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Originally posted by: mishtypie

You are right he has this saviour complex where he thinks that what ever he is doing is for others betterment but fails to realise that he is pushing them towards a disastrous situation in life. This same complexity made him to marry Sai. He knew sai was not ready to get married to him and he could have easily convinced the villagers that he will take care of her with out getting married but nope he went ahead and pushed sai into an unwanted triangle without her fault.

Sammy said the same when he entered,

Tune Sai ko bhi is triangle me kheech liya...

Which is 100% true.

The most heartless thing was marrying an orphan, who lost her father just days ago and repeating that you can never be my wife. Just think about how it would have hit her confidence, being the third person in her own marriage. I don't know why he had to marry her when she literally begged him to leave, maybe because she was vulnerable and attempted suicide but by that time she had realised her mistake, so the strong Sai Joshi won't have repeated that. Or maybe, he was attracted to her because till the time Sai reminded him of Pakhi, he didn't bother to think about Vaada or Didi.

I don't know if this is about him getting importance of being the favourite beta of the house or what but he feels he has all the rights to take decisions on behalf of others, like Pakhi thinks she has rights to interfere in topics which aren't remotely connected to her.

Originally posted by: nikita05

Sammy said the same when he entered,

Tune Sai ko bhi is triangle me kheech liya...

Which is 100% true.

The most heartless thing was marrying an orphan, who lost her father just days ago and repeating that you can never be my wife. Just think about how it would have hit her confidence, being the third person in her own marriage. I don't know why he had to marry her when she literally begged him to leave, maybe because she was vulnerable and attempted suicide but by that time she had realised her mistake, so the strong Sai Joshi won't have repeated that. Or maybe, he was attracted to her because till the time Sai reminded him of Pakhi, he didn't bother to think about Vaada or Didi.

I don't know if this is about him getting importance of being the favourite beta of the house or what but he feels he has all the rights to take decisions on behalf of others, like Pakhi thinks she has rights to interfere in topics which aren't remotely connected to her.

I just saw the clip where Virat brings Sai to CN and how Kaku and gang kept on insulting Sai even after knowing Kamal sir saved their favourite son's life. From that onwards till now Sai is subjected to all the tortures from the elders except few and Didi the great ofcourse. Remember when a false case was registered against Virat by Vittal instead of telling what exactly happened he chose to tell Didi and went on to tell how he is regrets certain decisions. And when sai went to sleep with UM and refused to go back when he came to call her his ego got hurt and told you know what is your position in this house. I seriously wish Sai should have taken the hostel room without his knowledge and moved out. And when she went to DIG and cleared his name he was back to his lovely self. I loved when Sai refused to go back to room. And angry on UM for tricking Sai to go to that room. He got everything easily so now it's hard for him to earn Sai's love because she chose not to submit herself to him like he wants.

I loved thappad movie because there amritha chose herself and her self respect over so called husband and marriage and I loved her father who supported her from the very begining. I'm sure if Kamal sir was alive at the first hand she didnt have to get married to Virat but some how if they gotten married and if Sai was facing the same things like she is now he would have supported her to come out of it unlike UM and ashwini who always tells her to adjust

Originally posted by: mishtypie

I just saw the clip where Virat brings Sai to CN and how Kaku and gang kept on insulting Sai even after knowing Kamal sir saved their favourite son's life. From that onwards till now Sai is subjected to all the tortures from the elders except few and Didi the great ofcourse. Remember when a false case was registered against Virat by Vittal instead of telling what exactly happened he chose to tell Didi and went on to tell how he is regrets certain decisions. And when sai went to sleep with UM and refused to go back when he came to call her his ego got hurt and told you know what is your position in this house. I seriously wish Sai should have taken the hostel room without his knowledge and moved out. And when she went to DIG and cleared his name he was back to his lovely self. I loved when Sai refused to go back to room. And angry on UM for tricking Sai to go to that room. He got everything easily so now it's hard for him to earn Sai's love because she chose not to submit herself to him like he wants.

