Hum Aapse Naaraaz Hain - Page 16

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Originally posted by: FlowerHater

Awwieee🤗

Kaafi logo ka dukh h ye 😆

kab iss bandaa ka brain vacation se bapas ayegaaa🥺

Originally posted by: raaz19

🏕 back to rant later 😆

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Thank you for the lovely post Nim 🤗

I have finally managed the watch the episode and although everyone is sick to the core with the whole drag of the pregnancy track one message stood out pretty clearly today and one I think Aps mentioned last week as well in her beautiful post of parallels.

That love without conversation is impossible. Imlie anger at Aditya came to fruition even more so today then it has been the last few episodes. People whom have been saying that she is jealous, insecure or worried have finally been shown that her anger Aditya is at lack of faith in letting her in. She loves him both physically and mentally and she openly said that they the viewers and that is why she is willing to stay. Her leaving is out of the question until he wills her too or she needs to because that is is the only option left.

She knows they love each other and have always found there path go another through there silences yet today that is even void because in the past there was trust but today imlie is not sure if that is still there and hence her anger. I love that the makers have shown this in there bond compared to Maline for if she had been in this situation she would have played victim and ran away.

The acceptance of love is easy but understanding what your partner needs and then acting upon it is equally important and how this is communicated is part of that love. Imie showed maturity in this today when she went after Maline. Accepting the baby and the pooja that came with it even if she desired time with Aditya. And this is what Aparna was trying guide her towards as well. After all is any sort of bond we create centred around relationships may that start from friendship and end in marriage. The love we gather only tends the grow as they talk through these emotions and wishes. That’s what I found Imlie was asking through her anger when she wanted to work out were she stood in his journey, his dreams and them. She knows he keeps telling her has a place but sometimes he needs to own it too without fear of hurting Maline.

We can see them suffocating but it’s like she said last week he is bound by another responsibility but it doesn’t mean he cannot share himself with her as he does at the Maline at the moment. He can ask her to wait and explain the boundaries he wishes to maintain know that we now the baby may be real.
Her asking if he will ever believe her again was not her faith weakening in my eyes it was more of a courage’s move one were she showed him in no terms she will not be walking on eggshells or be in denial of what is happening just because he believes Maline. She has challenged his feelings of trust in the open and that why I loved it when she gave him the cold shoulder. She was true to herself. As he was teaching her once again to live with out him which he has fought so hard to change.

So we can see the shift even if small in there scene that the issue is not of commitment it’s one of how much are they willing to compromise to reduce the distance. She needs him to be consistent with what he is saying and doing for her to understand them and most of all him. For me that was the highlight episode.

As Maline has never offered him this emotion support because it was alway boxed away with control and emotional blackmail of him not caring.it was alway about her but whereas in them they both are willing to jump a leap to hold the other together in this storm. This is why Maline plan keeps failing for more she will seek his attention the further he shall seek Imlie out and this is why her not smiling mattered because he knew he is wrong for keeping her away.

For the rest I have not much to say as it’s the same old. They all seem split on whom the support but I loved that PT stood his ground calling the mistakes made by Maline mother for what they are. He is aware of his son emotional dilemma and imlie and voiced it out for what it was. How can she be forgiven her bk cannot move past his grudge. Shows you that the family is willing to pretend that all is still okay when it’s not.

Will say this thank god for nani whom is still not willing to mince her words and calls the shadow of darkness for what she really is 🤣🤣

I do hope if and when they talk imlie ask him why he left her out for so long. And challenges him as she did today to justify what he did without thinking of himself or them.

Plus the pregnancy has become a 🤣🤣 for it has only proven Maline obsession and once again the truth that she cannot handle her dreams being shattered.

That’s my rambling over hope it makes sense 🤣

Even after this I still feel there is more then meets the eye and i hope Aditya is watching Maline more closer for she is likely to make a mistake sooner or later 😆

Aww... Raaz love how you have explained about today's epi. 🤗

+ 100 bold

Adilie's usp has been their understanding of eo as they are so in sync, can read the other very well.

They have always expressed their feelings be it one of frustration or happiness or emotions and this is no different.

