Will this woman ever grow up???

Why the hell is Anupama calling her home every damn 2 minutes and giving minute by minute updates to babuji ??

In the flight, after the meeting, at the beach and even in the restaurant! How many times did she talk to them .. like c'mon , you have gone only for a day and if you inform them about your safe arrival once that should be fine!

If only she starts behaving like a grown up mature adult then people will start respecting her. Calling home every minute like a child just shows her immaturity and no wonder people in her family like toshu feel she won't be able to manage on her own.

During her conversation with Vanraj there was absolutely no need for her to analyse his relation with Kaavya. She showed him place and that should have been it. 'apke rishte me ego ki jagah nhi he' bhashan was not needed. I mean how come she has no self respect?? She really needs to know what to say, when to say and to whom to say. It's almost as if at times she is trying to be Vanraaj's therapist when in reality she herself is in dire need of therapy.

Originally posted by: waiting

Why the hell is Anupama calling her home every damn 2 minutes and giving minute by minute updates to babuji ??

In the flight, after the meeting, at the beach and even in the restaurant! How many times did she talk to them .. like c'mon , you have gone only for a day and if you inform them about your safe arrival once that should be fine!

If only she starts behaving like a grown up mature adult then people will start respecting her. Calling home every minute like a child just shows her immaturity and no wonder people in her family like toshu feel she won't be able to manage on her own.

During her conversation with Vanraj there was absolutely no need for her to analyse his relation with Kaavya. She showed him place and that should have been it. 'apke rishte me ego ki jagah nhi he' bhashan was not needed. I mean how come she has no self respect?? She really needs to know what to say, when to say and to whom to say. It's almost as if at times she is trying to be Vanraaj's therapist when in reality she herself is in dire need of therapy.

Totally correct , i think she had really not grown up as a mature adult from last 25 yrs. wo jahan thi wahi hai. The way she was calling that was damn kiddish and usne Samar ko bhi bilkul apne jaise hi bana diya hai🤢And seriously apni first flight mein log excited hote hai par aise bacho ke tarah kaun excitement dikhata hai too 😵

Originally posted by: waiting

Why the hell is Anupama calling her home every damn 2 minutes and giving minute by minute updates to babuji ??

In the flight, after the meeting, at the beach and even in the restaurant! How many times did she talk to them .. like c'mon , you have gone only for a day and if you inform them about your safe arrival once that should be fine!

If only she starts behaving like a grown up mature adult then people will start respecting her. Calling home every minute like a child just shows her immaturity and no wonder people in her family like toshu feel she won't be able to manage on her own.

During her conversation with Vanraj there was absolutely no need for her to analyse his relation with Kaavya. She showed him place and that should have been it. 'apke rishte me ego ki jagah nhi he' bhashan was not needed. I mean how come she has no self respect?? She really needs to know what to say, when to say and to whom to say. It's almost as if at times she is trying to be Vanraaj's therapist when in reality she herself is in dire need of therapy.

Lol cool down it's just a show and basically all these bashing should be given to writers and the creatives !! Not anu 🤣🤣

Agreed.

At one side she is shown to be partnering for a hotel, in which she will be not just managing but even making sure the team is capable of doing their duties on their own, and at other side her pampering made the entire the family handicap without her presence in the house.

Can't the shahs remember to take their own medicine? Yes they can. Can't they decide what to cook and eat? Yes they can. But its anumapa who goes overboard every time.

Why why she keeps calling them all the time for updates? 😡

Even bapuji is no less. Why can't he tell her to not call and inquiry about everything every other second? She can share her experience with him and others once she gets back, whats the hurry? Baa ko bhi btadena.. when baa is herself not inetersred why is she going overboard. Its like she needs to inform each and everything that she does and thinks to baa & bapuji.

What is problem if she call bapuji every 2 minute. Or every 2 second Anupama ka mobile aur uska paisa woh call kar sakti hai.jub bapuji ko problem nahin to hame kyon ho problem . Ab anupama call bhi nahin kar sakti ??

Ab anupama call bhi nahi kare anupama aise nahin chale anupama aise nahin bole anupama aise nahin khaye anupama aise nahin piye anupama aise nahin hase anupama aise nahin roye

To anupama kya kare jaakur

kur kone mein jakar bus chup chaap baith jaaye. ??