I loved thappad movie because there amritha chose herself and her self respect over so called husband and marriage and I loved her father who supported her from the very begining. I'm sure if Kamal sir was alive at the first hand she didnt have to get married to Virat but some how if they gotten married and if Sai was facing the same things like she is now he would have supported her to come out of it unlike UM and ashwini who always tells her to adjust

Oh! I loved Thappad movie, such movies and ITV series should be made, not such regressive stuff.

Sirf ek thappad par nahi maar sakta 🙌

So powerful...

Virat thinks very highly of himself and his family. He is the most sorted person who thinks 100 times before speaking, his family has 'Ghar ke achhe bade' who gave pyaar, maan to Sai, his best friend is the most sundar susheel girl and Sai is akhad, badtameez, jungli mulgi. He hasn't changed from then, then Usha maushi's room is your real place, during ousting jaha se aayi hai vahi jaaye Gadchiroli and the way he says above with so much disgust, like Gadchiroli is not a liveable place, now it is the same, let her suffer the hardships of life and understand 'parivaar ki ehmiyat'. He disrespected Usha maushi, treated her as maid, more than once when he was the one who told her to accompany Sai to CN and knows her importance in Sai's life. Usha maushi is another irritating patriarchal woman. He disrespected Aaba and his upbringing, despite Kamal sir being his mentor and saviour. He never asked his family members to shut up when they questioned Kamal sir.

If Sai's Aaba was there, sai would have been saved. 2 people died that day with one bullet, Kamal Joshi and Sai Joshi. That's why Sai said 'Agar mere Aaba zinda hote to mujhe Virat sir jaise insaan se shaadi nahi karni padti'. She understands that truth fully. If at all they got married somehow, Virat won't have treated her like this, now it is all because she is orphan.

Ashwini is just her Godu ki aayi, she knows Sai's innocence and righteousness and that she is good for her son and family. Also, if somehow Sai and Virat separate, there are chances of V-P, which is what she doesn't want, that's why she was consoling and trying to convince P to not give divorce to Sam. In all the kaands, done jointly by Godu and didi, she always just selectively rebuked Didi, not even once said anything to V. After last accident of Sai, she attempted but that was too thanda.

Originally posted by: nikita05

Oh! I loved Thappad movie, such movies and ITV series should be made, not such regressive stuff.

Sirf ek thappad par nahi maar sakta 🙌

So powerful...

Virat thinks very highly of himself and his family. He is the most sorted person who thinks 100 times before speaking, his family has 'Ghar ke achhe bade' who gave pyaar, maan to Sai, his best friend is the most sundar susheel girl and Sai is akhad, badtameez, jungli mulgi. He hasn't changed from then, then Usha maushi's room is your real place, during ousting jaha se aayi hai vahi jaaye Gadchiroli and the way he says above with so much disgust, like Gadchiroli is not a liveable place, now it is the same, let her suffer the hardships of life and understand 'parivaar ki ehmiyat'. He disrespected Usha maushi, treated her as maid, more than once when he was the one who told her to accompany Sai to CN and knows her importance in Sai's life. Usha maushi is another irritating patriarchal woman. He disrespected Aaba and his upbringing, despite Kamal sir being his mentor and saviour. He never asked his family members to shut up when they questioned Kamal sir.

If Sai's Aaba was there, sai would have been saved. 2 people died that day with one bullet, Kamal Joshi and Sai Joshi. That's why Sai said 'Agar mere Aaba zinda hote to mujhe Virat sir jaise insaan se shaadi nahi karni padti'. She understands that truth fully. If at all they got married somehow, Virat won't have treated her like this, now it is all because she is orphan.

