Misplaced Anger

Vanraj suffers with an acute case of misplaced anger. He often uses this as a coping mechanisn to soothe his raging ego… his constant outbursts on Anu are a result of his aggresive complusive anger disorder.

Anu had been his punching bag for all of those 25 years they were together, he always found it easy and liberating to direct all his negativity towards her, the ever willing scapegoat.

In comes Anuj Kapadia and leaves him high and dry…his favourite or only go to person was no longer available to face his wrath, his fall guy had risen …and how!

Vanraj is so troubled with the changes in Anupama that he can’t find enough reasons to hate Anuj. He just cannot digest the fact that Anu is no longer the timid, naive, imbecile who lacked self-esteem and courage to stand up to his torture.

Anuj was very quick and wise to judge Vanraj’s anger and the reason behind it.. He was pretty convinced about Vanraj’s awful temperament right from their first meeting…Vanraj gave Anuj plenty of reasons to believe that he was a classless, egoistic chauvinist.

This wasnt the first time that Vanraj had hinted on MaAn having an illicit relationship but Anuj had let it go then and kept calm for Anu’s sake but now that Anu had opened up to him about her grievances against Vanraj, Anuj had no reason to hold back and out came all that bottled up frustration.

Though Anuj tried to reason out the timing and acceptance of his business proposal Vanraj refused to understand anything as expected and slandered MaAn openly.

How quickly it went from Vanraj addressing Anuj as Mr. Kapadia to ‘tu’ in a matter of a few glares and the irony of Vanraj accusing him of khullam khulla and besharmi when he’s far more guilty on both accounts.

The way MaAn yelled MR. SHAH!!! in sync was reason enough for Vanraj to know that he’s lost it all and that bout of misplaced anger was his only way out.

What I don’t understand k Baa and Kavya uparse usako hawa laga rahe. Itna bhi common sense nahi hai k jobless ho gaya to Anu k mehrbani pe jina padega family ko. Real life me aise characters bhi hote hai kya🤨🤔

His allegations sound so stupid, though 🤪There would be nothing 'illicit' about MaAn even if they chose to get together. They're both singles in their 40s.

Also, can't imagine Vanraj suddenly thinking a desirable man would go out of his way to bed Anu. He himself had admitted that while he thought Anu was beautiful initially, she had become undesirable now. Like he stopped 'touching' her after Pakhi's conception, couldn't even stand her hands on him. So in Vanraj's head, why would a hot multimillionaire want to pataao a masala daani? 🤡

He feels or rather knows Anuj still harbours feelings towards Anu and he also knows for a fact that Anuj is this perfect person unlike him it's the inferior complex somewhere in his subconscious which is why he is getting irritated and showing it through anger still wants to use anu as a punching bag but is unable to do so rather he s at times used as a punching bag by kavya

Now I know why pakhi is this confused aatma got it from her dad v is also one confused aatma doesn't know what he's doing why he's doing and what does he act want and what's his actual problem .

Leela knows only one thing my beta always right I mean even I have a son and if he talks some bs about a girl even if tis true I'd give him one tight slap

When you are in anger esp for a person like v . He becomes the opposite of Gandhiji ka teen bandar

Kuch bhi boldo .kuch bhi dekhlo sunlo samajh leta hain woh toh .

No wonder when Anuj pointed out regd the letter he didn't listen .

Kabya words is gonna become true he is gonna come begging to them . Self respect mein aur ego main bohat fark hota hai.

Aaj panja ladta toh definitely Anuj uska haath todega.

Loved maan acting today the break down was portrayed brilliantly ni cliche again . I'm so 🙀 and in a way disappointed they don't show my cliches 😂😂😂.

Loved fierce anu I know she won't leave house as long as kids and babuji mamji are there for me she turning deaf ear to all their taunts is enough. Considering Vanya baa as invisible is enough for a start stop cooking for them obviously they will taunt waise bhi thry do it again.

Anu u should first start drawing boundaries . Else u have to keep drinking thr poison for family

What a strong episode indeed.

Look, I don't know what will happen as precaps often are clickbaity but today's episode had these two screaming Freedom in all ways. Anupama engulfed and caged in her bubble over the ruckus Vanraj created. Anuj trying to motivate her with complete sanity yet feeling tormented himself.

Kudos to all the actors who made this episode possible.

I still don’t understand what Vanraj means by “meri family”.. he only has one under age kid .. all other members of his family are adults who are allowed to meet and make relationships with Anuj - free will Nahi suna hoga..

Other than Pakhi, how does he expect to control anyone else? It’s not like he earns and funds them either.. ulta hein. Baa will do her mera beta jaap.. and Toshu is his clone, but Kavya bhi nahi sambhalne waali.. tho kaunsi family se door rakhega Anuj ko,,

On top of that - why did he make it seem like it was a bog loss to Anuj when he tore the offer letter.. arrey - employment offer tha.. koi rishta nahi bheja .. Anuj aur AK ventures ko koi farak nahi padegi.. balki unemployed V and K ka nuksan hein..

Only if he accepted that...his entire thought process is so irrational.

Originally posted by: fan_fiction123

What I don’t understand k Baa and Kavya uparse usako hawa laga rahe. Itna bhi common sense nahi hai k jobless ho gaya to Anu k mehrbani pe jina padega family ko. Real life me aise characters bhi hote hai kya🤨🤔

they dont think of it as meherbani, they think its their right over Anu to expect her services while they continue to taunt her shamelessly...jis din unku ye ehsaas ho gaya toh show bandh ho jayega😆

Originally posted by: naina_raina

I still don’t understand what Vanraj means by “meri family”.. he only has one under age kid .. all other members of his family are adults who are allowed to meet and make relationships with Anuj - free will Nahi suna hoga..

Other than Pakhi, how does he expect to control anyone else? It’s not like he earns and funds them either.. ulta hein. Baa will do her mera beta jaap.. and Toshu is his clone, but Kavya bhi nahi sambhalne waali.. tho kaunsi family se door rakhega Anuj ko,,

On top of that - why did he make it seem like it was a bog loss to Anuj when he tore the offer letter.. arrey - employment offer tha.. koi rishta nahi bheja .. Anuj aur AK ventures ko koi farak nahi padegi.. balki unemployed V and K ka nuksan hein..

Well said dear