To save a girl's honor, ruining your wife's life? How is it correct?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r2RAv5PDve4

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rp3ggj-Xz1A

No it's not correct that for saving one life destroy other person life .

Sab kuch itna jaldi hua ki ani ko kuch samajhne ka mauka nahi mila usse jo theek laga vo usne kiya . Ani also know how women r being treated at that time , if he would had opened his mouth it would had brought lot of trouble for tapur which bon to would get effected. Ani somewhere do had a trust on bon that she will definitely protect him but still ani is not right in troubling bon & RCs by his silence.