Ashwini is just her Godu ki aayi, she knows Sai's innocence and righteousness and that she is good for her son and family. Also, if somehow Sai and Virat separate, there are chances of V-P, which is what she doesn't want, that's why she was consoling and trying to convince P to not give divorce to Sam. In all the kaands, done jointly by Godu and didi, she always just selectively rebuked Didi, not even once said anything to V. After last accident of Sai, she attempted but that was too thanda.

You see in our society always girls have to adjust and learn to behave just because she has to get married to go to husband's house. Why can't parents teach their daughters to give importance to their self respect and mental health. Kamal sir raised Sai in proper way. Ofcourse her words are harsh and rude but most of the time her intentions are pure. She fought with Virat for her aaba's VRS because she feared for her aaba's life. She fought with those ladies for Shivani's dignity. She fought with elders for taking away food from Mohit. And she fought with everyone for Devi's happiness and in that process she was humiliated and bad mouthed. Yes virat stood up for her during her college admission and have done many other things. But did he ever took some time and asked himself what sai actually wants?? Or ever thought how his and Didi's behaviour is affecting her?? Or does a 19 year old deserves all the things which his family made her to go through?? Or why she is behaving like this?? Just because she rejected his anniversary surprise he forgot all the things she have done for him?? And now she selfish, ziddi and what not

Some one have to make didi realise in her jealousy what damage she have caused to Sai. She almost got Sai dead during Ajinkya's time.What would she have done if she was treated like Sai is being treated by her and the elders of CN??? It was virat who broke promise so all her anger should be directed towards him and not Sai. As I said she had choice and her father was ready to support her and also advised her to move on but she is so obsessed with two days love.

The show clearly put forward the fact that no one can love you as your parent.Ashwini is virat's mother not of sai.She know sai is the perfect choice for her son so she supports her and she dislikes pakhi .If she considered samrat as her own son she wouldn't have encouraged him to continue his marriage with pakhi as she is a women with no morals . In order to settle virat with sai without further damage samrat became scapegoat.The only difference we see in ashwini is that she doesn't plot against sai.

Coming to virat he has patriarchal mindset and this got activated when he begin to see sai as his love.During intial days he valued her studies more and I don't understand what pakhi see in him.Actually he scold him whenever she says something about sai in private after gc return,harini birthday,cafe but recently in front of sai he praise her.It seems like he want to hurt sai as a revenge

P-v equation will also be toxic in my pov because pakhi is arrogant and egoistic in nature.She says all sugary words to virat to get him but once she gets it her real nature will be out

With my understanding of virat character he had a dream girl in his thought but that type of girl never exist in a world.A girl who is beauty with brains,whom he can be proud of,modern in thoughts yet traditional in nature,fierce in nature but never question social norms,independent but dependent on him,honest and bold but never question him ,a girl who cares his family but undivided attention to him,must raise voice against injustice but not against family.

The idea of loving pakhi was implanted by sunny and I don't think any sense man will accept a woman whose character can be questioned and clearly never virat which was evident in aniket and ajinkya inccident.Pakhi running behind virat will be ultimate loser as she is destroying her own life

Originally posted by: mishtypie

You see in our society always girls have to adjust and learn to behave just because she has to get married to go to husband's house. Why can't parents teach their daughters to give importance to their self respect and mental health. Kamal sir raised Sai in proper way. Ofcourse her words are harsh and rude but most of the time her intentions are pure. She fought with Virat for her aaba's VRS because she feared for her aaba's life. She fought with those ladies for Shivani's dignity. She fought with elders for taking away food from Mohit. And she fought with everyone for Devi's happiness and in that process she was humiliated and bad mouthed. Yes virat stood up for her during her college admission and have done many other things. But did he ever took some time and asked himself what sai actually wants?? Or ever thought how his and Didi's behaviour is affecting her?? Or does a 19 year old deserves all the things which his family made her to go through?? Or why she is behaving like this?? Just because she rejected his anniversary surprise he forgot all the things she have done for him?? And now she selfish, ziddi and what not

Some one have to make didi realise in her jealousy what damage she have caused to Sai. She almost got Sai dead during Ajinkya's time.What would she have done if she was treated like Sai is being treated by her and the elders of CN??? It was virat who broke promise so all her anger should be directed towards him and not Sai. As I said she had choice and her father was ready to support her and also advised her to move on but she is so obsessed with two days love.

