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Posted: 4 years ago

I would like to bring into notice,moderators that some members are addressing Patralekha as Virat’s first wife. Ridiculing Hindu marriage or any other marriage for that matter is not done. Sai Joshi is the legally wedded wife of Virat Chavan and Patralekha is his bhabhi. Patralekha might be his Ex girl friend whom he wanted to marry but could not do so . That doesn’t mean she can be termed as his first wife.

I hope people realise that mocking the sanctity of legal marriage is wrong by all means.

Edited by ltelidevara - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

When Patralekha herself posts pic with Ashwini and Mansi, declaring the former as her ex Saas, how do you expect fans to react?

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: wanderingsoul1

When Patralekha herself posts pic with Ashwini and Mansi, declaring the former as her ex Saas, how do you expect fans to react?

One wrong should not get validation by making it into two. She is wrong and many called out on twitter and tagged the makers also. It’s ok if certain charecters are mocked but it should not be done by ridiculing the sanctity Of marriage .
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Posted: 4 years ago

And in the last episode of KD, the entire problem was resolved with just 'ek chutki sindoor. '

Have you watched the last episode of KD by any chance?


What many viewers failed to realize during Kusum Dola and now also in Ghum is that how disturbing it is/was for Sai/Emon to witness the relationship between her husband and his ex. It is a type of psychological abuse which Virat is inflicting on his wife. And Sai, according to the story is just 19 years old. More than a husband who is grappling with his insecurities and ego, she needs a guardian who is solid and unwavering in his stance. This is the main phase of her life. Give that girl a father figure, please. Romance can come later - when both Virat and Sai will be ready for it. Sai should not come back to CNiwas.

Edited by ChhalkiSyaahi - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I would like to bring into notice,moderators that some members are addressing Patralekha as Virat’s first wife. Ridiculing Hindu marriage or any other marriage for that matter is not done. Sai Joshi is the legally wedded wife of Virat Chavan and Patralekha is his bhabhi. Patralekha might be his Ex girl friend whom he wanted to marry but could not do so . That doesn’t mean she can be termed as his first wife.

I hope people realise that mocking the sanctity of legal marriage is wrong by all means.

👏👏 I echo your thoughts .
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: ChhalkiSyaahi

And in the last episode of KD, the entire problem was resolved with just 'ek chutki sindoor. '

Have you watched the last episode of KD by any chance?


What many viewers failed to realize during Kusum Dola and now also in Ghum is that how disturbing it is/was for Sai/Emon to witness the relationship between her husband and his ex. It is a type of psychological abuse which Virat is inflicting on his wife. And Sai, according to the story is just 19 years old. More than a husband who is grappling with his insecurities and ego, she needs a guardian who is solid and unwavering in his stance. This is the main phase of her life. Give that girl a father figure, please. Romance can come later - when both Virat and Sai will be ready for it. Sai should not come back to CNiwas.

I know the whole presence of the third person in two people's life has been undermined by many, including the makers just because there is not a physical relationship between the Bhabhi , but they have everything else and the devar and because the ML has been shown to be constantly muttering to himself "I Love Sai" , "I Love Sai"!!

By having him put Sindoor giving lovey dovey looks to his wife, after harassing the wife with his ex just some 12 hours back, knowing very well she is low and probably leaving, one cannot talk about the sanctity of marriage. The sanctity of marriage cannot be established by just putting sindoor, romancing and giving gifts and not having physical intimacy with the third person involved..The sanctity was destroyed the moment the ex gets to not just interfere but also name call the wife, with the husband joining the bandwagon when he is supposedly hurt, knowing completely well the ex's intentions against the wife... The sanctity was destroyed long back...The third woman , the ex, or rather the first woman has been treated and prioritized too many times over wife when it comes to giving respect.

Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Ppl here don’t realize that sai has been broken psychologically. Just look at her initial phase in CN and now. She was subjected to torments even then but she faced them with her chin up. But everyone has a limit. The constant harassment, with her husband active and tacit support, has finally taken its toll. She wants to escape instead of facing her tormentors.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Hum virat ke liye kuch bhi likh sakte hai apni imagination ke according


Pakhi ko kuch bhi keh sakte


Lekin sirf restriction sai ke liye , usse ko hum kuch nhi keh sakte

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

Hum virat ke liye kuch bhi likh sakte hai apni imagination ke according


Pakhi ko kuch bhi keh sakte


Lekin sirf restriction sai ke liye , usse ko hum kuch nhi keh sakte

I get it you probably like Virat. 😆 why are you boiling your blood. If you feel frustrated, focus on the guy in your dp. Things are much better there 😜

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I get it you probably like Virat. 😆 why are you boiling your blood. If you feel frustrated, focus on the guy in your dp. Things are much better there 😜


Mein bahut thodi si sai ki tareef karna chahti hoon usme bhi logo problem hai , itne samay se virat ki tareef ho rahi tab ko kuch nhi kehta language pe dhyan nhi deta saari language pe dhyan sai ke time hona chahiye 🤪

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