Unlike everyone I didn't like pakhi in today's episode - Page 3

Originally posted by: moonwearer

A very different perspective has been put forth and absolutely true. She didn't mince words and as k Ed him straight away if he still liked her mummy. She starts off with hesitant but in time warms up and hugs Anuj much to the chagrin of her dad, thank you for this stand point.

Thanks for understanding my point. Yes she is straight forward and i think Anuj also likes her straightforwardness. tabhi to friendship offer ki😊

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

I notice the same , Anuj pakhi ko apne tareeke se bahot smartly handle kar raha tha! I like that part !

I like to add one more point , after seen pakhi since day 1 of this show , I always felt pakhi is cunning and sharp not just selfish!

The way she directly asked Anuj about his feelings for anupama was gutsy act and sharp analysis of pakhi for Anuj that’s why she directly asked the question! As I said she is cunning too ! She is appreciating Anuj anupama’s friendship because firstly she is teenager and not regressive like other members who feels mummyo ke dost nahi hote! And second thing agar mummy successful banti hai and mummy ka Anuj Kapadia jaisa dost hoga toh pakhi ke social circle mai she can flaunt it in front of her friends!

Agar same Anuj Kapadia itna successful nahi hota , itna modern nahi hota , itna prestigious name nahi hota society mai toh shayad pakhi ne Aj jaise uske sath friendship kiya hai I doubt waisa woh karti !

She likes Anuj from beginning . Yes she is not a regressive soch wali and social circle mein flaunt to karegi. She even said to Anuj aap bahup ache hai i really like u a nd that hug 😳

Originally posted by: SAMEERA008

Me also.....but I think Anupma & Samar leave Shah house and the financial condition of Vanraj is bad and jaise pakhi Anupma ko Shah house chodkr. Vanraj or Kavya ke yahan arhne gayi thi because of fulfill our wishes ......she think papa hi meri wishes puri kr sakte hai.....I think in coming episodes I see pakhi shift to Anupma's home for fulfill our wishes

I so wish Pakhi Anupaman ke saath shift ho jaaye.

Originally posted by: sushups

A girl sees her mother humiliated every single at home will that girl like it....please ladies out here tell me if u ever see how anu is disrespected , humiliated n made to cry every single day ur mother too face the same will u say what she said today to anuj....while her father is enjoying his martial bliss n her mother is alone....I get it she is a teenager usse samjh nahi ayega akele pan ke bare mein how alone is her mother n how her father moved on with a partner but baizati toh samjh ati hai naa...n I m sorry anuj but u r wrong here ...this is selfishness...u have not seen how much she is insulted n treated like low servant everyday,tumne sirf devika se suna hai aur 10% dekha hai..not seen all....we all here don't have any relationship with Anupama but we too r triggered when Anupama is humiliated n hate it to core but uski khudki beti pe koi asar nahi...woh hass hass kar apne papa se aise baat karti hai jaise uske papa anu ke saath sahi karte hai....main nahi keh rahi apne papa se baat na karo but when he is trash talking to her mother can't she speak up.....bas fayede lene boldo....meri mumma papa ki bhi ladai hoti hai ..but if my father does anything wrong I immediately stand in front of him telling him he is wrong ....par yaha toh character assassination humiliation aur pata nahi kya kya kar raha hai woh uski maa ke saath...main aisa kabhi bardasht nahi karti

N I tell u this girl will be biggest hindrance in our dream to see Anupama out of shah family....woh hone nahi degi...aur vanraj usi ka istemaal karega to keep Anupama in check n under the same roof🤬😡😡😡😡😡

Totally agree with this. Pakhi sees her mom being humilated by baa and Vanraj, she has seen her mom shedding tears after the humiliation, just few hours ago too. What sort of child would still feel that her mom must continue to experience this on a daily basis?😕 Only a sadist would wish that, IMO

She is in her teens, and is old enough to understand that it is just bizzare for her dad and her mom to live under the same roof after a divorce.

Goes back to the root of the problem - bapuji who has emotionally blackmailed her mom to stay & Anupama for giving into the blackmail.

In general, kids are the ones who are more impacted in a divorce. That is why couples think and delibrate much before signing on the dotted line. Once that is done, everyone needs to understand the repercussions of it and learn to accept it. It will be hard for kids, they wont understand why parents cant just work it out. But, will eventually understand. In this case, we are not talking about a small child, but it is a stubborn, selfish adolescent who is at the cusp of adulthood.