Originally posted by: waiting

Why the hell is Anupama calling her home every damn 2 minutes and giving minute by minute updates to babuji ??

In the flight, after the meeting, at the beach and even in the restaurant! How many times did she talk to them .. like c'mon , you have gone only for a day and if you inform them about your safe arrival once that should be fine!

If only she starts behaving like a grown up mature adult then people will start respecting her. Calling home every minute like a child just shows her immaturity and no wonder people in her family like toshu feel she won't be able to manage on her own.

During her conversation with Vanraj there was absolutely no need for her to analyse his relation with Kaavya. She showed him place and that should have been it. 'apke rishte me ego ki jagah nhi he' bhashan was not needed. I mean how come she has no self respect?? She really needs to know what to say, when to say and to whom to say. It's almost as if at times she is trying to be Vanraaj's therapist when in reality she herself is in dire need of therapy.

It's nothing wrong or childish coz people in real do call their family members I myself call my mother before leaving or after reaching office or some outstation just inform her I reached safely . I had seen other people also doing it .

It shown anu had first time went alone that side outside ahemdabad that's why she bit worried for home & that's true without anu that shah house can't manage .

I remember when anu was in a state of shock after she caught Vanya red handed in her room on her marriage anniversary other family members even baa don't know which medicine at what time is to be given to bapuji as his BP shoot up .

Anu is still in phrase of learning .

Anupama choti bachi hai tabhi to usne 25 year tuk shah family ka dil se khyaal rakha

Anupama ko excitement share karene ka bhi afhikarar bhi nahin hai??

Haan to yeh toshu jo apni maa ko bevakoof samajhta hai aur kehte hai maa Manage nahin kar sakti to toshu Manage kare na 40 lakh dene

Khud to toshu ek rupya ki help nahin ki ki loan kaise chukaayen aur aaya bada maa ko seekh dene wala ki maa Manage nahin kar paayegi

Yeh toshu to bus anupama mein bus buraai nikalta hai but aaj tuk kabhi loan kaise chukaayen iske baare mein nahin socha

Anupama ne to apni 25 year se apni khushi ke naare mein kabhi nahin socha hamesha doosre ke liye khushi ke liye apne khushi sacrifice karti rahi

18 year ki umr mein anupama shhasdi ksr aayi aur 18 year ki umar mein hi anupama ne sincerly family ki responsbily nibhayi aur aaj jub anupama khush hai excitted haio yrh bahut bada crime ho. Gaya ?

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

It's nothing wrong or childish coz people in real do call their family members I myself call my mother before leaving or after reaching office or some outstation just inform her I reached safely . I had seen other people also doing it .

It shown anu had first time went alone that side outside ahemdabad that's why she bit worried for home & that's true without anu that shah house can't manage .

I remember when anu was in a state of shock after she caught Vanya red handed in her room on her marriage anniversary other family members even baa don't know which medicine at what time is to be given to bapuji as his BP shoot up .

Anu is still in phrase of learning .

Correct I like you have described even my mother call me 10 times it nothing wrong anu just makes thing feels so relatable!! She'll learn by her own.

I am about 41 and been working part-time since I am 16.

Now that I stay away from my bro and parents

Now I am.on a child care break but when I am working I am constantly in touch with bro and husband

Morning bro and me both use office transport around same time so we say hello and discuss our days schedule , breakfast what we had ..random stuff

After lunch I leave a text /call saying I had lunch did u ?

When leaving office I text husband , bro and father in law. If it's late FIL comes to drop point to walk me home.

Once I reach shower and make dinner I do call bro and chat for 5 mins to say hello or later after all chores to say goodnight.

This is normal days .. outstation then I confess many more times , sometimes for advise on where to eat , professional advise .

It all matter of habit or routine🙈

Originally posted by: magicalM

Totally correct , i think she had really not grown up as a mature adult from last 25 yrs. wo jahan thi wahi hai. The way she was calling that was damn kiddish and usne Samar ko bhi bilkul apne jaise hi bana diya hai🤢And seriously apni first flight mein log excited hote hai par aise bacho ke tarah kaun excitement dikhata hai too 😵

So so true in ur last statement.. aise excitement kaun dikhata hai...🤣 and she also fell asleep like a kid.. and Anuj had some weird baadalon ke bech mein so ke aai analogy for that..