Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #95|Bhabhi Maa's Adbhut Pregnancy - Page 55

This week we will only get bhabi ma's mood swings.. next week we will get krish janardan drama and court drama most probably

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

It was an arranged and forced marriage

She could not have talked about eternal love from the beginning

She wanted to make happy memories with him which would fade away any bad memories

I think raavi put enough efforts

I disagree.

I never said I wanted her to talk about eternal love. She should have talked about taking the time to understand each other others wishes, needs and wants, and learning to care for each other. Especially since it was an arranged and a forced marriage. Instead, she always said that they should adjust or compromise, right from the get go. That would come later, not at the very beginning.

Shiva must have done all that he did to push raavi away but for raavi it did come across as shiva being weak and insecure so I really hope the makers have written something to show raavi how strong shiva can be when he knows that the love is from the other side as well

If h can be so passionate about one sided love , I can't wait to see when he will realise that there are feelings from the other side as well

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

I disagree.

I never said I wanted her to talk about internal love. She should have talked about taking the time to understand each other others wishes, needs and wants, and leaning to care for each other. Especially since it was an arranged and a forced marriage. Instead, she always said that they should adjust or compromise, right from the get go.

Yes, I agree she chose the wrong words to start the conversation like adjustment and compromise but before that she also asked to start as unknown or do the friendship.

But Shiva never started the conversation.

Originally posted by: deeps07

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It's not what she said that's wrong...except the weak part.. shiva is just too strong that he opted to leave her than go with her compromise despite wanting her..

its what is she not speaking abt that makes me feel wrong.. she is speaking abt her marrg only..

If she wants the marriage to work without any feelings,then shiva is right to break this marrg..

But if she has feelings ,it's high time she speaks about it..

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This is why I want Shiva to step back. His ways of going about it were wrong, but his reasons to give her the divorce are not. They still stand 🤷

Originally posted by: deeps07

It is possible that rishitha might give him some good advice on never changing for others happiness..she herself is facing such a crisis..if not anyone.. she is the best person to understand his feelings right now..

It would be nice to see one positive interaction between Shiva and Rishita

Anyway things are going to go haywire between them once Shiva beats up jaanu because of Krish 😆

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Shiva must have done all that he did to push raavi away but for raavi it did come across as shiva being weak and insecure so I really hope the makers have written something to show raavi how strong shiva can be when he knows that the love is from the other side as well

If h can be so passionate about one sided love , I can't wait to see when he will realise that there are feelings from the other side as well

It is his strength that he wanted to break his marrg with her once he realised she can never like him..when she was clearly making all the efforts asking about compromise and was sticking to the marrg..

A weak person would have taken her directions and let life decide for them.. but he wanted her to live with her choices..and not life choose for her...

Shiva is way stronger than ravi actually..she is atleast standings up for herself in this fight. .he is not even doing that .he is not telling anyone about his true feelings..he told abt insecurity..but never about his feelings for ravi..he is giving no justification to his actions by saying what he felt for her ..and all that is only for her.

Originally posted by: mpks1

One Dhara-Raavi conversation moved the discussion to Shiva and Raavi and we all completely forgot about BhabiMa's mood swings😆

Ever since I watched the episode I haven't made a single post on BhabiMa😆

Can we have Shiva's conversation with Rishita or Dhara or even his monologue in tomorrow's episode, so we can again be distracted from BhabiMa' mood swings?😆

True Prema .

Frankly speaking talking abhout of watching Dhara's mood swings is very very draining . Especially when it's the first thing you do at 6 am in the morning .

We get it that she is pregnant and has mood swings , insecurities and what not but the representation of the same is so OTT and caricaturish. In reality , things like this are not really funny . People don't behave so odd ,if there isn't really something going wrong in their lives or if they have a reson to believe something could go wrong. It's not that the woman just wants to trouble people around , it's that all the emotions are felt more deeply due to the hormonnal changes.

Having a female writer but they are still getting this so damn wrong. I don't think any of the audience can empathise even 0.1 % with this Dhara .

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

If Shiva does change his style for Raavi, then I want her to reject him once and for all, so that he gives up and shuts down completely. Then we can see progress from raavi's side. She will be forced to evaluate her feelings then and think if she really wants to be passive towards her marriage and live a life without Shiva in it

I already want Shiva to go into a shell. It was heartbreaking to see him look at those clothes and get FB's of Raavi's friends.

Raavi knows about his insecurities and inferiority complex but not in a mood to deal with him. The way the makers wrote her dialogues completely blaming him for the entire thing was not good. They have given Raavi a clean chit and has clearly indicated that she hasn't done anything wrong. Shiva's breakdown when it happens will also result in his heartbreak when he finally realizes that his love was always one sided. Poor guy is going to go through hell. It is like Shiva is paying the price for what the Pandyas did to Raavi.

Originally posted by: mpks1

I already want Shiva to go into a shell. It was heartbreaking to see him look at those clothes and get FB's of Raavi's friends.

Raavi knows about his insecurities and inferiority complex but not in a mood to deal with him. The way the makers wrote her dialogues completely blaming him for the entire thing was not good. They have given Raavi a clean chit and has clearly indicated that she hasn't done anything wrong. Shiva's breakdown when it happens will also result in his heartbreak when he finally realizes that his love always one sided. Poor guy is going to go through hell. It is like Shiva is paying the price for what the Pandyas did to Raavi.

I agree

Why is it shown that only Shiva is at fault?

Why wasnt it said that Raavi remained silent too when her friends were spewing non sense. If she didn’t agree then she should have spoken out. Her silence have given him more trauma.

If only she had just told them about how hardworking he is, I think he wouldn’t have been so much angry.

But the whole fault has been put on his head... Where is her fault?

Is she faultless? Blameless?