Imlie has decided to speak up and not hold back her emotions or hurt now, speaking her mind so that her baibuddhi of pati understands what she is going through.

I can relate to the scenes aired on Mon better now..

Adi left Imlie to get return home from the debate at the college, took M at her word.. and Imlie sailed through. she made it home safely using her wits. Adi has mentioned to Imlie earlier that he wont be around all the time to help her or rescue her. So it is a test for both, when Imlie came home by navigating the streets of Delhi maintaining her innocence on the ladies of the night.

Adi was bound to M... earlier by choice, now by force and the news of the baby. His sense of responsibility is at the forefront of his decision and his attention is being diverted or split due to the same. Him wanting to communicate the same and also reassure Imlie of her place in his life is of utmost importance to him. This is uncharted territory for them both and need to be in unison to tackle this situation, they find themselves in. By giving the decision making rights to her, shows his implicit trust in her decision making ability, in doing the right thing, even if it is wrong for them as a couple...right for the family or fight for justice.

Adi in many ways is slowly expanding the wings beneath her, to fly and all of this is so subtle that it is mostly overlooked in the neg arc of the track. He pushed her to find the proof, fight for justice even when everyone is against you, learn to take what is rightfully yours, all the lines he mentioned in PD3, during the Pythagorus lesson comes to mind.

He is teaching her to fly by being a good partner while he himself is getting caged and bound by the chains of his previous relationship, that is stifling and suffocating him.

They will need eo as anchors to hold onto, the times are tough and will find their way back to eo. She clearly stated that he is imp to her and anyone that is part of his life is equally imp to her as well. Just a gentle reminder to Adi, who may go ballistic on seeing Mithi being reduced to a Sr naukrani at the C house today.

Such posts n analysis are making it more tolerable and get a dose of positivity.

Originally posted by: opsora2090

kab iss bandaa ka brain vacation se bapas ayegaaa🥺

More I think about it - what if Adi knows Malini is pregnant by someone else’s child before the trial? And he did it to protect the child - not his child! Malini is more than capable of hoisting another’s child on Adi. Adi’s behavior is unfathomable! So looking for all possible scenarios 🙂 If baby was not his and he knew it prior to deletion of video then he has a reason to be magnanimous and not spoil his integrity as well!

If he thought it was his - he cannot be as comfortable with her as he is right now? Can he?

Why is there no discomfort about the fact that he and M are going to have a baby? He is behaving like things like this happen everyday!

Originally posted by: nim_var

Aww... Raaz love how you have explained about today's epi. 🤗

+ 100 bold

Adilie's usp has been their understanding of eo as they are so in sync, can read the other very well.

They have always expressed their feelings be it one of frustration or happiness or emotions and this is no different.

Imlie has decided to speak up and not hold back her emotions or hurt now, speaking her mind so that her baibuddhi of pati understands what she is going through.

I can relate to the scenes aired on Mon better now..

Adi left Imlie to get return home from the debate at the college, took M at her word.. and Imlie sailed through. she made it home safely using her wits. Adi has mentioned to Imlie earlier that he wont be around all the time to help her or rescue her. So it is a test for both, when Imlie came home by navigating the streets of Delhi maintaining her innocence on the ladies of the night.

Adi was bound to M... earlier by choice, now by force and the news of the baby. His sense of responsibility is at the forefront of his decision and his attention is being diverted or split due to the same. Him wanting to communicate the same and also reassure Imlie of her place in his life is of utmost importance to him. This is uncharted territory for them both and need to be in unison to tackle this situation, they find themselves in. By giving the decision making rights to her, shows his implicit trust in her decision making ability, in doing the right thing, even if it is wrong for them as a couple...right for the family or fight for justice.

Adi in many ways is slowly expanding the wings beneath her, to fly and all of this is so subtle that it is mostly overlooked in the neg arc of the track. He pushed her to find the proof, fight for justice even when everyone is against you, learn to take what is rightfully yours, all the lines he mentioned in PD3, during the Pythagorus lesson comes to mind.

He is teaching her to fly by being a good partner while he himself is getting caged and bound by the chains of his previous relationship, that is stifling and suffocating him.