Movies are mirror of society. This serial is bit more OTT and dramatic but mostly this is what is happening in the society. However, change can come slowly with more revolutionary movies and series.

It's the perks of living in patriarchal society where a girl has to leave her house to go to her in-laws and beti paraaya dhan concept. This needs to change, why can't for once a husband leave his house and live at his wife's house or both leave their respective houses and start living separately after marriage. However, that's considered bad if a son leaves his old parents but it's a tradition if a daughter does the same. The way a girl is raised is mostly because of adjustment issues. It's always that after marriage, your in-laws house is your house and you need to adjust.

Sai Joshi is an emotion, however, it is getting lost by the time. She is the most stannable character in ITV for me and the day she is lost and Sai Virat Chavan starts to breathe, I might leave the serial for good, because many such characters are already present in ITV, she won't be unique then.

As I said, Virat, his best friend and his family never does any wrong. He threw out Sai and Usha Maushi when he thought Pulkit was a fraud and Devi tai could be in danger, however, he easily forgave Omi kaka when he was caught trying to play with Devi tai's life with forged documents. Kaku gave Harinee to orphanage, made Devi mentally unstable, but the redemption was participating in Harinee's birthday party, I mean how shallow is that. I have my doubts and get scared till date when kaku-Devi's goody scenes are shown... I mean how is that even possible, kaku never had a proper redemption, she never realised her mistakes, has not yet accepted Pulkit and Harinee. But they are all Ghar ke achhe bade and Pakhi is best friend.

When Pakhi's truth came out about siding with Kaku in Harinee's track and hiding the truth, what he did.... Requested her to participate in the play and then thanked her, even chased her to bring her back for cake cutting, giving all the credit to her when it was all Sai's plan.

All his harsh punishments and insults are reserved for Sai. And whatever he and his family does to Sai, it's just an anban at the end. I would blame Sai's over forgiving nature for this too. But to show the story with the same characters and increasing the number of episodes, that is required. In real life, no self respecting girl will tolerate the kind of treatment she is metted on.

Pakhi is a gone case. She would never understand her mistakes. Her morals are highly mistakes. You can see her traits in her mother, Vaishali too is a gone character, who has no sense of right and wrong. Sometimes, her expressions convey that she had done all that in trance, so when someone points it out, she gives all shocked expressions (maybe actor's fault). She is 7-8 years older than Sai and it's a shame how she treats her.

Also, Sai is an easier target in the Chavan Niwas to target and take her frustration out. The power gang is against Sai, they won't ever side with her. If she targets Virat, firstly he is the favourite son of the house, secondly he is Chavan, thirdly, the only earning member, fourthly, he is a powerful IPS officer (not shown though 🤭), so her chances of getting thrown out are more since all will support Virat in that case.

Originally posted by: dairymilkanu

The show clearly put forward the fact that no one can love you as your parent.Ashwini is virat's mother not of sai.She know sai is the perfect choice for her son so she supports her and she dislikes pakhi .If she considered samrat as her own son she wouldn't have encouraged him to continue his marriage with pakhi as she is a women with no morals . In order to settle virat with sai without further damage samrat became scapegoat.The only difference we see in ashwini is that she doesn't plot against sai.