There is no doubt, Pakhi will be the thorn in Anuj-Anupama relationship.... if & when it happens.😲

Exactly sush pakhi koe 10 years ki nahi hai 16 years ki hai wo sab dekhti aur samajti bhi hai ke uski maa ke sath kya ho raha hai par wo itni selfish hai ke sab kuch jante samajte hue bhi wo Anupama ko support nahi karna chahti 😡🤢

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

I second you dear. I too did not like pakhi's convo with anuj

Teenage excuse and all let it be on one side. But as u said can't she see her mother being humiliated every single day by her own father her grandmother her so called bestie??

She has never taken a stand for her mother but when it comes to being against her mother she happily joins with her bestie and insults her mother and gets back to her mother when she realises her so called bestie has betrayed her. I mean get a grip girl. Try to understand things. Woh itna bhi choti bacchi nahi hai ki she cld not understand what all her mother is going through.

And i feel (not only for anupamaa but generally for all women out there) ultimately it is anupama's life and her decision to do what she wants in her life.

U know what somehow this basic right to live their own life to take their own decisions r being stolen from mothers by all of us. We expect them to live for us till their last breath while we live our own life acc to our own wishes. We expect them to make sacrifices for us by not prioritising themselves while we prioritise our happiness first.

It is high time pakhi realises ANUPAMAA HAS HER OWN LIFE TO LIVE AND SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO DO SO. SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE HER HAPPINESS AND PRIORITISE HERSELF FIRST. it is 100% right and i say this strongly.

Pakhi cannot expect her mum to be all alone all her life and live with her ex husband under the same roof where she is being humiliated and her wings r being clipped off every single day by that same disgusting ex husband of hers and her ex saas .

Whether to be alone or have a life partner it is wholly upto anu to decide.

Pakhi saying my dad has made mistakes. Pls pakhi. Stop saying it is a mistake. That man

1.had an Extra marital affair for 8 years

2. Did not have the courage to lose his unpaid servant in the name of his wife for his domestic needs and to look after his parents and children so hid his affair

3. Upar se treated anu like a slave and harassed her mentally everyday

4. Disrespected her at every single turn

5. Used her just as a wife material to bear children but never gave her the respect and love as a wife

6. Clipped off her wings by stopping her education and chaining her to kitchen

7. Did not speak up when his mom insulted anupamaa 24x7 . Wait oh yes he was the prime one in insulting his wife how wld he stop his mom from insulting her .. 🙄🙄

8. Such a male chauvinist who always wanted anupamaa to be under his feet and trample her whenever he wanted to do so. 😠😠

9. Never ever gave respect to the wedding vows taken with her and treated her poorly

10. Turned his own kids against their own mother and supported them in disrespecting her and calling her a loser. (Wonder how ppl call him an ideal father🤢)

Some things might seem trivial but underneath it lies HUGE RESPECT ISSUES. And anu never got the respect as a wife , as a mother ,as a daughter in law, not even as a human being.

So pakhi pls stop being selfish for heaven's sake and let ur mom decide her future.

Pakhi ke aisi halat ke zimedaar puri family hai...n they say the surrounding matter for a kid but does pakhi have only one surrounding...hum apne teenage mein ghar se zyada apne school mein time spend karte hai ....tell me what do u think does every classmate has mother mistreated like her mother is ....no right then why is she not picking that up from peers ....mummy pe ghussa nikalna peers se sikh liya lekin yeh nahi seekha ki agar koi bhi apki mummy ko insult kare toh apko bura lagna chahiye ...

In reality girls with family like pakhis also manifest partners like vanraj in later stage of their life who r abusive n toxic ....kyunki apne as relationship wahi dekha hai apne life mein ...aur saalo ki therapy lag jati hai to build ur boundaries ....but yeh baate yaha highlight nahi hogi

Yeh log Krishna bhakt hone ka dhindora peet te hai but krishna ki koi teachings se inka lena dena nahi hai

Krishna said pyaar karo but moh mat karo....

Unhone yeh bhi kaha hai ki bache ki sundar bhavishya ka nirman karne ke bajaye unka charitra nirmaan karo

N see how pakhi is ...super duper materialistic to the point where nothing else matter ( being materialistic is not bad but when it's beyond a line it's terrible )....charita toh hai hi nahi .....kissi cheez ki value nahi ....

