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Originally posted by: mishtypie

I will tell about myself. I'm 28 years old, working. I thought our community doesn't differentiate between men and women but I was wrong. Last year I said no to a proposal because I was not ready to get married so it was made as big issue and I had to bear the heat some how things went normal. But then the lady who got that proposal informed my mom that the guy is getting married so again I'm facing the heat. And I was told by mother that girl should never tell no to proposal because it hurts the other party. Then what about girl will she not get hurt???

I was attracted to Sai Joshi's character because some where I see myself in her. How she is fighting for herself and how she is questioning the society. Why is it so difficult for girls to achieve their dreams??? Sai is a victim of this so called society. She was forced to get married because there is no one to take care of her. Then she was again forced to change her name but she took the stand for herself and I'm happy that virat supported her. But what about the support when she needed him the most??? Virat tells that he is sorted and mature one with patience and thinks from his mind then why can't he digest a no from a 19 old who doesn't have any knowledge romantic relation. She clarified many times that she and ajinkya are just friends but he got so pissed off and character assassinated when he saw her with ajinkya. Then he blamed his anger issues made him react like that. But doesn't he trust Sai?? Don't he know that Sai will not do anything like that?? He can talk to his ex and can go to cafe to meet her up but when it comes to Sai why such hypocrisy??

That's the norm and truth of the society, someone has to adjust to be in a relationship, that someone is inevitably a girl. Boys mostly have a leverage for doing whatever they want to do. Somewhere most of the women are victims of society, there are compromises, hardships in one way or the other.

Virat's patience fizzles in front of Sai, it's the haq, the relationship, the age gap, the zimmedaari factor, that gives him leeway to behave a certain way with her. With others, he has to be restrained, for the lack of that close relationship which he shares with Sai as his wife.

It's his insecurity that made him do what he did with Ajinkya and Sai. Didi could be around him, talk to him in a nighty but imagine Sai doing so... He could meet Didi in cafe, hold hands because his sach is different than Didi's sach or Sai's sach, it's his haalaat and they should understand that without him actually explaining him, especially to Sai. Most importantly, there is this gender difference between him being man and her being the girl where girls will be questioned if they do bare minimum, like having friends but men actually have that much liberty where all their actions can be somehow justified.

Originally posted by: nikita05

Perfectly written 👍

This self absorbent nature can be seen in tumhe tumhara sach pata hoga, mera sach ye hai, to both Sai and Pakhi. It's like his feelings matter. He has moved on from Pakhi, so it doesn't matter to him what her intentions are in being sweet to Samrat. That's why, when Sai tells about the intentions behind pooja he is like mai sab samajh raha hu par baat Abhi vo hai hi nahi.

Also one more instance during ousting night, when Sai comes home after Devi's wedding and knocks the door, rings the bell and calls out people to open the door, you can see his expressions when she calls out aai, UM, Shivani bua, Mohit to open the door, it's like why doesn't she call my name, if she calls my name I'll surely open the gate, something like that.

Originally posted by: nikita05

That's the norm and truth of the society, someone has to adjust to be in a relationship, that someone is inevitably a girl. Boys mostly have a leverage for doing whatever they want to do. Somewhere most of the women are victims of society, there are compromises, hardships in one way or the other.

Virat's patience fizzles in front of Sai, it's the haq, the relationship, the age gap, the zimmedaari factor, that gives him leeway to behave a certain way with her. With others, he has to be restrained, for the lack of that close relationship which he shares with Sai as his wife.

It's his insecurity that made him do what he did with Ajinkya and Sai. Didi could be around him, talk to him in a nighty but imagine Sai doing so... He could meet Didi in cafe, hold hands because his sach is different than Didi's sach or Sai's sach, it's his haalaat and they should understand that without him actually explaining him, especially to Sai. Most importantly, there is this gender difference between him being man and her being the girl where girls will be questioned if they do bare minimum, like having friends but men actually have that much liberty where all their actions can be somehow justified.

Well said. Some where he is affected by the age gap as well. And I think as per his mind set he can do what ever he wants with Sai because she is his wife and he will justify his actions by telling you are always angry or short tempered and blah. Even during accident track he told you should have listened to me and talked with me. We could have sat some where and clarified but you didn't listen to me. Seriously he was so pissed off and was not ready to listen to her or Ajinkya's side of part but expected her to listen to him🤢. I so want Sai to divorce him but again I'm damn sure he will cook up something else and put all the blame on her

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Exactly he least cares about other feelings. And he immediately spoiled the letter after reading meri pyari aai because he got to know even the letter she left is for his mother not for him. Had he is not interested to read her letter he would have teared it without reading too but he read the letter & understood it is not for him hence the anger increased to next level. When he got to know she cancelled his transfer for family his monologue was she cancelled my tranfer without informing me that too not for herself but for family. Ideally he should have been happy thinking sai as a ideal bahu thought about his family instead he got angry because she stopped him for family not for herself.

