to be more afraid of fighting for themselves than for others, and its really the people around them who can help them not by just words but also standing up for them. They aren't hurting anu by standing against vanraj. Anupama's weakness of tolerating constant taunts should not stop her children and elders from doing what is correct. And since vanraj has constantly used mera parivaar as an excuse to dominate anupama, then why can't tht parrivaar speak up for themselves. If not for anu, then will vanraj decide who his family member meets or befriends?

Also, slap doesn't only mean assualt. There are ways of saying no. If even after uncountable requests and warnings, vanraj doesn't stop verbal assaulting, gets in her personal space, then slapping accounts for self defense. And if anu keeps on worrying tht vanraj is double his size, so she mustn't, well in that case, vanraj can anytime assault her physically anytime anyday since he has always been double her size. Vanraj is not a stranger that anu needs to think of consequences. She must show him his place.

That's how I think!!