Bado se baat karne ki tameez nahi....

Yes she is quiet since her function fiasco but isn't that the nature of pakhi ...kuch ho jaye after that kuch din chup rehti hai but uske baad phir iski nautanki shuru ho jati hai....

N teenage issue my foot ....if u have a teenager u try to explain in loving way to them but yeh log toh bachi hai bachi hai bolkar iski galtiyon pe aisa parda dalte gaye ki iski problem ghaas se paed bangayi

Aur yeh maine pehle bhi bola hai ki vanraj was a good provider but he was never a good father ....sanskaar dena father ka bhi kaam hota hai sirf maa ka nahi ...aur agar woh bacho ko sanskar na de saka ...jo apne ego ko satisfy karne ke liye aur unki maa ke against karne ke liye apne bache tak ko bigadne se peeche nahi chuka woh kabhi acha baap nahi tha

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I didn’t like Paakhi one bit either. Her dad the nasty can bring another woman home and her mom has to bear that but is not allowed to fall in love with another or move out of the house. Anupama is not a good mother is the conclusion I have arrived at, 2 out of 3 of her children are selfish, self centered individuals.

Originally posted by: magicalM

Pakhi us dance competition ke baad se apna mother ka side le rahi hai .

Very negative comments are here for Pakhi. Agar kisi ne dance competition ke baad se Anupama follow kiya hai to pata hoga uske baad se she is taking her mother side. par iska matlat ye to nahi ki wo apne father se bilkul pyaar na kare sorry but she is not Samar . I really liked her conversation with Anuj today and she admits in front of him that she is selfish par wo kya kare and Anuj also understands her . Only she can see that Anuj still loves her mummy. I find Samar more kiddish🤢 She said she really likes Anuj and that hug between them is like he caress her.

I find some similarities between Pakhi and Anuj - Anuj notices that Anupama ne bhi uske jaise hi colour pehna hai. After that Pakhi also said about colour coordination. Anuj always said i am so proud of Anupama and today Pakhi said i am so proud of her. Anuj also said once to GK Vanraaj bura aadmi nahi hai and today Pakhi said mere papa bure insaan nahi hai.

Agar kisi ne aaj ka episode theek se notice kiya ho to usme Anuj bhi Pakhi ko apne tareeke se handle kar rha tha with softness like tum maanti ho ki tumhaari mummy ko ek dost ki zaroorat hai. He even said u r trully ur Mom's daughter😛jab use Hindi samajh nahi aayi. Anuj must be thinking kya ajeeb situation hai maa ko English samjajh nahi aati aur beti ko Hindi🤣🤣Agar Pakhi ko Anuj and Anu ek saath itne bure lagte to wo Mumbai trip pe hungama create karti aur usne to yahan tak kaha ki business ke kaaran oversees bhi jaan pad sakta hai😳I truly adore Anuj and Pakhi friendship now😉 Anuj also admits that Pakhi aur uske beech understanding and compatibility hai.

Aur jahan log dost hote hai waha dost ek doosre pe gussa bhi karte hai to i am prepare ki kahi agar Pakhi galat hui to Anuj use scold karne se nahi chukega as ab wo uski friend bhi hai.

Exactly buddy . Totally agree with what u said. ❤these ppl instead of making her learn r just spoiling her more.

Devika said na 'toshu shld start seeing anu as an individual' same applies to pakhi and others too. They shld see anu as an individual person and realise she has her own life too to live . She just cannot be someone's mummy and daughter all the time 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

Exactly buddy . Totally agree with what u said. ❤these ppl instead of making her learn r just spoiling her more.

Devika said na 'toshu shld start seeing anu as an individual' same applies to pakhi and others too. They shld see anu as an individual person and realise she has her own life too to live . She just cannot be someone's mummy and daughter all the time 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Bigaad kar rakha hai pakhi ko inhone yeh real world mein 2 min bhi nahi tik payegi... individual person sochna toh durr ki baat hai ...can they just consider her as human being first...aur woh usse individual nahi samjhte hain isme galti anu ki bhi hai...anu humesha kehti hai ki acha hona aur payedaan hone mein farak hai par madam aap toh actual mein payedan ho especially apne bacho ke liye .