Coming to virat he has patriarchal mindset and this got activated when he begin to see sai as his love.During intial days he valued her studies more and I don't understand what pakhi see in him.Actually he scold him whenever she says something about sai in private after gc return,harini birthday,cafe but recently in front of sai he praise her.It seems like he want to hurt sai as a revenge

P-v equation will also be toxic in my pov because pakhi is arrogant and egoistic in nature.She says all sugary words to virat to get him but once she gets it her real nature will be out

With my understanding of virat character he had a dream girl in his thought but that type of girl never exist in a world.A girl who is beauty with brains,whom he can be proud of,modern in thoughts yet traditional in nature,fierce in nature but never question social norms,independent but dependent on him,honest and bold but never question him ,a girl who cares his family but undivided attention to him,must raise voice against injustice but not against family.

The idea of loving pakhi was implanted by sunny and I don't think any sense man will accept a woman whose character can be questioned and clearly never virat which was evident in aniket and ajinkya inccident.Pakhi running behind virat will be ultimate loser as she is destroying her own life

True, I agree with everything you have written here.

The show is realistic in this regard that no one can unconditionally love you apart from your parents. This loving with flaws, unconditionally, seems to be more like an idea implanted by movies in our mind. A large number of couples in our society seem like that only where there may or may not be love but there is this 'kuch'.

Ashwini will always be Virat's mother and Sai's mother-in-law, maybe she would have treated and advised her own daughter (if she had one) like she does to Sai. She is scared for Virat-Sai and Sam-Pakhi relation because if anyone or both separate, means more chances for Virat-Pakhi, given that BK, Ninad and Omkar are on Pakhi's side.

Pakhi is just obsessive, how could V reject her. If they actually dated and had broken up amicably, she might have moved on. Till the time she thought she was moving on and marrying Samrat, she was okay. However, the moment Virat cleared the misunderstanding on haldi (should not have done that) but refused to marry her, she went berserk. It's like she can't take rejection from Samrat too.

P-V is also toxic in the way maybe that many of their traits match, likes repel. She would have been an obstruction in his professional life too, like in the beginning, she always had interference about where was he, whom he was talking to etc. She is too interfering and doesn't respect his job and elders. Like she would sweet talk the ones like BK, Sonali, because they hold more power, but will disrespect Ashwini. If they had married, maybe they would have separated, or would have started living separately, differences between aai-godu would have increased. She won't even think about other family members like Sai did. She is self centred, patriarchal and conservative, thinks just like other members of CN.

I agree on the qualities you mentioned which Virat sees in his wife. That's why he is trying always to mellow Sai down and make her adjust in that toxicity. His ego hurts when Sai starts taking control of her own life, takes her decisions, like financial documents or frees him of her responsibility. He should be the 'man' of the house.

In the beginning, P too looked independent, soft spoken girl, who would have gelled well with his family. Her intentions and motives were shown much later and whenever V came across her true self, there was this expression of disbelief everytime. Like what I thought of you, and what you actually are and that I expected better from you, in the earlier days of marriage (Shivani-amay fiasco).

The idea of loving Sai was also implanted by Sunny in his mind during Holi, till then it was like aadat ho gayi, pasand karta hu. He didn't reach the conclusion that he loved her on his own.

Yes, he won't accept Pakhi after all she has done, also she is Sam's wife. He uses Pakhi to get back to Sai, which is wrong. Sai won't ever realise his feelings for her and Pakhi will start having hopes again. Somewhere he sides with Pakhi to save his face too, if her truth comes out, it will also come out that he knew everything since the start, then too sided with her.

Originally posted by: dairymilkanu

The show clearly put forward the fact that no one can love you as your parent.Ashwini is virat's mother not of sai.She know sai is the perfect choice for her son so she supports her and she dislikes pakhi .If she considered samrat as her own son she wouldn't have encouraged him to continue his marriage with pakhi as she is a women with no morals . In order to settle virat with sai without further damage samrat became scapegoat.The only difference we see in ashwini is that she doesn't plot against sai.