I did put this point in some other topic. As soon as he saw meri pyaari aai he was so pissed off. It is always I me and myself and bhaad main jaaye sab.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Exactly he least cares about other feelings. And he immediately spoiled the letter after reading meri pyari aai because he got to know even the letter she left is for his mother not for him. Had he is not interested to read her letter he would have teared it without reading too but he read the letter & understood it is not for him hence the anger increased to next level. When he got to know she cancelled his transfer for family his monologue was she cancelled my tranfer without informing me that too not for herself but for family. Ideally he should have been happy thinking sai as a ideal bahu thought about his family instead he got angry because she stopped him for family not for herself.

Exactly, for him, she is 'His' 'Sai Virat Chavan'. She should be Sai Virat Chavan, the perfect bahu, but less perfect than his biwi. He should be her whole world. Transfer drama too escalated for the same reason that it was done for the family. Lock-up drama too was for her to make her listen to him, all that disciplining her started when she said that he lost all his husbandly rights on her. He can't take it at all.

She can be Sai Joshi for the rest of the world. And now that she chose to offend the Virat Chavan and face the world as Sai Joshi, bruised his ego, he got hurt and wished her hardships.

Pakhi, even Bhavani, Sonali kaku understands all this, hence try to use it against Sai.

In Pulkit lunch drama also it was same that you will not go because I am telling you so.

Ousting also was so brutal because he realised that when he was busy romancing her, trying to tell her his feelings, she was actually not there 100%, had some other plans, her attention was divided.

Originally posted by: mishtypie

Well said. Some where he is affected by the age gap as well. And I think as per his mind set he can do what ever he wants with Sai because she is his wife and he will justify his actions by telling you are always angry or short tempered and blah. Even during accident track he told you should have listened to me and talked with me. We could have sat some where and clarified but you didn't listen to me. Seriously he was so pissed off and was not ready to listen to her or Ajinkya's side of part but expected her to listen to him🤢. I so want Sai to divorce him but again I'm damn sure he will cook up something else and put all the blame on her

True, he always has his reasons to behave a certain way which can always be suited to his version of thoughts. Now too whatever he did, he did right in his mind. That's the reason proper redemption is never shown, it's always about guit and tears which soon get forgotten and everything is repeated again. I don't want divorce but atleast a 6 months separation where both are totally cut off from each other, for self introspection.

Originally posted by: mishtypie

I did put this point in some other topic. As soon as he saw meri pyaari aai he was so pissed off. It is always I me and myself and bhaad main jaaye sab.

With Sai this thing increases to the tenth power. Tai informed him, he didn't bother, hence asked kal kal laga rakha hai, aa gaya tumhara kal. He wanted to know about her plans from her mouth. He can't take it that she has given up on him or he lost the husbandly rights on her.

Originally posted by: nikita05

Exactly, for him, she is 'His' 'Sai Virat Chavan'. She should be Sai Virat Chavan, the perfect bahu, but less perfect than his biwi. He should be her whole world. Transfer drama too escalated for the same reason that it was done for the family. Lock-up drama too was for her to make her listen to him, all that disciplining her started when she said that he lost all his husbandly rights on her. He can't take it at all.

She can be Sai Joshi for the rest of the world. And now that she chose to offend the Virat Chavan and face the world as Sai Joshi, bruised his ego, he got hurt and wished her hardships.

Pakhi, even Bhavani, Sonali kaku understands all this, hence try to use it against Sai.

In Pulkit lunch drama also it was same that you will not go because I am telling you so.

Ousting also was so brutal because he realised that when he was busy romancing her, trying to tell her his feelings, she was actually not there 100%, had some other plans, her attention was divided.

I am confused Virat ko Pakhi mein perfect bahu kaise dikh gayi, humse to uski or dekha bhi nhi jata 🤣🤣

Waise I have one question maine virakhi ki prem katha miss karke koi galti to nhi krdi?

I mean kuch din pehle ex sasu bai ki story thi or aaj Sam muh bola pati hai ( Maine yogi ki story mein dekha didi ko follow krne ka dum nhi h) kuch miss ho gaya h kya mujhse 😭

Anybody please help me ye kya chakkar hai apna to bheja fry ho chuka h🤯

Originally posted by: Moonks

I am confused Virat ko Pakhi mein perfect bahu kaise dikh gayi, humse to uski or dekha bhi nhi jata 🤣🤣

Waise I have one question maine virakhi ki prem katha miss karke koi galti to nhi krdi?

I mean kuch din pehle ex sasu bai ki story thi or aaj Sam muh bola pati hai ( Maine yogi ki story mein dekha didi ko follow krne ka dum nhi h) kuch miss ho gaya h kya mujhse 😭

Anybody please help me ye kya chakkar hai apna to bheja fry ho chuka h🤯

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