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Posted: 3 years ago
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@surabhi I saw couple of your posts and they seem extremely polarized. So I'm just going to keep a short response.

I never said that it's bad to call family but no one gives minute to minute updates. Especially when you are at a client's office with your business partner - the most unprofessional thing you can do is make a personal call and talk about Khana and papad!

Yes, she is new to the business world but she has to have some common sense. It's common sense to not give continues updates.


It's okay to be excited while traveling for the first time in a flight but no one makes childish drawings.


It's common sense to detach from your ex after a divorce and not analyse their relationship with their current spouse. I mean who is she trying to be ? Vanraaj's relationship advisor ?


The problem with her behaviour is that not only is it immature it also shows her lack of common sense and that is irritating.


I can respect a woman who has always been a home maker, who cares more abouther family than her own life. What I can't respect is someone who continues to be a doormat despite having been treated like crap by people. She herself acknowledged to vaneaaj that she behaved like a 'paidaan' so then why give relationship advise to the creep who treated her like a paidaan ??


Someone mentioned that it could be trauma .. perhaps it is. But does trauma really turn you into a bozo with no common sense and no self respect ??

Edited by waiting - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#32

Anupama ne meeting mein call nahi kiya tha ghar mein . But jub woh meeting se bahar aayi ya jub meeting mein nahin pahuchi to kyon nahin call kar sakti ghar pe

Jub anupama restaurant mein baithi hai to kyon nahin ghar call kar sakti

Jub anupama samudra mein ke paas thi to kyon nahin bata sakti ki woh samudra ke pass khadi hai

Dont know isme kya un professional ho gaya

Phir to aise anupama to kabhi call hi nahin kar payegi ghar mein because aise to anupama most of time anuj ke pass business ki wajah se rahe gi kaam ki wajah. Se

Btw i want toh ask where she gave. Minute minute upadte

Even if she gave minute minute update and draw drawing so what . Wht is harm in this

Edited by surabhi01 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#33

And who is vanraj to. Comment on anuj and anupama relation ship . See anupMa to apna enjoy kar rahi thi but yeh vanraj ne apni faltu bakwaas kar diya. Ki tum dono. Beach mein ghum rahe ho . Vanraj ko. Kya matlab

Jub vanraj aise failta ki bakwaas karega to palat ke aise hi jawaab khayegaa. It is good ki annapurna ko vanraj ki bhasha mein hi jawaab diya

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Posted: 3 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: waiting

Why the hell is Anupama calling her home every damn 2 minutes and giving minute by minute updates to babuji ??

In the flight, after the meeting, at the beach and even in the restaurant! How many times did she talk to them .. like c'mon , you have gone only for a day and if you inform them about your safe arrival once that should be fine!

If only she starts behaving like a grown up mature adult then people will start respecting her. Calling home every minute like a child just shows her immaturity and no wonder people in her family like toshu feel she won't be able to manage on her own.


During her conversation with Vanraj there was absolutely no need for her to analyse his relation with Kaavya. She showed him place and that should have been it. 'apke rishte me ego ki jagah nhi he' bhashan was not needed. I mean how come she has no self respect?? She really needs to know what to say, when to say and to whom to say. It's almost as if at times she is trying to be Vanraaj's therapist when in reality she herself is in dire need of therapy.

Because it's her first time going out on a trip I guess. Plus maybe she is bored alone or just feels the need to share her excitement with her bapuji.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I dont understand why is everyone being so judgemental here?

There are many people who give minute to minute updates to their family members. Just because you dont do so, doenst mean others dont or cant do so.

And its quite relatable, Anu was happy, and she just wanted to share her happiness with her father-in-law. What's wrong in it?

And as for the childish drawing, like seriously? Is that even something important to analyze?Lol. The way you are complaining over someone's display of excitement is not really very mature, I would say.

And as for giving bashan to vanraj on his relationship to kavya, Anu just did so because Vanraj was continously comparing his relationship of anu and his relationship with kavya. Otheriwise, if its upto Anu, she wouldnt have even bothered talking to him. He came to her table and started blabbering utter bullshit, she even tried to ignore, but even when he wasn't stopping, she gave him a reply.

I personally believe, whatever Anu said today was honestly to the point and very apt.

And as for being childish, maturity means not being excited about life and only keeping a 24*7 serious face is it?Seeing her excitement, i really thought, there are so many things that we take for granted in life. Travelling in flight, going to a beach is pretty normal for us, but for some it can be a dream coem true.

Many adults get excited when they go to disney world or amusement parks also, does it mean that they are childish?

Live and let live.

Edited by shubhK2308 - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#36

why cant she shut him up by telling mind your own business🤪

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