Coming to virat he has patriarchal mindset and this got activated when he begin to see sai as his love.During intial days he valued her studies more and I don't understand what pakhi see in him.Actually he scold him whenever she says something about sai in private after gc return,harini birthday,cafe but recently in front of sai he praise her.It seems like he want to hurt sai as a revenge

P-v equation will also be toxic in my pov because pakhi is arrogant and egoistic in nature.She says all sugary words to virat to get him but once she gets it her real nature will be out

With my understanding of virat character he had a dream girl in his thought but that type of girl never exist in a world.A girl who is beauty with brains,whom he can be proud of,modern in thoughts yet traditional in nature,fierce in nature but never question social norms,independent but dependent on him,honest and bold but never question him ,a girl who cares his family but undivided attention to him,must raise voice against injustice but not against family.

The idea of loving pakhi was implanted by sunny and I don't think any sense man will accept a woman whose character can be questioned and clearly never virat which was evident in aniket and ajinkya inccident.Pakhi running behind virat will be ultimate loser as she is destroying her own life

Originally posted by: nikita05

Movies are mirror of society. This serial is bit more OTT and dramatic but mostly this is what is happening in the society. However, change can come slowly with more revolutionary movies and series.

It's the perks of living in patriarchal society where a girl has to leave her house to go to her in-laws and beti paraaya dhan concept. This needs to change, why can't for once a husband leave his house and live at his wife's house or both leave their respective houses and start living separately after marriage. However, that's considered bad if a son leaves his old parents but it's a tradition if a daughter does the same. The way a girl is raised is mostly because of adjustment issues. It's always that after marriage, your in-laws house is your house and you need to adjust.

Sai Joshi is an emotion, however, it is getting lost by the time. She is the most stannable character in ITV for me and the day she is lost and Sai Virat Chavan starts to breathe, I might leave the serial for good, because many such characters are already present in ITV, she won't be unique then.

As I said, Virat, his best friend and his family never does any wrong. He threw out Sai and Usha Maushi when he thought Pulkit was a fraud and Devi tai could be in danger, however, he easily forgave Omi kaka when he was caught trying to play with Devi tai's life with forged documents. Kaku gave Harinee to orphanage, made Devi mentally unstable, but the redemption was participating in Harinee's birthday party, I mean how shallow is that. I have my doubts and get scared till date when kaku-Devi's goody scenes are shown... I mean how is that even possible, kaku never had a proper redemption, she never realised her mistakes, has not yet accepted Pulkit and Harinee. But they are all Ghar ke achhe bade and Pakhi is best friend.

When Pakhi's truth came out about siding with Kaku in Harinee's track and hiding the truth, what he did.... Requested her to participate in the play and then thanked her, even chased her to bring her back for cake cutting, giving all the credit to her when it was all Sai's plan.

All his harsh punishments and insults are reserved for Sai. And whatever he and his family does to Sai, it's just an anban at the end. I would blame Sai's over forgiving nature for this too. But to show the story with the same characters and increasing the number of episodes, that is required. In real life, no self respecting girl will tolerate the kind of treatment she is metted on.

Pakhi is a gone case. She would never understand her mistakes. Her morals are highly mistakes. You can see her traits in her mother, Vaishali too is a gone character, who has no sense of right and wrong. Sometimes, her expressions convey that she had done all that in trance, so when someone points it out, she gives all shocked expressions (maybe actor's fault). She is 7-8 years older than Sai and it's a shame how she treats her.

Also, Sai is an easier target in the Chavan Niwas to target and take her frustration out. The power gang is against Sai, they won't ever side with her. If she targets Virat, firstly he is the favourite son of the house, secondly he is Chavan, thirdly, the only earning member, fourthly, he is a powerful IPS officer (not shown though 🤭), so her chances of getting thrown out are more since all will support Virat in that case.

I will tell about myself. I'm 28 years old, working. I thought our community doesn't differentiate between men and women but I was wrong. Last year I said no to a proposal because I was not ready to get married so it was made as big issue and I had to bear the heat some how things went normal. But then the lady who got that proposal informed my mom that the guy is getting married so again I'm facing the heat. And I was told by mother that girl should never tell no to proposal because it hurts the other party. Then what about girl will she not get hurt???

