I made an earlier post about why Anu is obsessed with Baa. Here let's try to understand that:
1. Anu got married at a young age and since then Baa has been an authoritative figure in her life
2. She might not have been close to her mother or might not have received much support from her mother post marriage
3. As it happens in many households, she must have been fed from childhood how u should worship your MIL
4. She didn't have any married friends to compare how is a MIL-DIL relationship
5. She was grateful to Baa that she was not worthy of V but still they accepted her as a DIL(I know Leela has time and again said Anu was selected by her MIL and she never liked Anu)
6. She tirelessly worked for 26 years just to appease Leela and when Leela took her side(1-2 baar hi sahi) during EMA revelation track, she felt uski mehnat rang layi
7. Lastly I feel she has slave mentality that she cannot listen anything against her master(Leela) and cannot see that she is being abused emotionally and mentally
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