They will need eo as anchors to hold onto, the times are tough and will find their way back to eo. She clearly stated that he is imp to her and anyone that is part of his life is equally imp to her as well. Just a gentle reminder to Adi, who may go ballistic on seeing Mithi being reduced to a Sr naukrani at the C house today.

Such posts n analysis are making it more tolerable and get a dose of positivity.

My favourite bits have been highlighted in bold 🤗 and I cannot agree more Nim this is why we comeback each episode for its such subtle points that wills us to root for there love story some more. Love like there’s is divine because it anchor hope that we all secretly wish to empower.

As they have shown within the multiple nde and misunderstandings with each setback they have learnt to fall in love once again and when they rise with such will that not even a Phoenix can control then whom is Maline. Sita Maya gave us the indication at the start when Imlie hand was coloured by mehndi and her maang was filled with sindoor as the winds willed. He was her person to love even if it meant she has to battle. He has in this whole track been consistent with his love for her because it has not reduced but actually his angst and longing has steered him forward to reassure her he wants to let her in and needs to. That moment on the step was symbolic in so many ways then one. By allowing her to make the decisions like you said he is allowing her and them to grow. The movie promo may have been ff worth for some but it did mention a valid point that love that is meant to be shall find it easy home no matter how long the journey and wait is. 😊

The fact that Imlie wait is getting longer and Aditya homed in on the point of the date going if happens soon showed that he fear there love is fading. He fears the distance is getting longer due to the priorities changing with the child in play and it’s impact on the love they hold. In a roundabout way he has once again shown us that he fears he may lose her soon if he doesn’t let her in to what lay in his heart. This is why he is unable to see her sad and figure out how to make her smile because he himself is at a loss of how the fix mess he has created. He knows it’s not impossible but he needs to make time for it to happen.

He is struggling to balance that role and I do see him figuring it out soon.

Everyone is focusing on how the story became but I am more focused on how this will end. How they shall become and the memories they shall build with it. That’s why I love when imlie told him with pride that he, his child and his values are important to her and she wants to support him no matter what. That building of love is so hard to find and this is why even with all the darkness Aditya sees her home in him.

And the boldest of truth that today has shown which is a nice parallel when comparing Maline love to Imlie is that she believes in physically owning Aditya whereas Imlie love is based upon emotions. You can see that imlie views him for the man he is and Maline sees him as a commodity to flaunt. The lack of interest in the baby and well being of the child is proof of it.

That’s why when most people look for the physical side of there love in that moment for me I could see or I believe the makers were trying to show that in truth as we get to know the person more intimately as Aditya and Imlie have grown emotionally they have started to see each other flaws with it. The fact that there is darkness doesn’t mean one should jump ship because she didn’t like what she saw or felt and that’s what imlie did when she stayed. Even when she was disappointed in his heart her own kindness and patient has allowed her to stay strong and physically and mentally be with him and grow rather then serving him she chooses to walk by him.

That’s the point the whole scene once again between the battle of choice v acceptance and control v faith. Maline will alway focus on building her relationships on control to fail whereas imlie will rise with the love she showers.

There live is messy but there is love form which they are learning to grow there roots once more.
There a team even when they both feel there are alone.

Before I end this little ramble I loved your post too give me hope for little miracles today 😆 for we need all the positivity we can get 🤗

Originally posted by: nim_var

Caps:

1. At the breakfast table - Adi

1a - Imlie at the breakfast table

2. When Imlie announces her decision that it is a good idea for all to attend the puja

3. A convo at the front door

4. Adi trying to explain

5. Imlie saying her - Hum aapse Naaraz hain dialogue that was hitting the nail on the head

6. Adi's promise of another date, just the 2 of them.. let us see if it actually happens..

7. Imlie walking away while Adi is staring after her...

8 Nishu teasing Adi who is looking at Imlie seated in the other car
9 Adi wants to bring a smile to Imlie's face and yearns to see her smile

10 Precap when Adi sees Meethi his saasuma serving them all..while Anu is gloating as usual

The last one is what we need to see….BS blasting AC