I was attracted to Sai Joshi's character because some where I see myself in her. How she is fighting for herself and how she is questioning the society. Why is it so difficult for girls to achieve their dreams??? Sai is a victim of this so called society. She was forced to get married because there is no one to take care of her. Then she was again forced to change her name but she took the stand for herself and I'm happy that virat supported her. But what about the support when she needed him the most??? Virat tells that he is sorted and mature one with patience and thinks from his mind then why can't he digest a no from a 19 old who doesn't have any knowledge romantic relation. She clarified many times that she and ajinkya are just friends but he got so pissed off and character assassinated when he saw her with ajinkya. Then he blamed his anger issues made him react like that. But doesn't he trust Sai?? Don't he know that Sai will not do anything like that?? He can talk to his ex and can go to cafe to meet her up but when it comes to Sai why such hypocrisy??

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

@bold perfectly described virat's ideal girl definition. He got attracted to sai because of her fierce, never bending, straightforward nature. But when she shows same qualities towards him he can't take it. Because it hurts his ego. As u said he wants her to love his family but she should give him whole attention. He can't take if she chooses his family over him. He many times made it clear through his actions. After their fight over pool side vaada confrontation when sai took care of him for his back pain she was about to leave to do chores but he tried to stop her & told her to took care of him. He is the same person who said her to do all home chores as a bahu. Before pendant drama he asked her to make adjustments in the family, when she actually made adjustments by giving her pendant to kaku in order to not escalate drama in house he got offended. He didn't cared what his family talked, he didn't cared to think what made sai to give back her pendant all he cared about is sai didn't value his gift, after anniversary confrontation he told sunny, mohit that sai said she will continue her relationship with his family but not him after going out of house when in real she said she will meet him too. He forgeted that part because he has that strong thinking that sai gives importance to family more than him, In yesterday episode he particularly said sai informed about her leaving house to devi tai but not him, he can't digest the fact that sai shares her secret with others but not him, he again & again mentioned how she didn't told him anything,how she took her financial documents from him. All these hurted his patriarchal ego. He couldn't take sai leaving the place when he is talking about modaks. He don't care what pakhi speak or what made sai leave the place. It's all about himself. For him he was talking about modaks but she didn't even pay attention to his talks. Virat is so self absorbed that he can't think anything beyond himself & his feelings. By leaving his house sai choosed outside world over him & his family which again hurted his ego. Thus wanted her to face outside world challenges. He thinks himself of so high but he didn't realise how selfish he is. His muje kya mila says everything. I always said he don't love pakhi too. He defends her for his own selfish reasons. She has authority in house by having kaku support so he won't speak against her easily. She boosts his ego by supporting him in whatever he does so he don't mind her speaking shit about his wife. He won't accept pakhi even if there is no samrat & sai. Because there's nothing challenging about her. He don't want sai to be pakhi. He wants sai to have all the qualities she inherently has but those qualities shouldn't question him, shouldn't challenge his ego. First this guy needs to calm down & stop thinking himself as some mahaan. Because he is nothing but a typical selfish patriarchal guy with loose morals.

Perfectly written 👍

This self absorbent nature can be seen in tumhe tumhara sach pata hoga, mera sach ye hai, to both Sai and Pakhi. It's like his feelings matter. He has moved on from Pakhi, so it doesn't matter to him what her intentions are in being sweet to Samrat. That's why, when Sai tells about the intentions behind pooja he is like mai sab samajh raha hu par baat Abhi vo hai hi nahi.

Also one more instance during ousting night, when Sai comes home after Devi's wedding and knocks the door, rings the bell and calls out people to open the door, you can see his expressions when she calls out aai, UM, Shivani bua, Mohit to open the door, it's like why doesn't she call my name, if she calls my name I'll surely open the gate, something like that.